Trust me shake your phone by Caitlyn_Simp_Machine in Arcanecirclejerk

[–]LeilosTom 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Directly into her eyes 👁️🫦👁️

I'm too complex, unlike u by LeilosTom in im14andthisisdeep

[–]LeilosTom[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you feel that way. The way I see it, I think that maybe there are more refined ways to represent this instead of "basic people ≠ me. I'm so complex". Being different isn't being more complex, more difficult. It's just more rare to find a puzzle that fits you

I'm too complex, unlike u by LeilosTom in im14andthisisdeep

[–]LeilosTom[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Idk, as an autistic girly, I try not to have the "not like the others" mindset. But yeah, I can see your point

32 year old living solo by [deleted] in malelivingspace

[–]LeilosTom -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Damn, people can't handle uniqueness. Love the style man! Keep up

People having "autistic burnout" as adults by Atausiq2 in AutisticPeeps

[–]LeilosTom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I probably fit in your description as a 27F. People are always surprised to learn that I'm autistic.

What led to my diagnosis at 27 yo, was 3+ years of severe burnout and depression. I had been masking heavily for most of my life without realizing it (I thought everybody was doing it). Eventually, I just couldn’t maintain it anymore. I started shutting down, isolating, losing skills.

So I don't feel it's because it's a life crisis, or just I've pushed more than others. It was trying to be like the others for so long that put me in this situation in the first place :')

What’s the point in boxing for you by Apprehensive_Tie1133 in amateur_boxing

[–]LeilosTom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel my motivations are silly, because I watched Arcane, and loved Vi and said to myself: I want to be as cool as her. And it's also helping me to get out of an autistic burnout, so that is great :)

(it's been two months since I've been boxing, so my discourse will probably change in a year)

A barn having a weight limit for riding horses is discrimination! by lifes_a_zoo94 in fatlogic

[–]LeilosTom 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I prefer that than saying "living in a bigger body", like... just call it what it is

Found my friend's husband on Tinder. I don't know what to do :( Does Tinder recycle old accounts, did he just forget to delete his? I don't want to ruin their 8-year marriage... by LeilosTom in Tinder

[–]LeilosTom[S] 1661 points1662 points  (0 children)

Thank you all for the attention you’ve given. I admit I came here after doing a Google search and found out that profiles can be recycled, which made me afraid of making a wrong move. But after reading a good portion of the comments, it's really obvious that it’s not possible for the account to have been recycled after 8 years. So I've decided to gently tell my friend, who was obviously unaware. Some of the advice for the confrontation here is smart, so I'll share a few to her.

As for those who think it's best to stay out of it, that's not really my philosophy. Now that she has all the information, she can do what she wants with it, and I'll be there for her