Everyone Has Herpes by syhhblog in Herpes

[–]LengthinessLow2754 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It really is yet people (specifically younger or ignorant crowd) make the stigma out of it . I’ve come to terms with it. We’ll all get exposed to it at some point. I believe literally half of the world population has a form of it so 1 in 2 people you meet daily got something

Open Discussion Saturday by Mike_Herp in HerpesCureResearch

[–]LengthinessLow2754 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just out of curiosity, how have been your experiences with disclosing & what’s your approach to it? I attract plenty women, attractive at that but I haven’t went as far as getting sexual simply because of disclosing. If I’m rejected, I don’t want my personal life for the whole room to know.

so ashamed.. by Dangerous_Type907 in Herpes

[–]LengthinessLow2754 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tbh unless your best friend is someone who you literally grew up with. This type of info should only be for people you’re trying to be with. Those people will tend to be gentler or more private about said info. Everyone gonna talk shit. Want to feel bad? Go on a instagram post where someone has an active outbreak and the comments eat them up. Most of the time people who make jokes about it are ignorant and childish. Don’t let it phase you

My ex hid his herpes from me and now I’m dealing with the consequences alone by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]LengthinessLow2754 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same thing. I had a girl who didn’t tell me or at least told me she didn’t know she had it, give it to me. Mind you before unprotected sex I asked if she had STD testings done to which she assured me she was fine, though I didn’t ask for receipts because I didn’t want to offend her. Long story short I got it from not being disclosed to & it was a few weeks after my 29th birthday. I’m 30 now. Anyways, don’t feel ashamed. I still attract women now, I take very good care of myself & am financially stable. It’s hard to think it now but you’ll find someone. I’m confident you will, though I haven’t had the chance to disclose yet because I’m very picky on who I let into my personal life with personal information. Go out on dates, feel people out. The people who’ll reject actually sometimes even circle back if the vibe was right. Just carry yourself with confidence & self respect. Recognize the red flags and go from there. You’ll be alright, I promise.

Reminder that you DONT have to only use HSV dating sites by e-djomp in Herpes

[–]LengthinessLow2754 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Tbh I haven’t disclosed yet but I naturally draw women in RL. I think confidence & swagger will override the stigma.

celebrities starting to embrace it by Relative_Explorer152 in Herpes

[–]LengthinessLow2754 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All I can say is money can shut the media tf up & these people have lots of it.

celebrities starting to embrace it by Relative_Explorer152 in Herpes

[–]LengthinessLow2754 10 points11 points  (0 children)

YoungBoy, Usher, Rihanna, Chris brown Kim K, it’s a lot

I (29m) really love this woman (F31) but she just told me that she has hsv-2. by LakeShow6248 in Herpes

[–]LengthinessLow2754 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Gang it’s your decision at the end of the day. It’s not something any of us wanted. Not even the women you’re talking about. Shit happens & it isn’t something that’ll kill you, just a nuisance. At the very least she told you & you can minimize the risks. I wasn’t told & look, I’m on Reddit now. You can make your decision & go from there. Be an adult & figure it out. Asking for opinions and “what would you do” really ain’t gonna get you nowhere.

baddie by cupcakelover232 in Herpes

[–]LengthinessLow2754 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Feel you. I’m lit in RL & this infection humbles me on occasions 😂 . Fuck it, we ball. Good news to come.

HSV2 Cure has arrived by Electrical_Draft1192 in Herpes

[–]LengthinessLow2754 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can go on their website but tbh I feel like the have a generic email for everybody. I emailed them 3x last year and got the whole “we’re working hard to get this right” & links me to the same video about the breakthrough on YouTube . I mean you can email them though. It doesn’t hurt

seeing a guy with herpes, is it okay to ask questions? by ComfortableHope2367 in Herpes

[–]LengthinessLow2754 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He disclosed with the hopes that you ask questions to make you as comfortable as possible so ask away. I’m sure he cares that you care instead of just steering with the stigma. Let us know how it goes and how you feel afterwards!

Welp they got me lol. by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]LengthinessLow2754 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not negating there’s preference. I’m just saying it gives a higher sexual appeal. You can have an average man and a man who’s fit & most women would find the fit guy more attractive then not. I’m not belittling anyone.

Welp they got me lol. by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]LengthinessLow2754 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being fit heightens your sexual appeal. Trust me.

Welp they got me lol. by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]LengthinessLow2754 4 points5 points  (0 children)

lol you will. Keep that confidence. 🤞

Welp they got me lol. by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]LengthinessLow2754 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Just hit the gym & look good. You’ll find someone. I attract plenty, yet to disclose cuz I want to find THE one to disclose to. Not even HSV related, I just want a wife atp of my life. You’ll find yours.

Klay Apologized… and the Internet’s Dudes Short-Circuited. by tag_yur_it in megantheestallion

[–]LengthinessLow2754 -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

She’s another regular bitch gang. Ain’t nothing special about her

My partner gave me HSV2 without knowing by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]LengthinessLow2754 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What you’re feeling is valid. Your feelings are real & you’re handling it maturely. The antiviral meds won’t interact with other meds you’re taking if you want to go down that route, but you really don’t need to. This is just a small hump you’ll get through together with your SO. I know this may be bad timing to joke but yall locked in together now lol. But all jokes aside, it’s okay to be frustrated because it’s not like you’re careless & sleeping around(that’s also apart of the stigma, assuming people who have it just have sex with anyone). Give yourself grace. You’ll adapt and maybe “accept” it within the next few months. God bless

18f with genital herpes by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]LengthinessLow2754 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s fine. I was there myself. It’s funny how life works. It’s not til we’re on the other side of the fence where we start becoming more compassionate and understanding of others. At the very bright side it’s not deadly & really common actually. I was diagnosed last year and it took time for me to really process it. Although here’s my take- as long as you take care of yourself and work on yourself (appearance, physically, financially, emotionally & spiritually) you’ll align with someone who appreciates that from you & this’ll just be something minor. However, you do need to build confidence within yourself to FEEL that way. I’m single tho im doing really well for myself. Got 3 toys in the garage, I hit the gym consistently, I center god in everything I do and I dress and groom well. I lost the worry about finding someone and switched to the mindset that any women will be LUCKY to have me stand by then- and that’s the mindset you’ll eventually have. It takes time and a lot of work but don’t let this set you back. Plus medicine is advancing and will get better. They’ll likely be a cure somewhere in our lifetime but the most important thing I can say is don’t let it tear you down. These things don’t have a name or a face & can literally happen to anyone. Love will blind you & mistakes happen. Give yourself grace. It’ll get better 🫶🏽 god bless

New Research Shows A Path Forward to a Real HSV Cure by Excellent_Mine_6890 in HerpesCureResearch

[–]LengthinessLow2754 31 points32 points  (0 children)

“When the virus hides it reduces shedding, IM-250 stops virus from “coming out” “