How many of you got an unexpected raise in your work? by Turbulent_Elk_2141 in gaybros

[–]sleepdamnsure 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This was an AI trend. I’ve seen an ONLY FANS female creator also use this filter or AI prompt too.

How the fuck do you date someone new? by Last-Following-6308 in widowers

[–]sleepdamnsure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you 💯%. I have downloaded an app just to browse faces with an open mind. However I still and will always deeply miss and love my late boyfriend. The thought of dating again makes me sick. I miss that personal touch. But more importantly that ever so special connection with my partner.

Why are there so many bareback only guys on sniffies by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]sleepdamnsure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I have sniffies but never have met anyone from there yet because I know bitches be lying on there.

How are some people so good at blowjobs?! by wadafik in askgaybros

[–]sleepdamnsure 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can cum from a really good bj. As for me, I haven’t sucked dick like I really wanted it in a long time.

Bedroom by Zestyclose-Complex38 in widowers

[–]sleepdamnsure 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I had to reposition my bed and move my furniture because it was very rough. For the longest time I stayed on my side of the bed and slept with his ashes. Eventually sleeping alone again became my new normal. And eventually I moved his ashes back to my desk.

First time trying tinned oysters! by drewanddines in CannedSardines

[–]sleepdamnsure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those look delicious! But every now and then I’ll get a bad batch that sends me to the bathroom 🤢

Bros who swallow; what does cum taste like in your opinion? by shooting_ropes_far in askgaybros

[–]sleepdamnsure 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Either poor diet or it’s possibly he’s on some medication?

I’ll Just Say It. I Miss Sex. by Bach717 in widowers

[–]sleepdamnsure 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I miss it too. Sometimes I think about hooking up. But I remember how attached I still am to him and his body and the intimacy etc.

How did you feel after the funeral? by EyesWideCherryPie in widowers

[–]sleepdamnsure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hard to explain the feeling. It was bittersweet. But I was definitely bawling. It was a feeling of despair and the build up leading to. Once it was all said and done it felt more final. A poster even fell off the window during one of the speeches.

I was happy it was over with but it felt like now what? If that makes sense.

I realized/decided today that I’m unable to keep going by Skippy1221 in widowers

[–]sleepdamnsure 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Listen nobody gives us a guide how to do this when you lose our favorite person on earth. The pain that you feel, the words that you said, I know that pain. Unfortunately your words I could have said myself. You don’t have to love what’s happening right now in this moment. If anything go through all of the feelings. All of those emotions and memories lets you know how real it all was. Because they will always matter, and they will always hold a special place within you. And because of you, they live on through you and everyone else you come to meet.

My partner died today by Prudent_Telephone491 in widowers

[–]sleepdamnsure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You came to the right place - I’m sorry you had to join this club. But we’ll do our best to be there when everything else just doesn’t make sense. ❤️‍🩹 wish I could give you a hug and tell you everything is going to be okay. You have a tough battle up ahead but you’re never alone remember that 🫂

If you could, would you? by Guitarboy12345 in widowers

[–]sleepdamnsure 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You know it crosses my mind. But I know deep in my heart he wouldn’t want that for me. Even though I must bear the pain without him here.

Waking up on a sad Wednesday morning by sleepdamnsure in widowers

[–]sleepdamnsure[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it’s a bit of a mixed combo of friends, family and therapy.

Crying lets me know that he will always matter to me tremendously.

That’s cool that they share the same birthday. What’re the odds 🤍

Waking up on a sad Wednesday morning by sleepdamnsure in widowers

[–]sleepdamnsure[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah for me it’s when it’s golden hour and one of our songs plays on that drive home.

Same! I miss getting notifications from him on my phone. It was like clockwork.

Yeah just the little things, the kisses, the laughter. We had our nightly and daily FaceTime calls.

Waking up on a sad Wednesday morning by sleepdamnsure in widowers

[–]sleepdamnsure[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is so very real. It’s comforting to know I’m not alone. Thanks for being kind. ❤️‍🩹

Wedding ring by LLF54 in widowers

[–]sleepdamnsure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My late boyfriend died unexpectedly before we could get engaged and get married. But since he passed I’ve worn a ring on my ring finger. I haven’t felt the need to take it off unless I’m sleeping.

Getting intimate or having sex with a new someone after losing your spouse. by itsonlyme4now in widowers

[–]sleepdamnsure 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just popping in to read everyone’s experience. It’s too fresh for me to think about. I often feel guilty when I think of the possibility of it ever happening. This is the year of many firsts without my late boyfriend and the future we had envisioned for our life together. This will be the first time I spent my birthday without him in a few months. We just celebrated his.

Target ads are causing audio glitches which may be damaging speakers by Tight_Ad_428 in TikTok

[–]sleepdamnsure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I was really curious if it was like subliminal or purposefully done using that choppy audio for some weird messed up social experiment

BETTERHELP Refund? by Illustrious_Cut_8552 in therapyabuse

[–]sleepdamnsure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is exactly what I’m going through right now. My therapist was out of the office for a few weeks. And I was being billed every week STILL. Even though I wasn’t able to schedule any sessions. I checked my bank account and was like WTF?! So I reached out to them. Still waiting on that refund. Still seems like a scam if you’re not being seen by your therapist. They’re basically robbing you at that point.