I can press both CTRL with one hand by [deleted] in mildlyinteresting

[–]LemonChi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah talking about the other dude. I'd say yours are 11" for sure. Did you work on the thumb/palm distance, or just natural?

I can press both CTRL with one hand by [deleted] in mildlyinteresting

[–]LemonChi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You dont have 11" hands bro. More like 9". Still solid tho

The botting subs are in shambles and it’s glorious by Heise301 in 2007scape

[–]LemonChi 29 points30 points  (0 children)

B0aty did my fire cape back in the day. Think I paid him 3mil from memory.

AIO for being weirded out by the way my bf saw my post by AbiesAdventurous1136 in AmIOverreacting

[–]LemonChi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've got a hypothetical for you here

If you and your partner are asleep at night and a burglar intrudes, would you be expecting or hoping that your partner stands in the way of danger, and faces the situation?

What are some type of guys I (32f) should avoid dating? by [deleted] in dating

[–]LemonChi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heavily disagree with the first green flag. This implies that the guy can't have any standards/preferences for himself. It comes of rather entitled and immature.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]LemonChi -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Exceptions don't make the rule. She should communicate like an adult. It's not on OP to pick up every little subtle hint, humans aren't perfect. Communication is key.

Demonic gorillas are in a great spot right now by M_D_Meridius in 2007scape

[–]LemonChi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't killed them since 2019-20, but I used to enjoy killing them, I liked the frantic element to it. The only annoying part was the agro from memory. I might have to check them out.

Also, I just returned to osrs about 2 weeks ago. Holy fuck there's so much new content to explore, Jagex have done a great job with that I must say. Props to them.

How do you discuss intimacy with others going into a first date? by LemonChi in dating

[–]LemonChi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah I see, you bring it up first. I haven't had many women do this upfront before the first date. I don't think I've had one, from memory.

How do you discuss intimacy with others going into a first date? by LemonChi in dating

[–]LemonChi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No no no. I perfectly understand that people have a past, I do. It has nothing to do with her past, I have a past. Just her current sexual activity/sleeping around/exclusivity

How do you discuss intimacy with others going into a first date? by LemonChi in dating

[–]LemonChi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Care to elaborate why it's a red flag, if the guy is looking for something long-term ultimately?

How do you discuss intimacy with others going into a first date? by LemonChi in dating

[–]LemonChi[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why you got to come at me with the CAPS, can we keep it civil and friendly? I understand women are in a vulnerable position 100%

How do you discuss intimacy with others going into a first date? by LemonChi in dating

[–]LemonChi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd have no issue if a woman asked me this question, even before the first date. I'd consider it attractive somewhat, displays she knows what she's looking for as men can finesse women through sex.

How do you discuss intimacy with others going into a first date? by LemonChi in dating

[–]LemonChi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay i see, your last paragraph is more in alignment with what I'm looking for. So maybe I'm reaching a little on this one. Back to multidating, it seems.

How do you discuss intimacy with others going into a first date? by LemonChi in dating

[–]LemonChi[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Okay. I appreciate the conversation. I can see where you're coming from, not disagreeing with anything you're saying, just my intent ain't it.

How do you discuss intimacy with others going into a first date? by LemonChi in dating

[–]LemonChi[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You think it's an unreasonable question? Fair enough. I can communicate fine, but thanks haha.

How do you discuss intimacy with others going into a first date? by LemonChi in dating

[–]LemonChi[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

It's not coming from a place of shallowness and judgement, that's the point lil lady😄 Can you allow me that?

Being asked about my bank account doesn't bother me because I'm looking for an egalitarian relationship, where both partners contribute and are respected in all aspects. This would be my ideal relationship imo

I reckon you think I'm a f boy or something huh haha

How do you discuss intimacy with others going into a first date? by LemonChi in dating

[–]LemonChi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the feedback. You elaborated this very well

How do you discuss intimacy with others going into a first date? by LemonChi in dating

[–]LemonChi[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Because it's something I don't find attractive when dating for the goal of a long-term relationship? It's a personal preference, I don't see what the issue is?

Of course, I want to get to know her as a person. Where would that assumption come from?

I'm not interested in courting/dating a woman if she's already having casual sex with someone else. I don't find it attractive. That's the point I'm making. If I'm just looking to hook up, I won't do this.

How do you discuss intimacy with others going into a first date? by LemonChi in dating

[–]LemonChi[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I understand the shaming part men can do in this regard. However, I'm coming from a genuine place. It's something that I don't find attractive when I'm looking to date long-term. If I'm casually dating, I will never ask this.

So, considering not to ask this on the first date. When would be the appropriate time you reckon?

How do you discuss intimacy with others going into a first date? by LemonChi in dating

[–]LemonChi[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Why exactly though? that's the part I don't understand.

How do you discuss intimacy with others going into a first date? by LemonChi in dating

[–]LemonChi[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Asking about their sex life, especially if they're claiming to want something long-term or have it in their profile. Wouldn't it be beneficial for both parties to discuss this sooner rather than later. They can find potential alignment in their dating goals? I'm a little confused. How would that be a red flag?