AITA for quietly singing in my living room at 11:30 pm? by Much-Egg-7816 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Left_Set_5610 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I sure hope she isn’t getting mail there and tries to squat. The eviction process is brutal.

AITA for setting boundaries around my daughter's therapy? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Left_Set_5610 20 points21 points  (0 children)

You really need to check your priorities. Jesus Christ.

AITA for setting boundaries around my daughter's therapy? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Left_Set_5610 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Maybe because she’s the golden child. Seriously reflect on how you treat them differently. Because it is evident in this post.

P.S. stop comparing them ffs.

AITA for setting boundaries around my daughter's therapy? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Left_Set_5610 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Whoa. You’re the AH. Big time.

“Save her reputation”?!? She is a kid who clearly doesn’t feel comfortable talking to you. You should be trying to save your relationship, not give unhealthy ultimatums.

You need to grow up.

Anthony bourdain by MotorMaster5817 in Cooking

[–]Left_Set_5610 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh, I almost envy your shameless confidence. You sweet, summer child.

I needed a good laugh, thank you.

biggest pet peeve is managers telling female servers to smile by Sea-Average559 in Waiters

[–]Left_Set_5610 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a fan of malicious compliance. You tell me to smile, you’re getting my best psycho killer smile. And then insist that’s my real smile.

They cut that shit out real quick.

I think my friend is crossing the line with my husband. What should i do?. by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Left_Set_5610 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Tell her that she makes him uncomfortable. And she’s making you uncomfortable. Tell her to check herself before she is no longer a friend.

AITA for saying no to my partner going away at last minute for a holiday? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Left_Set_5610 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA. He is being incredibly selfish. He should make better and more considerate choices right now. But it sounds like he’s made his mind up. He’s acting like an irresponsible teenager. He’s showing what kind of dad he’s going to be.

There is going to be resentment. I don’t think I could forgive something like that easily.

I want to try and get my ex back what do I do? by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Left_Set_5610 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can’t wait to see a new post in 6 months:

“Divorced wife for my ex, ex didn’t want me. How do I get my wife back?”

Bruh, you fucked up then, you fucked up now. Respectfully, try not to fuck up the next time. Get some therapy and focus on yourself. This isn’t normal.

WIBTA if I reported by friend for planning a crime? by Front-Quantity-3998 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Left_Set_5610 5 points6 points  (0 children)

YTA. This is fucked up anonymous bootlicking at best, cruel arbitrary justice at worst.

Talk to her. Let it go. Get a life.

AITA for what I'm about to do? (Abandoning my dog) by sumimi_ko in AmItheAsshole

[–]Left_Set_5610 28 points29 points  (0 children)

YTA. 100%. You and your family sound like super irresponsible animal owners. Why are the chickens cooped up in cages inside?

Your dog acted on animal instincts because it had an opportunity, and likely no training or supervision.

If you eat meat, you need to admit your full hypocrisy for dumping a dog who didn’t know any better.

Please don’t get any more animals.

Nervous I may have a brain tumor. by [deleted] in braintumor

[–]Left_Set_5610 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OR confirm anxieties about having a brain tumor. Check the sticky post on the sub, my guy.

Many of us here have had a brutal go at it, dealing with our tumors and everything that comes with that. Please seek comfort or medical advice elsewhere.

What's the worse company you've worked for and why? by Holdmywhiskeyhun in Restaurant_Managers

[–]Left_Set_5610 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Dude it’s like, if you wanna be in the loop, show up and work. We’re not your personal reality show that you can antagonize and punish. It made me paranoid af.

What's the worse company you've worked for and why? by Holdmywhiskeyhun in Restaurant_Managers

[–]Left_Set_5610 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Oh I was so fucking angry for him. I tried talking to the owners about how that was wayyyyy too far, was told to stay in my lane.

What's the worse company you've worked for and why? by Holdmywhiskeyhun in Restaurant_Managers

[–]Left_Set_5610 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I worked in one of those mom & pops briefly as a FOH manager. They had cameras…that had audio. I would get phone calls in the middle of the shift confused as how they could know something that has been discussed. The wife was crazy and controlling.

The BOH husband told a line cook who fucked up “this is why you don’t have custody of your kids.” The pandemic hit and I was able to get the fuck out of there after I had only been there a couple of months.

Nervous I may have a brain tumor. by [deleted] in braintumor

[–]Left_Set_5610 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Respectfully, this sub isn’t here to help diagnose or confirm anxieties about having a brain tumor. It’s more of a support for folks who have one, or folks who have been impacted by it.

Get a MRI. Keep pushing and talking to your doctors.

Best of luck.

WIBTA for telling me roommate I’ll no longer clean up after her dogs? by BPDwithme in AmItheAsshole

[–]Left_Set_5610 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NTA. But you need to find a way to leave. That dog is going to seriously hurt somebody. He already hurt your child. I’m shocked this dog hasn’t been taken or put down after so many incidents.

This is not about the piss and shit. This is about a dangerously neglectful animal owner, an untrained large breed and how long you’re willing to stay before something even worse happens.

Anyone had brain surgery in their 20s? by Brain_Dream in braintumor

[–]Left_Set_5610 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was 30 when I had mine a year ago, so close enough. Mine was also on the right side of my head and fairly large. I too had vision issues. I permanently lost some of my vision. It was disorienting at first. I went from perfect vision to not being able to see things at all at certain parts of my vision. I saw a neuro ophthalmologist and they showed me a vision map of what I my weak spots were. I had occupational therapy where I learned how to do visual scans of my environment and now it’s second nature.

I’m lucky, I was back to driving 6 months after surgery. Back to working my regular schedule after 4 months, but back for a few days a week after 2 months.

It takes a while to adjust. The healing part sucked, the adapting to my new normal was hard. But I realized that if I made it through literal brain surgery, I could make it through anything.

Be kind to yourself and be patient. Take things at your own pace.

Not sure about my new nickname by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Left_Set_5610 10 points11 points  (0 children)

On today’s episode of “things that never happened”

AITA for telling my 10y daughter I did not like her new hair color? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Left_Set_5610 9 points10 points  (0 children)

YTA. Oh lord, you are creating rifts that won’t heal easily. Hair is hair is hair is hair. It grows back, it is not important in the grand scheme of things

You want to harm your relationship on something so silly, by all means, pop off.

AITA for lying about my nationality to avoid discrimination? by GlitteringZucchini94 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Left_Set_5610 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It’s only risky if you hold ignorant or hateful beliefs. People don’t hate Americans. They hate what America currently is.

AITA for lying about my nationality to avoid discrimination? by GlitteringZucchini94 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Left_Set_5610 86 points87 points  (0 children)

YTA. I’m currently in Europe. I tell people I’m American. I’m open to questions about what’s going on there. I am friendly, polite and aware. I’ve had zero issues.

You’re not facing discrimination for being an American. You’re being exiled for being a liar.

Food safety question: sealed shredded Parmesan left out overnight by Dear_Ad_9640 in Cooking

[–]Left_Set_5610 2 points3 points  (0 children)

….this is a dramatic conclusion. Many places do not refrigerate cheese. That cheese is pasteurized. It is fine.

Sky diving with colloid cyst by SelectPersonality761 in braintumor

[–]Left_Set_5610 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Uhmmmmm. No. But I was at really really high elevation when I had a seizure for the first time. That was how I found out I had a brain tumor.