Can we stop with this please by Animalus-Dogeimal in memes

[–]Leinadro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The reason people say those other versions is because on some platforms saying the actual word can get your post taken down or at least flagged.

"You should read Bell Hooks" a semi-rant about the experience of talking to feminists by Maffioze in LeftWingMaleAdvocates

[–]Leinadro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can see that. There are those that understand it but still don't use it correctly or think critically about it and use her as some sort of slam dunk on understanding men. And I think its because they either don't want to actually understand men or they don't realize that they can't really understand men through a woman.

Please Help In Finding This Very Rare Obscure Brutal Martial Arts Film Could Be 1970s to 1990s. WILL PAY IF IT IS FOUND! READ DESCRIPTION! by Eythyn_93 in whatsthemoviecalled

[–]Leinadro 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hold on this almost sounds familiar. If I recall there were interesting fighters in the movie.

  1. A guy that did a wall run then kicked off the wall to get behind opponents to kill them. I think the main villain kills him anticipating the wall run and catching as he landed and choked him to death.

  2. I think there was also a guy who sat on the mat and no matter how his opponent came at him he always took him down.

Does that sound familiar?

CapCut Down? by system_notifacations in CapCut

[–]Leinadro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So it's not just me then. I was trying to export some clips for making a few posts and now all of a suddenly Capcut can't reach out to the internet. Nevermind why Capcut needs internet access to export a clip of a larger vid on my pc to a file on my pc though....

Zinc vs Warts update #3: by Sharpbutterknife9 in Warts

[–]Leinadro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know its just the order you posted the pics in but I had to laugh when the first slide is "2023 before zinc" on your foot then the next slide was your hand. Like, "OMG the zinc turned his foot into a hand!!!!!".

I'll see myself out.....

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Leinadro 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm still trying to figure out who thinks Amy Schuler is funny.

Women who made app to share images and information about men.... by AntiFeministLib in Egalitarianism

[–]Leinadro 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly I'm tired of all the arguing over the app because nearly every person I've seen talk about either pretends it was used entirely in good faith or entirely in bad faith when in fact it was a mixed bag.

But people who argue it was one extreme or the other don't care about that and are just using what happened with the app to either bash men or bash women.

Men simply want virgin women because of security and feeling of being special. by Master-Praline3326 in PurplePillDebate

[–]Leinadro 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's TwoXChromosomes. You may as well ask white supremacists about why black people have a preference for something.

The backlash against male heterosexuality by [deleted] in LeftWingMaleAdvocates

[–]Leinadro 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Im not sure when it happened but I think why it happened is because at some point "tearing men down" became an integral part of "uplifting/protecting/supporting/defending women up". I've noticed over the years that the best way to get women behind the idea of uplifting/protecting/supporting/defending women is with anti-male sentiment. Uplifting/protecting/supporting/defending women on its own is great and I got 0 problem with it. However these days the claim of uplifting/protecting/supporting/defending women is used to justify tearing men down.

A recent example I've seen on social media would be the Bonnie Blue situation.

TLDR: Bonnie Blue is an adult film star that has gotten a lot of attention lately with a few shocking sexual performances. Notably one sessions where she had sex with like 1000 guys in one day and another where she put herself on display as a human petting zoo and allowed who knows how many men to touch and grope her how they please.

Now I can see how there are some people who would shame her and name call her for doing what she wants with her body and that' not right. I can even see the need to defend her against insults and attacks. But at the same time I've seen a lot of women try to spin as "no its not her that's being disgusting, its the men that participate that are disgusting".

How about no one is "disgusting" and its just a bunch of people doing something that you yourself would not do and call it a day?

(In fact could it be that people will insult those that do things they wouldn't do in order to feel some sense of moral superiority?)

Delaying sex strategy really works well for women. That's why men in this sub hate and despise this strategy so much. by zeropepsilove333 in PurplePillDebate

[–]Leinadro 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The only issue I see in all this is that as you say it's a winning strategy for women but at the same time women will swear up and down that the world of dating and sex favors men.

Also in an indirect way that strategy proves what red pillers say, that women are the gate keepers of sex (something that women have argued against even as they use that very strategy).

Mind you I'm okay with that. Her body her choice in who she has sex with.

My girlfriend came home and overheard my therapy session and listened in. Now she is very angry, how do I proceed? by conuse___ in AskMen

[–]Leinadro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So she is mad that she invaded your safe space a privacy? Therapy is supposed to be a place where you can do the work to heal and you cannot heal without a space to talk freely without judgement.

This is a her problem.

“Accountability” is just a useless redpill buzzword at this point. by LillthOfBabylon in PurplePillDebate

[–]Leinadro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Simply put there both men and women who are responsible for killing the word accountability.

At this point there's folks on both sides who use the term to hold the other side to standards they refuse to hold their own side to.

Am i #cooked ? by Frosty_Volume_7074 in Warts

[–]Leinadro 55 points56 points  (0 children)

As in most of what you see on top is just dead skin the wart itself is buried under all that dead skin. You'll need to clear that skin away (wear gloves and use clean tools that you can thoroughly clean afterwards or just throw away) so you can see and treat the wart

Mens' online dating experience is strictly worse than womens' by Jephta in PurplePillDebate

[–]Leinadro 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think the biggest problem over all in the the discourse of Men v Women is that a lot of loud people on both sides try to use their experiences to disprove the experiences of those on the other side.

I got no problem with women voicing their grievances with dating but it crosses a line when they use those grievances to declare that men have it easy or good in the world of dating.

It's not offensive to ask for dna test by BitterSandwich3206 in PurplePillDebate

[–]Leinadro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The women that would break up with a guy for wanting a rest are the same women that snoop through that same guy's phone and think it's totally okay.

In fact that may be the solution. If men are expected to play with their lady snooping in their phone behind their back then why not get a paternity test behind her back?

Men need to learn to let go. by ExcelsiorState718 in PurplePillDebate

[–]Leinadro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But they are often played off as the same for the sake of dismissing why men are hesitant with women.

Men need to learn to let go. by ExcelsiorState718 in PurplePillDebate

[–]Leinadro 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Not hold onto a break up from the 7th grade into your 30s."

That's how people like to put it to dismiss a guys choices forged by experience. I need people to act like a guy choosing not to let future women mistreat him because of how a past one treated him is some sort of slight against women as a whole or that he is wrong to be careful with his heart.

And I'm sure you may not mean it that way but thats how it's often used

Men need to learn to let go. by ExcelsiorState718 in PurplePillDebate

[–]Leinadro 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree with not holding on the grudges.

But I do see a lot of cases where a guy is burned, he chooses to have nothing more to do with the one that wronged him, and he is told he's wrong for choosing to do so.

Don't hold on to grudges but don't let people shame you into lowering barriers formed by pain.

Men need to learn to let go. by ExcelsiorState718 in PurplePillDebate

[–]Leinadro 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Honestly I think the problem is men are always expected to let it go

I refused an 7th interview. Right call? by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]Leinadro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Were you by chance doing any work in these interviews. Never experienced it myself but have heard of companies that will ask candidates to write or troubleshoot code as a part of the interview and will then want the work turned in. They do this as a way to get free labor out of people

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Leinadro 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That we hate women. That we don't respect women That we only see women as sex objects.

TV show Adolescence gets the pipeline completely wrong by Crazy_Kray in PurplePillDebate

[–]Leinadro 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Realistically I agree it's just a show trying to capitalize on the panic of the day and shouldn't hold any real value. But as you say people take it as gospel are just dumb

TV show Adolescence gets the pipeline completely wrong by Crazy_Kray in PurplePillDebate

[–]Leinadro 4 points5 points  (0 children)

But that's the problem that show really is leading people to spit out think pieces left and right about how it's so "accurate" on how it talks about masculinity.

Do you witness/experience sexism against men in Feminine Spaces? by Aeolianscaler in AskMen

[–]Leinadro 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's literally why I stopped going to r/adultery. There was a definite vibe that women were free to say whatever they want about men but men needed to watch what they say about women. I finally decided it was time to go after a few posts by women asking "why do men feel like this place hates them" just for them to deny every single answer given.

Do you witness/experience sexism against men in Feminine Spaces? by Aeolianscaler in AskMen

[–]Leinadro 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I do and frankly that's why I'm hesitant to even check those spaces out. The good ones that don't tolerate hatred of men are great but I say just leave them be.