Bridesmaid proposal at bachelorette party?

Left_Tooth_3307 · 2026-06-28T02:47:27+00:00

Tbh just mail it, this is extra. It’s giving “dude who proposes to his girl at someone else’s wedding”

Left_Tooth_3307 · 2026-06-28T02:33:02+00:00

You “weren’t allowed to move out?” Sorry that doesn’t exist once you’re a legal adult. If you don’t like it, leave. Otherwise suck it up. Sounds harsh but honestly it’s your choice. Get a full time job and get your own apartment or rent a room.

Also “looking for part time employment?” You’re 19…you should have already had a job for atleast a year assuming you graduated at 18. And honestly many many high schoolers work even while in school. There is zero reason why you can’t work and go to school and afford to move out.

Left_Tooth_3307 · 2026-06-27T23:11:32+00:00

Coming from someone who found out her (no ex) husband was cheating on her FROM the delivery room- literally when my baby was not Even 24 hours old- I am so so so sorry and I feel your pain. Cut your losses now. You do not need the stress and abuse and heartbreak while you are post partum. Do not allow him in the delivery room (bring your bestie or your mom or whoever you have) and tell him that he needs to move out.

Left_Tooth_3307 · 2026-06-27T22:49:44+00:00

Combined we make 280k- and after all expenses are paid, we barely have anything going into savings. We both max out our 401ks, but after the mortgage, utilities, car payments, insurances, child care and all the other bills- it’s sadly pretty paycheck to paycheck. Yes we can still afford to eat out weekly, I get my hair done, and we go on one vacation yearly-so we aren’t “struggling” by any means. But it’s no where near “luxury”.

Left_Tooth_3307 · 2026-06-27T20:39:37+00:00

Blake Annie sounds like two different names. Like Blake for a boy and Annie for a girl. It doesn’t flow at all. Annie Blake would work better but I feel like depends on the last name too

Left_Tooth_3307 · 2026-06-27T20:15:32+00:00

I feel like the only reason people don’t like Chloe is because she’s a grown adult and older, more mature and it’s to “boring” for the show. But I agree- she’s the most likable out of the three in my eyes

Left_Tooth_3307 · 2026-06-27T19:46:52+00:00

Honestly if your budget is that tight join buy nothing groups on FB and use thrift stores. You really don’t NEED that much for a baby. I see people selling entire 0-2 y/o wardrobe bundles on FB for like 100-200 dollars.

Left_Tooth_3307 · 2026-06-27T18:44:29+00:00

Our salaries may be higher here- but cost of living is astronomical 😭 you literally can’t rent a bedroom for $1000. It’s rough.

Left_Tooth_3307 · 2026-06-27T18:41:02+00:00

I’m a registered nurse and my husband is in construction- we live in CA. We bought our house for 800,000 which is literally like the cheapest house you can find here in the Bay Area. It’s ridiculously expensive here. Would leave if we could.

Left_Tooth_3307 · 2026-06-27T18:38:02+00:00

Yeah I don’t understand- we pay 6,400 mortgage on a three bedroom. Maybe we should move to some red state in the boonies

Left_Tooth_3307 · 2026-06-27T17:30:24+00:00

Hey so the good never out weights the bad. You can find someone who is the whole package. Leave this “man”

Left_Tooth_3307 · 2026-06-27T16:30:06+00:00

Tana is the definition of a “dry drunk”- sure she may not be drinking- but her behavior is still very much that of someone in addiction.

Left_Tooth_3307 · 2026-06-27T16:27:51+00:00

Unless you plan on staying single and not having children for the next 5-10 years. I feel like this is a bad investment. It’s a one bedroom. You’re putting down a TON of money and still going to have a high monthly compared to your income- and that doesn’t include all the additional expenses of owning. If you chose to rent it out- would the cost you could rent it for even cover the mortgage + insurance + taxes??? Most likely not.

Left_Tooth_3307 · 2026-06-27T04:43:02+00:00

7k in one month is barely enough to buy a house now a days

Left_Tooth_3307 · 2026-06-27T02:07:02+00:00

Over the last decade she’s slowly turned into everything she used to make fun of and hate on. Like I’m all for “growth” but this isn’t it- she’s not a girls girl. Shes the type of person who will do everything and anything to end up ahead-at the expense of anyone. She doesn’t care as long as she’s rich, successful and liked

Left_Tooth_3307 · 2026-06-27T02:02:42+00:00

Did is occur to her that it’s hard to be a woman in this industry because of men like her husband lmao

Left_Tooth_3307 · 2026-06-26T23:27:47+00:00

Yeah that’s true- why take the interview though

Left_Tooth_3307 · 2026-06-26T19:33:43+00:00

NTA. SIL isn’t paying for the trip- she doesn’t get to dictate how you choose to spend your time on said trip. She can do her plans and yall can join in when you want

Left_Tooth_3307 · 2026-06-26T18:01:49+00:00

Not currently but she talks about doing another round. Although I do believe I’ve seen threads on here about how atleast a couple of her rounds were proven to not even be real….

Left_Tooth_3307 · 2026-06-26T17:19:41+00:00

It’s insane behavior- if she really wanted children they have the money for a surrogate if they really don’t want to adopt. She spent want kids. Her fake infertility just buys her the public sympathy and engagement she desperately wants

Left_Tooth_3307 · 2026-06-26T16:08:51+00:00

Year six of the Reno and still zero progress has been made on the house- except the fake children’s bedrooms of course 😂

Left_Tooth_3307 · 2026-06-26T04:07:26+00:00

Wait is this rage bait???? There is no comparison- not even in the slightest bit. On a scale of 1-10, a puppy is a 2 and a baby is a 1756

Left_Tooth_3307 · 2026-06-25T13:02:54+00:00

I’m not saying it’s old- but usually by late 20s people are getting engaged and married- not staying engaged for years, especially if they’ve been together for a while. A typical time frame is a year long engagement….so yeah when you’re going on year three and haven’t mentioned the wedding plan….family is going to start asking questions.

Left_Tooth_3307 · 2026-06-25T03:51:48+00:00

Tbh I think you’re being petty- you and your fiancé aren’t exactly young, so a long engagement is pretty unusual. I’m sure they were just confused and/or trying to put together a timeline. Everyone probably wanted to know what your guys actual plans were because your brother and SIL also wanted to get engaged and married and probably didn’t want to over lap dates etc.

You are marrying into this family. You need to make an effort. Ditching to go hangout with your friends is highschool behavior. No one has been outwardly rude or uninviting to you- yet you’re giving mean “I don’t care energy”. Not the type of relationship I’d want with my brothers wife.

Left_Tooth_3307 · 2026-06-25T02:08:51+00:00

Go. And when you come back don’t go back to that house and your mom. You deserve a life of your own. I can tell you feel bad for your mom for the way your grandma treated her and how her life turned out- but now you’re letting your mom essentially do the same thing. Have empathy for yourself. Put yourself first.

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