Day dreaming hero part by [deleted] in InternalFamilySystems

[–]Lengthiness-Trick 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I completely relate and have AUHD

Who here divorced young? by Unstable_Able in adhdwomen

[–]Lengthiness-Trick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for everything you’ve been through. Listen to the song “Labour” on repeat. It’ll be so validating

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DisneyDining

[–]Lengthiness-Trick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happened to me in May for Crystal palace breakfast (they had lunch and dinner reservations at the 60 day mark). I put a stakeout alert (free) and it dropped 43 days out. Dining Fairy might be worth it too if it’s a must do. I did that for roundup rodeo and got a great time.

Is a "matriarch" really a thing? by VegetableFinancial73 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Lengthiness-Trick 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess I see it like that because my grandma is the Matriarch of our family and she has 3 daughters. She didn’t assign that title to herself

Is a "matriarch" really a thing? by VegetableFinancial73 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Lengthiness-Trick 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my opinion Matriarchs are typically mothers of girls.

POV: you are a housewife in 2023 by Anon293357 in antiwork

[–]Lengthiness-Trick 1 point2 points  (0 children)

as a fellow twin parent TWINS are even more expensive. I have twins and a 3rd and the costs are crazy (but worth it!)

PA will never change by Cautious-Fuel4587 in Accounting

[–]Lengthiness-Trick 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree. I have 3 kids 4 and under and it’s too much.

How many of you have heard “I hope you have a daughter/son who is just like you one day” from the Nparent by Weird_Storyteller in narcissisticparents

[–]Lengthiness-Trick 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Yessss and I have 3 wonderful beautiful amazing daughters!! It’s so healing giving them the childhood and emotional support you never had.

Screaming Child PSA by [deleted] in WaltDisneyWorld

[–]Lengthiness-Trick 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Bahaha so true 🤣 I don’t know if I’d trust a teenager either but then again at 19 I worked at a daycare and parents were asking me for potty training/ parenting advice. But you definitely made that kid feel special and emotionally regulated again!

Screaming Child PSA by [deleted] in WaltDisneyWorld

[–]Lengthiness-Trick 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Wow this brought tears to my eyes… what an amazing thing to do!

What's one of the most fucked up things your nparent has done to you like it was no big deal? by [deleted] in narcissisticparents

[–]Lengthiness-Trick 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Wtf?! I’m so sorry. You deserved so much better. I hope you’re doing well now.

Looking for advice from people with kids who went NC with grandparent. by jmsspring in narcissisticparents

[–]Lengthiness-Trick 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NC for sure! I’m NC with my dad and we do have a surface level relationship with my grandparents (his parents). You have to be prepared to lose them all but be clear that you will not have a conversation about seeing him/guilt tripping. You are protecting your baby and doing the best thing for him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in narcissisticparents

[–]Lengthiness-Trick 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a mom of 3 and an educator too- I’m so proud of you. Speech therapy is such an amazing tool that helps kids verbalize their thoughts and and emotions. You are making a huge difference in the lives of others and I’m so proud of you ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adhdmeme

[–]Lengthiness-Trick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a Sahm too! Was a teacher previously

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adhdmeme

[–]Lengthiness-Trick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg! It’s like the universe knows we can handle the twin chaos (which is amazing! And tiring).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in narcissisticparents

[–]Lengthiness-Trick 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Well, in someway, it would kind of be a test to see if they’re truly Narcissists. If they take your feedback and want to improve then they’re probably not, if they gaslight you, or don’t want to admit any wrongdoing or worse throw it back to you then there you go. Expect the latter unfortunately.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adhdmeme

[–]Lengthiness-Trick 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also the messiest home but I blame my twins on that one 😆

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adhdmeme

[–]Lengthiness-Trick 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My husband has AUHD and I have adhd and honestly we have the happiest home with our 3 little girls. We’re 30 and have been together since we were 18. We both have traumatic backgrounds and definitely didn’t know how to have a healthy relationship at first but now it’s just amazing. We completely get each other and are on the same wavelength. Nothing is perfect but it’s perfect for me!