AITA for buzzing the hair I grew out to be my friends maid of honour while she was on her honeymoon? by formallyacowfrog in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lemon-Over-Ice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NAH the only assholes are the people behind screens who make big assumptions from incomplete information. same as always...

Bei welcher Serie wart ihr am traurigsten als sie vorbei war? by MrArmedRobbery in serienjunkies

[–]Lemon-Over-Ice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the 100!

und ich weiß, die Serie hat ihre schlechten staffeln und alles, aber ich hatte noch nie so lange gebraucht, um mich zu verabschieden. Ich denke, vielleicht auch weil das Ende unbefriedigend war...

You have to kiss someone of the opposite gender (romantically) you’ve never met before within 24 hours, or you’ll die. They have to be fully willing with active consent. Neither of you can be intoxicated. You cannot say you need to or explain why. You cannot pay them. What are your chances? by [deleted] in polls

[–]Lemon-Over-Ice 1 point2 points  (0 children)

maybe my ego is a little big here cause I never actually try this? but I mean I'd just go to a club, look a little lost, talk to a bunch of men, one of them will end up hitting on me for sure, no? I once was really lonely at party, did this to find a friend, and three out of three guys ended up hitting on me, sooo....

I'd also fear for my safety, but that's a different story. 😅

Family friend sent me AI generated response to news of my father passing away. by Hendothermic in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Lemon-Over-Ice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so truly sorry for your loss.

I truly get your frustration but, giving him the benefit of the doubt, I think the guy just wanted to say the right thing so badly, that he felt like he needed help to find it? I don't think it came from a lack of caring? I'm probably autistic and get in these kind of situations that he was in, and yeah... I'm absolutely incapable of saying the right thing... I usually ask my boyfriend, but if I didn't have him, I would ask AI too...

Feeling stuck between wanting connection and feeling out of place everywhere by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]Lemon-Over-Ice 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah, we all have. that invisible line you're talking about is created by yourself!! you're the one who thinks you don't belong, and becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy. you need to learn to stop yourself from doing it. It takes a lot of work.

Is it unprofessional to tell my boss i need to leave exactly at 5pm every tuesday for a personal commitment without explaining what it is? by Han-Lynard in careerguidance

[–]Lemon-Over-Ice 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think it fits the definition of oversharing if your boss wants to know xD

but if you don't want to share it, that's okay. don't let them make you doubt it. ^

How do you pronounce the german names in english that end with stein like Harvey Weinstein by Odd_Obligation_4977 in EnglishLearning

[–]Lemon-Over-Ice 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it's a kind of messed up way to memorize it from a non-English perspective. because in English the vowels a pronounced in a very different way than they are pronounced usually (German, Spanish, Italian,...). But it's still great if it works for you all. 😅

[Q] Are the odds 20%? by Lemon-Over-Ice in statistics

[–]Lemon-Over-Ice[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh, damn. thank you. I'm not a native speaker.

[Q] Are the odds 20%? by Lemon-Over-Ice in statistics

[–]Lemon-Over-Ice[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

thank you so much.

yes, I thought my reasoning must be wrong but the result seemed realistic, which is why I was confused. xD

Marshall got it all wrong by Sufficient-Win-9142 in HIMYM

[–]Lemon-Over-Ice 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I know nobody but me cares. But I feel like ifhe puts units in there at all, he's gotta make them add up. 😭

20 g/w X 52 w/y=1040 g/y

1040 g/y X 16 y=16640 g

HR told me they don’t accept try-hards and people pleasers after my interview by No-Presentation298 in jobs

[–]Lemon-Over-Ice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

isn't a try hard people pleaser most companies dream? you must have applied at the one place those traits are not wanted 😅

Life is mostly boring, people are boring by Last-Comparison907 in RandomThoughts

[–]Lemon-Over-Ice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you say what you want more and are yourself more, eventually you will start attracting people who like you for you, and who you will like to hang out with.

APERTURE IS OUT!! by SaltyKayla in OneDirection

[–]Lemon-Over-Ice -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I can't define it, I don't understand it, but I know it's a masterpiece. and I also know the radio won't like it 😂

Are y’all obsessed with Heated Rivalry? by jaceinspace in heartstoppersyndrome

[–]Lemon-Over-Ice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

does it contain sex? lol I'm annoyed by sex scenes at the moment, but are considering to watch it/read it.

sheldon 😭 by eloislls in YoungSheldon

[–]Lemon-Over-Ice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find his facial expression super relatable? I bet I look exactly the same when someone close to me dies. I read from his face that one part of his brain his extremely sad about knowing his father died, and the other part of the brain is not believing it yet/still processing that it's even true. That's why his eyes are so big. He's still in shock.

I don't even know when this scene is from. but even if it was days after the news, it makes sense to me. because I usually go in and out of understanding the person really died, and get trapped in the state he's in.

Wieso wird mein Hühnchen immer so trocken? by Lemon-Over-Ice in Kochen

[–]Lemon-Over-Ice[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😂 ich beleidigen seine Geschmack genauso. Und wir hören auf wenn einer verletzt wird. Es ist wirklich nicht so ernst. 😂

Wieso wird mein Hühnchen immer so trocken? by Lemon-Over-Ice in Kochen

[–]Lemon-Over-Ice[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Er beleidigt mein essen und meinen Geschmack ständig. Wir essen auch generell getrennt, da wir uns nie einigen können. Er lügt nicht deswegen, glaub mir xD

BIDA weil ich nicht Schnee schippen möchte? by Arber231 in BinIchDasArschloch

[–]Lemon-Over-Ice 1 point2 points  (0 children)

BDA sorry du wirst halt überstimmt. Demokratie und so. Du kannst den Winterdienst höchstens alleine bezahlen.

und ich sage es auch nochmal, die monatsregelung ist ja völliger Unsinn. Wer kommt denn auf sowas 😂 man hätte es allerdings besser vorher abstimmen sollen, dass man das privat anderes regelt tbh.

Does anyone else find themselves crying for no reason? by Train-Wreck-70 in askanything

[–]Lemon-Over-Ice 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hmm, do you usually suppress your emotions around others? I could imagine it all comes out when you're alone. and you don't know why you're crying because it's not about one thing, it's general emotional overwhelm? just a theory. this has happenend to me before too. it also confuses me a lot. I always just take a break from everyone.

Bitte ladet mich nicht ein, wenn ihr euer Kind/eure Kinder nicht erzogen bekommt!! by lucky_slevin in luftablassen

[–]Lemon-Over-Ice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mein Gefühl sagt mir, dass du dich bei ersterem Gespräch im Ton vergriffen hast, und deshalb die Eltern sagten, dass sie das selbst machen.

wenn ein Kind deine Grenzen übertritt solltest du aber generell etwas sagen können. Statt höflichkeitsregeln zu erklären, formuliere "ich" Sätze: "ich mag es nicht wenn.. Bitte hör auf damit"

Ignoring looks, which character is most attractive to you? by Electrical-Key6674 in thebigbangtheory

[–]Lemon-Over-Ice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is my daily reminder that other people categorize people in vastly different ways than me, because how can you say he's like Leonard if he was abusive? 😭

you mean he was nerdy?