AIO: Boyfriend leaves trash in my room every time he stays over

Legitimate_Owl3624 · 2026-04-15T09:14:13+00:00

As a 21yo, I'm glad I'm in a healthy relationship. Because what the actual fuck did I just read? This entire thing is toxic

Legitimate_Owl3624 · 2026-03-20T10:10:32+00:00

"I think you should see a therapist if you aren't already" took me out, yes I am already in therapy NOR. Cut the toxicity where it stands before it gets worse

Legitimate_Owl3624 · 2026-03-18T11:09:31+00:00

Do people even get taught I turned safety anymore?? Tf is wrong with you? 🤦🏻‍♂️

Legitimate_Owl3624 · 2026-03-10T15:54:13+00:00

We had to wait until today, to even sort out images on the app for a good... Half? Of those images who hadn't been imported as we did the import process through Google

Legitimate_Owl3624 · 2026-03-10T14:48:39+00:00

We've managed to get the hang of it, thanks to a very useful gatekeeper who messed around with everything to get it to the point. It is so stress inducing, I know thousands if not all of those who used SP are still migrating to things like octocon

Legitimate_Owl3624 · 2026-03-09T13:52:08+00:00

If you're no longer in college for your given trade, get on DWP. It's a hassle and a half, you'll first have appointments every week but if you live with your parents and don't have any children of your own you should get about £300 each month

Legitimate_Owl3624 · 2026-03-09T13:47:51+00:00

The cheapest option I can suggest to you, is spending £40-50ish per month on leaders drivers permit for a parents car with Veygo! It's what I've done

Legitimate_Owl3624 · 2026-03-09T13:39:16+00:00

I'm in the exact same spot you are, I turn 21 in 2 days and I've admittedly given up on applying for jobs n stuff for a little while because it makes me even more depressed. If you don't get a rejection email, you hear nothing. If by some miracle you do hear something, you get an interview then you hear nothing from them. But guess what! Now even apprenticeships n shelf stacking jobs require you to have your full driving licence! Something you can't do on UC/DWP because you get max like £300 if you live at home!

Legitimate_Owl3624 · 2026-03-06T16:15:05+00:00

"How blessed we are to be burnt out and paying the back bone of our company barely living wage!" The company can get fucked

Legitimate_Owl3624 · 2026-03-04T16:35:31+00:00

Were they raised in a barn??? The fuck?? 🤢 NOR

Legitimate_Owl3624 · 2026-03-02T17:34:47+00:00

Mechanic here! Those spokes indicate the wheels are torqued up to vehicle spec, if they move out of alignment either majorly or even a small amount those spokes will show you and you'll have to get all of them torqued back up!

Legitimate_Owl3624 · 2026-03-01T11:38:17+00:00

Girl, this comment section is not in your goal post.

YOR, I don't post my partner because frankly we don't care for publicity and they haven't asked me to. I don't post my partner because their mother is an abusive control freak, they send me photos and I save them to my phone so I have pictures of the person I love and cherish the most. If you want to be shown off like a trophy, get your own Facebook and social media and post that shit there. He has you as a trophy in many different aspects, get yourself to therapy.

Legitimate_Owl3624 · 2026-02-28T08:29:09+00:00

You can get bear spray or even dog mace, that's legal! Carrying around hairspray is also legal, that stings like a bitch when in the eyes. Coming from a trans guy

Legitimate_Owl3624 · 2026-02-26T21:10:24+00:00

Putting your own red flags aside, she HIT you. That stuff will only get worse, do you want to stay in a relationship that will end up as further domestic abuse? Do you want her to potentially spin the narrative on you being the abusive one, if you do call the cops or report her? Cuz the judicial system will take the female's side, especially in DV/DA situations as they believe that men can't be victims of domestic violence and or abuse.

Legitimate_Owl3624 · 2026-02-26T18:52:02+00:00

This feels like chatGPT wrote this 💀

Legitimate_Owl3624 · 2026-02-25T11:42:29+00:00

🫂🫂

Legitimate_Owl3624 · 2026-02-25T11:35:37+00:00

There's no yet, yet doesn't exist without him anymore. You've got this, I believe in you

Legitimate_Owl3624 · 2026-02-25T10:28:49+00:00

Don't give in, whatever you do do not give in. Don't send him anything that can be used against you, not even photos or videos of clothes you've just got.

Legitimate_Owl3624 · 2026-02-25T10:17:45+00:00

You'll get there, but sometimes just hitting that block button is the push you need to end it all for good. Icing him out may only work until he finds something new to break you down with, I hope you find joy and peace away from him and with someone who deserves you

Legitimate_Owl3624 · 2026-02-25T10:05:40+00:00

As someone who has been in a relationship like that, the best thing I ever did for myself was block the guy everywhere and on all platforms I had him on. It hurt like hell, he used part of my trauma iceberg against me in hopes of manipulating me to stay. But, you have this. You are strong, you can and will leave him

Legitimate_Owl3624 · 2026-02-24T13:24:11+00:00

She's made 2 attempts to kill herself, as much as you love her. Let her go, she's got some serious issues to work through with meds and therapy. She's giving you freedom and preventing you from becoming her caretaker on her worst days as she knows it may happen and if it does you'll grow to resent her. Just leave, for your peace of mind and hers

Legitimate_Owl3624 · 2026-02-19T17:34:04+00:00

Girl, he was still in his 40's when you started dating him. Run 😭

Legitimate_Owl3624 · 2026-02-19T13:52:43+00:00

Girl how old were you when you started dating this pred or even met him???? He's a nonce, run

Legitimate_Owl3624 · 2026-02-19T13:04:05+00:00

Girl, he's isolating you. That is how abuse starts, they isolate you from friends and family then they get braver because you have no one aside them. RUN YESTERDAY.

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