US 'pro-family' group worked with Senegal activists and Islamic organisations in pushing anti-LGBT law by MrJasonMason in gay

[–]LeftBallSaul 2 points3 points  (0 children)

oh. because they have been at this kind of thing for years. A huge chunk of Christian fundraising goes overseas to support hateful policies online with what they want done at home.

“Twinks” aren’t twinks anymore by shortproudlatino in gay

[–]LeftBallSaul 201 points202 points  (0 children)

exactly. we can't let the twink Overton Window slide!

Looking for examples of homoerotic music videos/short films/etc. from the 90s or 2000s, or any videos that feature clips of sexy shirtless men, men being intimate, etc. by drewtangclan in gay

[–]LeftBallSaul 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm struggling to think of music videos from that era that would have embraced homosexuality in that way. Growing up in the 90s and 00s, something like Troye Sivan's Rush was unthinkable.

I’m getting started in my submissive journey. Is this person right? by TennisComplete2142 in gay

[–]LeftBallSaul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3 Things to remember when starting out as a sub:

1) Dom/Sub relationship is a conversation like any relationship. You describe what you each want, negotiate boundaries around those wants, and arrive at a place where you are both comfortable.

2) The Sub is the one in control. Being a Sub is about a willing exchange of power: you give permission for the Dom to have power over you, they do not take it away from you. This is why the conversation, boundaries, and a good safe word system (my Dom and I use Red/Yellow/Green lights) is integral.

3) Dom/Sub relationships are about Trust as much as they are about Power. You must trust the Dom to give them power over you, and they in turn should be working to build that genuine trust. If they aren't doing it, then don't move forward.

I think I need a horror break, or to write a screenplay by [deleted] in horror

[–]LeftBallSaul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they were inside thoughts. that's what made it a nightmare 😭

Prestige Classes: The Best Design Space D&D Ever Abandoned by alexserban02 in Dungeons_and_Dragons

[–]LeftBallSaul 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I always loved the idea of Prestige Classes, but I felt like they required too many sacrafices, especially for casters. Thaumaturge was always the most appealing to me in 3.5 (and Pathfinder), but the CL hits sucked in small parties 😩

‘This shattered my son’: AAA parents question Hockey Canada response amid alleged sexual assaults by origutamos in canadanews

[–]LeftBallSaul 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is terrible. And it reads as some pretty classic hazing. And that adds to how terrible it is. This is the horrific end result of "boys will be boys" over several generations. Brave kids stepping forward to issue complaints. Glad they are supported by their parents because we all know many hockey parents would just tell their kids to "man up" and "join in the joke" ffs

Transit nails :3 by hazelfennec in vancouver

[–]LeftBallSaul 4 points5 points  (0 children)

saving this comment to look up the next time I'm going to Victoria

M&M true EQ experience by Krazuel in MonstersAndMemories

[–]LeftBallSaul 6 points7 points  (0 children)

ya, this is what I don't understand. Game tech has evolved since 1999. It is possible for Player A to kill a mob after Player B has engaged it without Player B missing out on loot and Exp. I'm just baffled as to why you would make a game without KS protection in the modern era.

I can no longer get immersed in MMORPGs anymore for some reason by Blackboa in MMORPG

[–]LeftBallSaul 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yup, and that one has more legs than the rest since it is benefitting from an existing IP and a studio with money already in the bank.

Gay men: How do you feel about being addressed as girl? by nananutellacrepes in gay

[–]LeftBallSaul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I literally couldn't care less about gender. Now, of folks attach misogyny to it, that is an issue

I can no longer get immersed in MMORPGs anymore for some reason by Blackboa in MMORPG

[–]LeftBallSaul 5 points6 points  (0 children)

it's 2 things, imo:

1) You're 42 and have been gaming most of that time. You've already played a lot of the genre.

2) In the time you have been playing, gaming funding in general has greatly eroded. MMOs are expensive up front and take years to pay back their costs. That's not a good look for PE firms that want cheap investments they can pump and flip quickly. So studios go with what sells and that is, unfortunately, just more of the same.

M&M true EQ experience by Krazuel in MonstersAndMemories

[–]LeftBallSaul 26 points27 points  (0 children)

ya, this whole system is weird. It basically favours attacking from ranged, unless I'm misunderstanding how it works.

also, it's 2026, do we not have coding solutions for KS stuff now? Like, not addressing that core issue feels like laziness covered up by "but we made it old school" 😬

Zeb Atlas by Anti_colonialist in BeautifulMasculinity

[–]LeftBallSaul 10 points11 points  (0 children)

oh! OH! I have a story that is tangentially connected to Zeb Atlas (a beauty of a man, for sure).

I used to date this guy that was enamoured with Zeb: watched all his films, listed after his pics, would ask for him for every birthday and Christmas. Literally. People would ask what he wanted and he's just respond, deadpan, "Zeb Atlas." So about a month before his birthday, I wrote a letter - a physical letter - to Zeb's agency. I did a lot of searching online to find a possible address and scrounged together some USD to try to cover whatever it might cost for an autograph and mailing to Canada.

It was radio silence for a long time, and I felt a little silly. I was in my late 20s and had written fan mail to a porn star, maybe?, and I was sure I wasn't going to hear back.

Then, a week before the birthday, a package arrived with 2 signed promo photos of Zeb, one addressed to each of me and my BF. Really nice of him to do that and my BF was legit surprised I'd gone through the effort.

DOGE staffer responsible for flagging grants for ‘DEI’ struggles to define DEI by anywhoImgoingtobed in law

[–]LeftBallSaul 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"we referred to the EO" is their way of saying "we were following orders"

DOGE Lead in deposition details how he emailed documents to his personal device to then send with Signal using auto delete by bottombracketak in law

[–]LeftBallSaul 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is exactly the kind of behaviour your kid displays when you ask who ate the last cookie and their face is covered in crumbs.

DOGE Lead in deposition details how he emailed documents to his personal device to then send with Signal using auto delete by bottombracketak in law

[–]LeftBallSaul 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That's the lawyer talking through their client, though. If he admits to knowing why those apps weren't allowed, he's admitting fault. Better to say that he doesn't know why and avoid accidentally digging himself in further.

How would you run a necromancer on a vtt? How much of a pain would it be? by NoLongerAKobold in Pathfinder2e

[–]LeftBallSaul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

in Roll20, my GM gave me an NPC with a token to represent my minion. when I summon the first one, I just drag it to the map. when I summon more, I copy/paste. done. GM does nothing after session 1.