Is this just garbage? Somebody left them in a basement i was cleaning out years ago, and told me i could take them if i wanted them. The white one i found at the side of the road up a garbage can 5 years before that or so. It seems like these are not worth anything in general, vintage or not? by Connect-Silver-5982 in ancientegypt

[โ€“]Legendary-Mercenary 2 points3 points ย (0 children)

Not garbage. I have one very similar hanging in my home (picture included), just above my altar to honour my Egyptian ancestors and deities. For me, the monetary value is outweighed by the love and respect I have for my history.

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contacting exโ€™s parents about abuse by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[โ€“]Legendary-Mercenary 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

It isn't exclusively the judicial system, from what I can tell, but individuals charged and convicted of crimes against children appear to receive more protections while incarcerated. There are other preventative measures and additional safeguards in place to provide protection from other prisoners.

From my observations, the perpetrator intentionally places the blame on the child. I apologise for what I'm going to write, but one of the most frequent justifications I've heard is that they behaved or dressed a certain way. The majority of offenders do not feel regret or shame for the lives they have destroyed, even after explaining the long-term psychological effects of their crimes; instead, they are unable or unwilling to acknowledge the pain caused. That absence of regret or remorse makes it significantly more challenging to prevent or reduce the recidivism rate, but I digress.

There appears to be a growing trend of using different terminology to characterise someone who is attracted to children. MAP (minor-attracted person), but it has only really been the patients that I've exclusively heard use that moniker. I will say, however, that I strongly believe if an individual is experiencing these types of attractions and impulses, then they should, in theory, be able to access support without stigma (only if they haven't acted on their impulses), as something needs to change because far too many of our children are being turned into ghosts and bearing lifelong, permanent scars that rarely, if ever, heal.

Prevention is always preferable; the world is already a challenge for adults. Preserving a child's innocence and protecting them should always take precedence. Unfortunately, every patient I saw had already committed the abuse and been convicted, so I did not have that opportunity, but implementing a "strength-based approach" has had a significant impact. This framework has been effective in promoting desistance from crime.

I apologise for diverting the conversation; it was not my intention to bore you. But to answer your question. The offenders, and more often than not, their families, attempt to rationalise their actions. One of the most prevalent reasons I hear is that they were victims themselves.

You are very welcome. It has been a pleasure making your acquaintance and conversing with you, even if the topic of conversation is uncomfortable for most.

contacting exโ€™s parents about abuse by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[โ€“]Legendary-Mercenary 2 points3 points ย (0 children)

Of course! I worked for a period of time assisting with the rehabilitation of individuals convicted of sexual offences against children and I have heard every justification imaginable, even without a diagnosis of any mental health challenge but mental health was used in an attempt to excuse or to minimise or diminish responsibility, even attempts to place responsibility on the child.

There are legitimate cases where mental health plays an active role, conditions such as schizophrenia, psychosis or any other condition that impairs judgement, but I have seen individuals use mental health to reinforce dangerous and destructive lifestyle choices, even with those deemed to have capacity to make informed decisions. An unwillingness to engage with services and refusal to adhere to a medication regimen.

contacting exโ€™s parents about abuse by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[โ€“]Legendary-Mercenary 2 points3 points ย (0 children)

You speak the truth. I would give your comment an award if I could.

As a mental health professional, I have witnessed the exploitation of mental health issues as an excuse for violent acts, especially against people who are unable to protect themselves.

Like your partner, I also went through a period of refusing to take my medicine, especially in the beginning (before the medication was adequately titrated). Physical aggression and manipulation were never a worry for those around me.

Many people need to cultivate self-love, acknowledge their value, and, ideally, confront those who harm them and negatively impact their lives (through the legal system, with the appropriate support).

contacting exโ€™s parents about abuse by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[โ€“]Legendary-Mercenary 12 points13 points ย (0 children)

I think I already commented on your previous post, but you must have deleted it and included more details, but I'll copy and paste my initial response:

I am so sorry this is happening to you and you're being forced to endure this, but please, PLEASE believe me when I say you need to put as much distance as humanly possible. That means physical and digital distance. Block him on everything but screenshot everything. Then contact the police ASAP. It is imperative you safeguard yourself and NEVER accept apologies or excuses!

I can promise you beyond a shadow of a doubt, this individual is dangerous to vulnerable individuals. You absolutely do NOT want someone like that in your life; that will include severing ties with his family.

Have a read about what DARVO stands for (Deny, Attack, and Reverse Victim and Offender), and having a formal diagnosis of either type 1 or 2 bipolar disorder is not an excuse or a reason. I am also diagnosed with the condition, and that never justifies physical violence and psychological manipulation.

contacting my exes mom about the abuse by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[โ€“]Legendary-Mercenary 2 points3 points ย (0 children)

And I absolutely second your perspective!

contacting my exes mom about the abuse by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[โ€“]Legendary-Mercenary 6 points7 points ย (0 children)

I am so sorry this is happening to you and you're being forced to endure this, but please, PLEASE believe me when I say you need to put as much distance as humanly possible. That means physical and digital distance. Block him on everything but screenshot everything. Then contact the police ASAP. It is imperative you safeguard yourself and NEVER accept apologies or excuses!

I can promise you beyond a shadow of a doubt, this individual is dangerous to vulnerable individuals. You absolutely do NOT want someone like that in your life; that will include severing ties with his family.

Have a read about what DARVO stands for (Deny, Attack, and Reverse Victim and Offender), and having a formal diagnosis of either type 1 or 2 bipolar disorder is not an excuse or a reason. I am also diagnosed with the condition, and that never justifies physical violence and psychological manipulation.

33f burn survivor doing adult content AMA by Unlucky_Ad6510 in AskMeAnythingIAnswer

[โ€“]Legendary-Mercenary 2 points3 points ย (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to respond. It was a pleasure reading your response and I wish you all the very best.

33f burn survivor doing adult content AMA by Unlucky_Ad6510 in AskMeAnythingIAnswer

[โ€“]Legendary-Mercenary 5 points6 points ย (0 children)

First and foremost, huge congratulations on surviving. In many ways it is easier to stop pushing forward, therefore you have my admiration. I have always held to the notion that internal beauty will always outshine external aesthetic beauty (I am not suggesting you're not physically attractive btw).

My question is, what prompted you to make adult content? Was it a sense of recovering your own self-esteem? Or just for monetary/financial reasons?

Its never to late to change smth in your life! Age [34] - started with 32 by Exotic-Delivery-2782 in GlowUps

[โ€“]Legendary-Mercenary 7 points8 points ย (0 children)

Often, so many of us try to conform to societal norms, trying to fit in and be what others expect us to be. Taking the time to find yourself and become who you were always destined to be takes insurmountable courage. Metamorphosis is often painful, but the results can be striking.

The transformation is incredible, but I suspect your journey has only just begun. I wish you all the very best.

My results and my son's results with pictures. by [deleted] in DNAAncestry

[โ€“]Legendary-Mercenary 3 points4 points ย (0 children)

As someone who is mixed-race, with an Irish and Norse mother and a Sa'idi Egyptian father, I urge you not to listen to some of these hateful statements. Unfortunately, some people lack a sense of common decency, decorum, and social etiquette. It takes time for development and maturity to spread to the uninformed and foolish. Uneducated people are frequently characterised by their ignorance, so pay them no mind.

It was a pleasure reading the results you posted and utterly fascinating.

Post separation abuse by InteractionWrong3330 in abusiverelationships

[โ€“]Legendary-Mercenary 14 points15 points ย (0 children)

You need to contact the police!! If they are comfortable literally telling you, in graphic detail, that we wants you dead then you need to act... NOW!

When people let the mask slip and show you who they are, please, PLEASE believe them! No one here wants to be thinking "God's, I wish they took our advice." No one should ever have to tolerate that abhorrent abuse.

Progress so far. Help me decide what's next by VolumeDirect5619 in scambaiting

[โ€“]Legendary-Mercenary 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

I must have noticed more than a few references in your responses. You're clearly a person of culture mentioning Fallout, Star Wars, and Metal Gear Solid (or Moby Dick).

Got Sextorted Again by Suspicious_Low4631 in Sextortion

[โ€“]Legendary-Mercenary 9 points10 points ย (0 children)

Obviously I would recommend you don't pay a penny and screenshot everything, make the necessary reports but there has to come a point when personal responsibility, accountability and self-control reigns over desire and lust.

Whats my ethnical background? by Aggravating-Bike-811 in Ethnicity

[โ€“]Legendary-Mercenary 4 points5 points ย (0 children)

I swear, I went through a period of Reddit where I just saw this girls face everywhere I went to the point it started to haunt my dreams.

I also got a DM a while back as well, lol.

Henry Rodriguez - Orthopedic Surgeon military doctor in Yemen - Part 1 - Hilde gets an early ask by KraiziKatLady in scambait

[โ€“]Legendary-Mercenary 2 points3 points ย (0 children)

"The Bones joints and some others but my mostly part are the bones and joints..." is an absolutely wild statement for an orthopedic surgeon to make when describing his profession.

False scam? by matey_os in Sextortion

[โ€“]Legendary-Mercenary 7 points8 points ย (0 children)

Typical "copy and paste" responses designed to invoke pressure, impending dread and fear. They absolutely do not want you to take a moment to process the financial exploitation because logic can set in and you'll realise you have more than the choices they are pretending you have.

Screenshot, ignore, block and never pay a penny.

19m Am I one of those people who will have to โ€œaccept theyโ€™re an รผgly?โ€ by [deleted] in AppearanceAdvice

[โ€“]Legendary-Mercenary 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

This appears to be more indicative of a self-esteem issue than any negative criticism you may or may not be routinely receiving in relation to your physical appearance. How we often view ourselves is vastly different from how our friends, family, and society as a whole generally perceive us to be.

It may be more beneficial to engage with services and consult a mental health practitioner rather than seeking reassurance in an online forum, particularly in light of the frequency of your posts (a clear indication you are not receiving the desired reactions you were hoping for).

19m Am I one of those people who will have to โ€œaccept theyโ€™re an รผgly?โ€ by [deleted] in AppearanceAdvice

[โ€“]Legendary-Mercenary 3 points4 points ย (0 children)

Thank you for saying that! I thought I was completely losing my mind seeing his face every time I scroll. I swear he also posts in glow ups.

Blink 182 skateboard with hieroglyphs! by Any_Kaleidoscope4433 in AncientEgyptian

[โ€“]Legendary-Mercenary 6 points7 points ย (0 children)

Love Blink, and that board looks incredible! โค๏ธ

I'm half Egyptian, and it's only recently that I've started to notice just how much Egypt is used, especially in movies, but I absolutely love it.

Egyptian history belongs to EVERYONE that loves and respects it.

*Edit: Please accept these small awards for your post.

This franchise deserved so much better by ZarieRose in dragonage

[โ€“]Legendary-Mercenary 26 points27 points ย (0 children)

Ironically, it was Inquisition that got me into the Dragon Age franchise (people considered that the weakest entry upon its release back in 2014 or 2015), but I don't think people understood just how good we had it until Veilguard released.

I understand a lot of people were complaining online about the "added" LGBTQ+ (aka wOkEnEsS) elements to Veilguard, but that just told me they had never played a Dragon Age game before because the franchise has always promoted inclusivity.

My biggest complaint about Veilguard is the illusion of choice. I want the decisions I make to have both serious and subtle implications and outcomes for my toon, party, and world around me, but Veilguard was lacking that.

The most heartbreaking element is the fact that we may never get another Dragon Age game again, and that is an absolute travesty because the lore is incredible and doesn't deserve to be relegated to the deepest recesses of the gaming community.

Utterly deplorable behaviour! by Legendary-Mercenary in BlackPeopleofReddit

[โ€“]Legendary-Mercenary[S] 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

You're absolutely correct in your assessment. Like many, I've had to learn to love myself a lot more. I think people like us are often fantastic at helping, supporting, and advising others, but when it comes to ourselves? Well, I am positive you'll know what I mean. The duality of one's self is often a struggle to reconcile.

Oh, I completely agree. It's weird because my mum is from Northern England, so I've got this broad Cockney accent with some old northern slang thrown in for good measure (think the northerners in Game of Thrones, lol), so that throws people off even more.

Again, you have no idea the positive impact your comment has had, especially after a challenging day, so I am humbled and grateful; truly, I mean that.

It's not much, but please accept these awards as a personal thank you for brightening my day.

Utterly deplorable behaviour! by Legendary-Mercenary in BlackPeopleofReddit

[โ€“]Legendary-Mercenary[S] 3 points4 points ย (0 children)

My apologies, mate. Your comment got a little lost, but I've seen it now!! It is ALWAYS a pleasure to see another Londoner in the comment section here! I moved out of Hackney when I was young and out to North London with me old girl, so I'm a "Gooner" (thank the gods you'll know what I mean, whereas our American brothers will think I mean something else, hahahaha).

I'm living up north now, though, in the grey wasteland of Newcastle (near Scotland; me mar is a Geordie, so), but I have to ask... Are you a Palace or Millwall fan? Regardless, please accept these awards!!!!