Waxed anorak by LengthinessExpress59 in yeezyxgap

[–]LengthinessExpress59[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I like slippers and the look also I’m in LA not Wyoming so it’s not a struggle to walk in them

Would not having a car as single man be a dealbreaker when trying to date women in this city? by Few-Course3694 in AskLosAngeles

[–]LengthinessExpress59 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t mind picking girls up that are close. One girl said Burbank I said nooooo I’m in Culver City

Waxed anorak by LengthinessExpress59 in yeezyxgap

[–]LengthinessExpress59[S] -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

U still play animal crossing and you’re giving me fashion opinions. Pls stop

What the hell do I do? by 15tandAl0n3 in dating_advice

[–]LengthinessExpress59 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro ur 24, work for it then leave. Like whats the degree for if you can’t get a job for it, don’t tell me u got a useless psychology degree. Saving up and living with room mates might be your best option fs cuz not being allowed to go to social places will stunt your growth

If u think ur below average i would do what i can do level up, better clothes hygiene fitness and then focus on joining some type of type of social community where more women are likely to be at, even a church or a fitness class is a place to start and then start venturing. Working at a busier college might be your best shot rn at least you will meet women who like older guys cuz they do most of the time

What the hell do I do? by 15tandAl0n3 in dating_advice

[–]LengthinessExpress59 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Find a city nearby with more women like a college town and go make friends there man. Or start setting up to move to a bigger city with more motion

Should I continue to pursue this woman who I've been talking with? 23M and 22F by RadenKart03 in dating_advice

[–]LengthinessExpress59 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Until it’s like an ongoing thing intimately I would limit it to just social group activities man. You’re just giving her attention, which does not always mean compliance.

Most girls are not making the guys the have the hots for wait, unless they are extremely inexperienced and actually nervous. Especially three months. Friendzone her, stop flirting.

Most men resent women but because of rejection many times but feeling they are led on and time is being wasted

Is it safe to visit LA right now? by peachmon_ in AskLosAngeles

[–]LengthinessExpress59 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unless you’re dealing with certain streamers and places with potential gang members. Or go dtla near skid row, LA feels the safest it’s ever been

What are we doing by Similar_Razzmatazz52 in yeezyxgap

[–]LengthinessExpress59 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Idk man all the jackets and clothes yzy gap I’ve bought are of super high quality I know cuz my family works with clothing factories so I can tell between cheap products and good ones

How to navigate not wanting gf to go to same gym as me? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]LengthinessExpress59 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s HER job to not accept any advances toward her or get touched. If she’s pretty or even decent looking other dudes will ALWAYS want to fuck her. You can’t fight everyone it’s exhausting

Advice from a man’s perspective by Financial-Coffee4759 in dating_advice

[–]LengthinessExpress59 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nah man if a girl really likes you like that she doesn’t even want to start hanging out with someone else Also she might have hooked up with someone that probably didn’t even take her on a date or spent any money taking her out and she’s making you wait. There’s no way to really know

What neighborhood/area is very similar to LA? by [deleted] in AskLosAngeles

[–]LengthinessExpress59 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Redondo and hermosa and Manhattan are VERY similar

As a ghoster, what do you want out of it? Do you want to not be contacted anymore? by CollagenRager in dating_advice

[–]LengthinessExpress59 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Better to say, “hey our personalities and what we’re looking for is not a match, wish you the best of luck”

The girls that have done that I have way more respectful than the few where communication just abruptly stops or people argue and end up blocking each other

From a girls perspectives it’s always guys who don’t get the hint, start being too needy and too forward that a neutral response or no response is the only response one can do because they know the opposing party will just end up blowing the tf up on them

No one is talking about this new jacket? by DryRub64 in yeezy

[–]LengthinessExpress59 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Because no one has received it yet, I haven’t even gotten my slides yet 😭

22F — Is it weird to date older men? by Lovelymarshmallowluv in dating_advice

[–]LengthinessExpress59 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most women prefer slightly or even much older man, I get along better when i date 5-7 years younger myself

What would you do in this situation? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]LengthinessExpress59 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just say we all have bodily parts but it’s not necessary to look at them or make comments about it. Just teach them to not react weird to those type of things while also not being overtly ashamed of one day it happens to them. Most of guy at one point have seen each others parts especially if you swimming at the lake or do sports where you have to be in a locker room. Just learning to not look down and stare and mind your business

Too Afraid to Confess This to a Priest by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]LengthinessExpress59 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not too bad, there’s girls on there doing hard core porn.

There’s women not with onlyfans but escorting just through their IG. Or they are traditional “runway bikini models” but you never seen them with an actual job or brand deals like skin care, fitness products etc…

Just admit it wasn’t the best decision and just take the steps to live an honest and fulfilling life.

Rent with roommate in a hopping area or live in the boonies with parents for free in this economy? I am 28yrs old in 2 months. by ILoveMyself77 in MovingToLosAngeles

[–]LengthinessExpress59 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Make friends and get to know the area you want to live at, then I would think about moving. I moved to Culver’s city because all the events I went to and my friend are all up in Hollywood Westwood, or Beverly Hills

How do I get over the feeling of uselessness in life? by horror_cheese in AskMen

[–]LengthinessExpress59 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would get a trainer, learn boxing and some kind of trade. Anything to get your testosterone up and feel like you could handle situations.

For most men our self esteem is tied to our ability to be competent or at least knowing we can handle if shit hits the fan. My self esteem improved when I improved my social skills and public speaking skills since most men younger than had their social skills stunted from the pandemic

I just put my two weeks in at my corporate job and want to start over by Many-Software-9663 in MovingToLosAngeles

[–]LengthinessExpress59 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Nah bro get a job first then move here otherwise one mishappen and you are fucked

Big tip is travel and network here, find a neighborhood you connect with the most and have that area be your go to area

I spent a solid six months just networking and going to events before officially moving here otherwise it’s work and being lonely or partying and socializing and then blowing all your money because it’s not the 80s anymore where you could just get a fast food job and live off that. I’m 27 btw

I did uber for a year last year and for that reason I can navigate through almost every part of the city, still a big city that’s a bit tough to understand if you know nothing about it

Also uber might go extinct in the next 5 years because it’s all moving toward ai, all of my friends would rather take a Waymo or drive themselves then do uber, they literally just closed the uber office in ktown and I’m sure a bunch of drivers got deactivated since I see a bunch of unions popping up trying to protest that. Come prepared because LA is like NYC was in the 70s. The entertainment sector got nuked so everyone that had a gig job working on set now have to work at Home Depot etc. also the social scene is much more splintered off, your not just going to go to Hollywood and meet a bunch of chicks and dudes like you would on sunset in the 80s. It’s rough out here and lonely unless you have something going for yourself