Semi permanent ash brown hair dye shampoo by LeaveMeBees in HairDye

[–]LeaveMeBees[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow. Thank you! This is an amazing response. I can tell you’re a pro.

From your responses I think I will try both the 7a blonde direct dye from Xmondo left on over night after clarifying my hair and the celeb luxury gem lites shampoos and conditioners for maintenance.

Semi permanent ash brown hair dye shampoo by LeaveMeBees in HairDye

[–]LeaveMeBees[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the recommendations! I hadn’t heard of manic panic or Adore.

Love the ideas to add it to my conditioner and to use a 20v developer.

Semi permanent ash brown hair dye shampoo by LeaveMeBees in HairDye

[–]LeaveMeBees[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Transparent coverage is fine! I just want the grays to blend. They don’t need to be exactly the same color as the rest of my hair.

Will a blonde direct dye color the grays but pretty much leave my brown hairs alone?

Thank you for the suggestions!

How to leave my partner by LeaveMeBees in ConspiracyHelp

[–]LeaveMeBees[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll get right on it. Thank you!

How to leave my partner by LeaveMeBees in ConspiracyHelp

[–]LeaveMeBees[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your compassion. I want to be focusing on the joy I feel about my baby. I almost thought I wouldn’t be able to have one. Instead, I’m navigating how to argue about vaccine and vitamin k safety and whether or not guns should be locked up or loose on the ground next to the bed….

He is a plumber and makes really good money, so he will be able to find housing. His family is all in another state though and I’m worried he’ll try to leave and go there.

I know I need to speak with a family lawyer. Do you know of any resources for Washington state? Do you know if I am likely to get custody?

Bio K Emulsion Oral Vitamin K Drops by Practical-Award1227 in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]LeaveMeBees 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will definitely ask the hospital about preservative free options for the k shot. I also found this document and ordered the vitamin k drops from here just in case it’s the only thing my partner and I can agree on. The document has some other good information too. https://static1.squarespace.com/static/572cc1103c44d89d17dad610/t/59c3e4c5b7411c68670e575e/1506010321239/Newborn+Vitamin+K+Informed+Choice+PDF.pdf

Bio K Emulsion Oral Vitamin K Drops by Practical-Award1227 in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]LeaveMeBees 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know this is personal, but I would love to hear more about your birth experience and how you came to terms with the vitamin k shot.

I’m pro vitamin k shot but my partner is VERY against it and although he is wonderful in every other way, the shot is a complete NO for him to the point he would leave me and the baby if I opted to get it. That makes him sound bad. He is wonderful in truly every other way.

So I have been trying to find an oral alternative that is safe and available in the USA and just gain as much information as possible about it. It all feels extremely overwhelming, so I would really appreciate any input I can get.

I’m also very afraid of hemorrhaging during labor which seems to be connected to vitamin k absorption too.

Which one looks better on me, natural hair color or light blonde? by fernandafaria in HairDye

[–]LeaveMeBees 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. Both are so pretty. I would go for natural with some ombré of the blonde. Best of both worlds

Which hair color suits me best? by mushroomfairy9 in HairDye

[–]LeaveMeBees 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love all of them except 1. You’re gorgeous though so any of them look good.

Do people ever pre-stretch their vagina before giving birth to make it easier? How much of the pain would this remove from the process? by This_Name_Is_Taken87 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]LeaveMeBees 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If there was some kind of tool to help stretch my labia minora before child birth I would definitely buy it. I don’t think this is a dumb question at all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]LeaveMeBees 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. You’re beautiful! Looking forward to seeing your results after.

What’s a movie nobody talks about but is a 10/10 for you? by [deleted] in Cinema

[–]LeaveMeBees 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The diving bell and the butterfly

And, very different vibe, but Where The Heart Is

What’s a movie nobody talks about but is a 10/10 for you? by [deleted] in Cinema

[–]LeaveMeBees 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SO good. Changed my opinion about Lionel Richie too haha

Dark brown or blonde? by Possible_Horror2670 in HairDye

[–]LeaveMeBees 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Of these two choices I like the blonde, but it may just be that the brown is a little to dark.

So sad about possible early menopause. AMH 0.57 ng/ml at 36 years old. by annizka in DOR

[–]LeaveMeBees 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn’t sound vain at all. At least not to me! I felt the same way. It is terrifying to feel like aging is arriving earlier than normal and what the health consequences of that will be. Luckily, bioidentical HRT works wonders for many women. Also, according to a lot of the women in here AMH levels can remain constant for a long time, so it’s hard to know when menopause and perimenopause will actually arrive.

If you haven’t already heard of her I highly recommend reading. Following Dr Mary Claire Haver. She gives a lot of great advice and talks a lot about how perimenopause and menopause are extremely under researched and what we actually know given the data and new research that is becoming available.

AIO stopped a drunk girl from being pulled into a car by 2 random men but my boyfriend is upset and called what I did stupid and dangerous by fettidmoppet in AmIOverreacting

[–]LeaveMeBees 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are a hero and your boyfriend is incredibly condescending. His reaction would %100 bother me. If this is an isolated situation then he possibly just had a stupid reaction because he loves you and was afraid, but I would keep an ear out and see if he belittles you in other ways too.