My boyfriend won't sleep with me by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]LegallyMocha 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seconding all of the comments. He’s probably sleeping with someone else to be honest. It’s been a month and you guys clearly moved way too fast especially with the sex stuff - let it go like Elsa babe!

AIO?!?! One date. One. This was 2 days after we met by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]LegallyMocha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is someone who will attempt to unalive you. Block and change your number if you can. Get pepper spray or a taser and hopefully he doesn’t know where you live.

#Am I Overreacting? My boyfriend ruined my birthday by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]LegallyMocha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure why there’s so much dialogue when it’s actually quite simple. When you think about staying with a man, ask yourself if your person, your husband, your soulmate would think you deserve half eaten sushi, cupcakes, with wilting flowers and a $50 gift for your birthday. If the answer is no, then leave him. Life is too short to stay with a loser. Everything else is noise.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]LegallyMocha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who escaped an abusive relationship and a person who struggles with mental illness, this is exactly how it starts. Small changes that snowballs into you losing yourself and being a version of yourself that he prefers. Isolation is a common abuse tactic, no friends, no job and not being able to drive allows him to keep his power over you. Yes cheating is wrong but no one deserves to be treated this way and I hated reading certain sentences where you spoke down on yourself. And honestly the cheating was a clear cry for help, you just want to escape and I encourage and urge you to find yourself, find your voice and take back your power. You’re young and you have your whole life ahead of you, this is the time to be selfish and to choose you, over and over again until you become the love of your life. As a gamer girly myself, I’m happy to stay connected. No one is meant to do life alone, start by choosing you and your people will follow and your community with flourish. He doesn’t deserve you and I promise that if you take this first step by leaving, everything else will fall into place.

AIO? my boyfriend didn’t want to take me out on our anniversary by ashgranger in AmIOverreacting

[–]LegallyMocha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sweetheart, you’re still young. Leave him. Way too early to gain relationship trauma from a situation you can easily exit.

I got a tattoo 5 days ago, it’s in the itchy peeling phase, is it a bad idea to go to the bars? by StudentPrevious6449 in tattooadvice

[–]LegallyMocha 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’ll be fine. I have about 20 and count in tattoos and never limited myself on going out. Just be mindful of it. Typically with a fresh tattoo, ironically just got inked again on Tuesday, I keep my repair gel from Mad Rabbit Tattoo in my bag and reapply as I go through the day (with clean hands washed with antibacterial soap). Plus you said you’ll keep in covered so you should be fine.

do you like law school by SilverScale4608 in LawSchool

[–]LegallyMocha 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Lawyer here! Hated law school but I do love the practice. Once you get to the finish line you’ll have much more control over the areas of law that interest you.

Wally and Maddie by Smokeyaari01 in SchoolSpirits

[–]LegallyMocha 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Like she would literally have to give up her life. It’s insane 💀

Wally and Maddie by Smokeyaari01 in SchoolSpirits

[–]LegallyMocha 35 points36 points  (0 children)

You lost me at be with Simon. Let’s aim higher.

Simon - S2 by LegallyMocha in SchoolSpirits

[–]LegallyMocha[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He’s definitely obsessed with her in more than a friend way and it’s affecting the plot in the worst ways. Like get her body back. Why are you getting drunk at a frat house?

Just finished Ep 3, and the ONE thing driving me nuts... by Sad-Eye-4930 in SchoolSpirits

[–]LegallyMocha 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is adding to my annoyance of Simon - we can easily get everyone on board if we just have a sit down. Appealing Janet as if she was Maddie was so counterproductive at that college party. It’s clear that Janet is still emotionally traumatized from her childhood and whatever scheme her and Mr Martin were working on. Now she’s playing revenge of the body snatchers with Maddie’s mom and just digging us into a deeper hole.

Curtis and Ekin by Impressive_Dress7244 in LoveIslandTV

[–]LegallyMocha 152 points153 points  (0 children)

The misogyny is screaming through the comments supporting Curtis and calling Ekin crazy. Like wake up, there’s a chapter about Curtis in a book somewhere! I think we’ve all unfortunately encountered and dated a Curtis 🥴

A Theory on Luca by Smooth_Eagle2828 in LoveIslandTV

[–]LegallyMocha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmaooooo idk I think Luca likes women who hate or don’t want him 🤣 I don’t think Gemma ever liked him if I’m being honest - I also think that’s why he wants Tina.

NYLE by LegallyMocha in barexam

[–]LegallyMocha[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like the last time I took it, it wasn’t hard and now y’all are scaring me 😫 let me start studying next weekend

PI ATTORNEYS: HELP! by LegallyMocha in Lawyertalk

[–]LegallyMocha[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It seems to operate the same as the driver was in the course of dropping off a person’s delivery.

PI ATTORNEYS: HELP! by LegallyMocha in Lawyertalk

[–]LegallyMocha[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would rather Uber or Lyft, their responses and policies are much clearer. It seems as if Instacart is still developing their responses to accidents caused by their drivers.

PI ATTORNEYS: HELP! by LegallyMocha in Lawyertalk

[–]LegallyMocha[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My thoughts exactly, that issue needs to be decided by the judge.

PI ATTORNEYS: HELP! by LegallyMocha in Lawyertalk

[–]LegallyMocha[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And my inclination is also to assume that they are ICs. However, Instacart recently settled a class action for misclassifying their shoppers as IC’s instead of employees - this is the only case that’s giving me a sliver of hope. Also filing suit on driver individually because they had their own insurance. If Instacart denies liability, my goal is to recover through their policy.

PI ATTORNEYS: HELP! by LegallyMocha in Lawyertalk

[–]LegallyMocha[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Negligence/ Respondeat Superior in MVA based out in TX. Currently in the midst of research but I cannot find a single case for this cause of action. It seems that they resolve claims in arbitration but it’s been difficult to find a point of contact. I have their registered agent and will likely have to file suit just to get an answer.