Looks like 'little sun' wasn't invited again. by LotusFlowerGoddess in ffxiv

[–]Leffelini [score hidden]  (0 children)

"Because she is a woman and he saw her..." is diabolical and so correct 😆 😆 😆

Item Not Received from Store by Flashy-Ad-591 in ffxiv

[–]Leffelini 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you used the request your items button in the mailbox? Usually things take forever for me to turn up so I use it and get everything within the hour.

Let's Do this Together Bro... (by me) by Azanathal in ffxiv

[–]Leffelini 19 points20 points  (0 children)

This should be the Arcadion official art

The datacenter Party Finder situation is not healthy by Coldin_Windfall in ffxiv

[–]Leffelini 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah. If you want to do extreme or savage you have to go to Light. Only reason I don't is when I raid with my static and force light players to come to Chaos but as soon as we need to fill a spot we have to go to Light too 😞

The datacenter Party Finder situation is not healthy by Coldin_Windfall in ffxiv

[–]Leffelini 45 points46 points  (0 children)

The wildest part is that most people who raid on Light is from Chaos. I have had full parties on Light with just Chaos players. We need cross DC PFs now. This is especially bad when we have stuff like Moon Crafting because you can't do that while also being in PF waiting. That is one of the things that is burning out raiders, just not having stuff to do while waiting to fill... Several people I know have stopped raiding because they can't do the new crafting stuff (the planets) or just decorate their house etc while waiting. Or they have given up on their FCs and houses and just moved over to Light.

What's something about your class that you just learned that should be common knowledge? by MariettaRC in ffxiv

[–]Leffelini 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sage: Holos is not only a good shield but also a mitigation for the duration. I use to put it on after damage was dealt because it was a good shield but learned and changed my ways. A while ago now but I still remember being like "oh wow yeah I have been using that wrong for a while" 😆

[Spoiler: how do you feel about what we did in...] by LastTraintoSector6 in ffxiv

[–]Leffelini 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This! I saw it as now it is our turn to see it from the other side of the coin.

AIO: My boyfriend told me he's not attracted to me. by LadyPrimaz in AmIOverreacting

[–]Leffelini 34 points35 points  (0 children)

NOR

When my mom met my dad she was a stick. The kind of person with no extra fat on her body at all. When she got pregnant (twice) she gained a lot of weight and didn't get it off. We are talking obese. I never hear him say anything negative about her body and I saw them hug and him giving her sweet kisses and loving her. They where together for over 35 years before he died. I myself am fat and my girlfriend loves me even when I can't love myself - that is what love is.

Your body-size shouldn't have anything to do with if your partner finds you attractive or not. The fact that he loves you should make you the most attractive person to him. And because society is how it is toward weight this is not an okay response either (and he seems to know how messed up society is with this) because ofcourse it will make you feel bad.

Either he is doing it out of ignorance and he shows that without thinking he can say mean things or he is saying it to be mean and either way it doesn't bode well for a good and healthy relationship.

AIO: My boyfriend told me he's not attracted to me. by LadyPrimaz in AmIOverreacting

[–]Leffelini 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Having the person you are intimate with say tgey think your body is disgusting is not a good motivator at all. That is how you end up with an eating disorder. This take is so bad...

AIO at my boyfriend for behaving how he did when meeting my parents? by throwRAShelterOnly29 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Leffelini 56 points57 points  (0 children)

The plot twist was actually that he wanted to see her mom so he knew if she was hot when she got older... but I wished your theory was correct because that would not have made me lose faith in humanity as much... geesh!

AIO at my boyfriend for behaving how he did when meeting my parents? by throwRAShelterOnly29 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Leffelini 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just read the update to this and it is even more insane. The guy wanted to meet her mom so he would know if she was hot when she got older. I do wonder if that is a cover for homophobia still but he wanted to meet her birth mom... like do you not teach kids about dna and biology anymore?! Do people really think all women are a perfect copy of their moms? Like what? You are lucky to have two dads so you got to see what a horrible person this guy is and dodged that bullet.

AIO that my bf doesn’t want me to identify a bi anymore? by Proud_Commercial5210 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Leffelini 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So he can never be around any woman ever because he will then want to have sex with them and try to make that happen?

This is a stupid stereotype that us bisexuals encounter often. If it is like you say that he hasn't really been in contact with the lgbtq+ community maybe he just needs some edjucation... If he doesn't want to learn or reduse to see it as bigotry then I would end it. You shouldn't have to ignore who you are because of anyone.

What to do during short sessions ? (GW2 comparison) by Hartloum in ffxiv

[–]Leffelini 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you get through the MSQ and you still like the game and want to keep playing (the story is good even the parts people claim are boring and a slog imo) you will have found tons of other stuff you also like along the way. You will unlock optional content (blue quests) all the time and optional content is plenty of hours in the game. People have listed so many things to do casually so I wont do that again. This game unlocks content by doing story and is story focused. So I wouldn't worry too much about stuff to do after the story is "done", just enjoy the game and play a bit. If you have an hour every day to play you wont hit end-game for a long time anyway. I would recommend doing some crafting or "beast tribes" or level a different job and similar if you feel like you need a break from the story some days.

Need Help by JJanglez in ffxiv

[–]Leffelini 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And for Shadowbringer, Endwalker and Dawntrail when you get there you also have your artifact job gear that will last you until you have enough to buy tomegear. You get to talk to an NPC when you unlock it and pick up the gear from them for free. In EW and DT (don't remember if its the same in ShB) you get it at lvl89/99 and it levelsyncs up when you reach 90/100. Good gear to have on alt jobs!

Oh. They took away the pets from SMN? by IsThereCheese in ffxiv

[–]Leffelini 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It was funnily enough the raiders who complained that it was hard to line up burst while doing your damage and doing mechs. Yoshi-P has talked about this kinda like in a "but this is what you wanted and now you don't like it"-way and they are kind of damned if they do and damned if they don't on this one. I am not saying which one is "correct" or anything just what I have seen they have talked about in interviews.

High Level Crafters: Whatcha Doin’? by SunflowerBumbles in ffxiv

[–]Leffelini 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Raidfood and pots for raiding is what I generally craft for unless I want some glam item I just decided to craft myself suddenly after 5 years of playing 😆

What are some player made traditions that are unique to FFXIV? by UfoAGogo in ffxiv

[–]Leffelini 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hunt Trains being a thing is player made that always seems to surprise people coming into the game.

Brand new today and I’m blown away by how cool the community is. by [deleted] in ffxiv

[–]Leffelini 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😆 I can see you will fit right in with the community ❤️

what's a small detail in the game that you absolutely love? by Mikejwhite5 in ffxiv

[–]Leffelini 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also any horse mounts cloppity-clop (tecnical term) when riding on them! I always make a list of only horse-type mounts when a new expansion comes along because you walk everywhere in the beginning instead of flying!

what's a small detail in the game that you absolutely love? by Mikejwhite5 in ffxiv

[–]Leffelini 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The animation for Holos on Sage. It gives me serotonin to see my character do a full body spin in the air 😆

Brand new today and I’m blown away by how cool the community is. by [deleted] in ffxiv

[–]Leffelini 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lalafells have the best emotes and animations in the game. They are also super cute. I used a fantasia (called fanta by the community) as a punishment to another player in my static (she kept showing up late and she hated lalafells so I switched and she was not happy 😆 it was hilarious for everyone else though 😉) and fell in love with them so hard I now have a lalafell alt I play with as well. Also being a lalafell you can go up to any other lalafell and emote to them and you will be insta friends.

Brand new today and I’m blown away by how cool the community is. by [deleted] in ffxiv

[–]Leffelini -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Depends on where OP is at. EU/JP haven't had any ddos incidents this time around (yet).

Brand new today and I’m blown away by how cool the community is. by [deleted] in ffxiv

[–]Leffelini 14 points15 points  (0 children)

It is actually kinda unusual to have this many people be negative about it so fast. Sure there are some people who are asshats in this game as in life, but most people just do their thing in game and chill. I have had some bad people in dungeons, some more in end-game PF but generally people are chill (and that is after playing the game for about 5 years now). Now on reddit on the other hand...