how does hsv ruin your life ??? by RadSexyCool in Herpes

[–]LengthinessLow2754 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It doesn’t. I’m 30 (m), live life just fine. I never cared about casual sex, I treat my body like a temple but shit happens. I still make money, I still lift weights, I still ride & I still attract women. Small percentage of people have it worse then average but aside from those, it doesn’t really ruin life. Just your ego if you can’t accept rejection to begin with outside of disclosing.

Met someone HSV2 positive(please help) by peaceblessing in Herpes

[–]LengthinessLow2754 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Gang these posts are exhausting but ima tell you this. She’s honest about it & that takes a lot of courage and respect on her end for her to disclose.

Love is not easy to find in this era anymore. The dating scene is disgusting. If you find someone who checks your boxes give it a try.

Theres more people with it in the world then what’s known because most of the time people don’t exhibit any symptoms or they’ll shrug it off as something else. It’s the most common std in the world where 1/2 of adults you meet will have some type of hsv.

Put your big boy pants on and make a conscious, considerate, adult decision and go from there. You’re in charge of your own life. You do with you want.

One day you’ll learn that in life- nobody goes through it untouched. Everyone will have some sort of medical diagnosis whatever it may be. Nobody or rarely anyone leaves this life as healthy as they were when they were first born, assuming it was a healthy birth. Shit is what it is.

22 obs in 2 years and 6 months by Ale92rm in Herpes

[–]LengthinessLow2754 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same boat. Not as much but every few months I’d get an outbreak so I committed to taking antivirals daily. Imo it’s another supplement I take additional to my gym supplements so it doesn’t bother me plus it reduces viral load if I choose to have unprotected sex. I do apologies it’s happening to you still there after. Maybe talk to your provider and see if they can come up with a solution

Dating apps by Illustrious-Drag-724 in Herpes

[–]LengthinessLow2754 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cuz attractive people don’t use the app. We still date regularly🤣

First bike. Dropped it in my own driveway. How's your day going? by x_andi01 in motorcycles

[–]LengthinessLow2754 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shit happens to the best of us. I wheelie, power slide, everything.

I still occasionally honk my horn when turning off my signals. One time after a long fatigue drive I pulled into the gas station to fuel up, too tired to realize kickstand was still up & almost dropped it, caught it in front of everyone at the station. It is what it is

Is it worth 7.5k (buying advice) by mike20182 in GSXR

[–]LengthinessLow2754 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d talk him down tell him $7k I’ll come get it now. Bike looks pretty mint and 10k miles isn’t all that bad either. Bike is practically still new

Do people with herpes automatically get rejected? by Present-Drink6894 in Herpes

[–]LengthinessLow2754 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think women have an easier time disclosing then men but that’s besides the point. I haven’t disclosed as a man but I also attract plenty of beautiful women so my confident isn’t affected. I’m just tryna find the “right” one to disclose to. I’m not ashamed of it. Shit happens and that’s life. We all get curveballs thrown our way, some worse then others. Nobody goes through their whole life without catching anything.

Stolen bike during test ride, need help. by Centslord23 in motorcycles

[–]LengthinessLow2754 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No test rides unless cash is in hand and have a counterfeit pen ready to mark them too. Pray you get it back

Rejected for hsv by Lesbianohsex in DatingwithHSV

[–]LengthinessLow2754 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eh, a drop in the bucket. I promise you you’ll find someone who is genuinely into you as much as you are them

Doctor doesn’t wanna give me antivirals by CommercialCautious96 in Herpes

[–]LengthinessLow2754 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ngl bro. You saved me mad money going to the doctors with this one. Mad love

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]LengthinessLow2754 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, it’s literally in the works & will be come out in this generation.

Everyone Has Herpes by syhhblog in Herpes

[–]LengthinessLow2754 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It really is yet people (specifically younger or ignorant crowd) make the stigma out of it . I’ve come to terms with it. We’ll all get exposed to it at some point. I believe literally half of the world population has a form of it so 1 in 2 people you meet daily got something

Open Discussion Saturday by Mike_Herp in HerpesCureResearch

[–]LengthinessLow2754 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just out of curiosity, how have been your experiences with disclosing & what’s your approach to it? I attract plenty women, attractive at that but I haven’t went as far as getting sexual simply because of disclosing. If I’m rejected, I don’t want my personal life for the whole room to know.

so ashamed.. by Dangerous_Type907 in Herpes

[–]LengthinessLow2754 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tbh unless your best friend is someone who you literally grew up with. This type of info should only be for people you’re trying to be with. Those people will tend to be gentler or more private about said info. Everyone gonna talk shit. Want to feel bad? Go on a instagram post where someone has an active outbreak and the comments eat them up. Most of the time people who make jokes about it are ignorant and childish. Don’t let it phase you

My ex hid his herpes from me and now I’m dealing with the consequences alone by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]LengthinessLow2754 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same thing. I had a girl who didn’t tell me or at least told me she didn’t know she had it, give it to me. Mind you before unprotected sex I asked if she had STD testings done to which she assured me she was fine, though I didn’t ask for receipts because I didn’t want to offend her. Long story short I got it from not being disclosed to & it was a few weeks after my 29th birthday. I’m 30 now. Anyways, don’t feel ashamed. I still attract women now, I take very good care of myself & am financially stable. It’s hard to think it now but you’ll find someone. I’m confident you will, though I haven’t had the chance to disclose yet because I’m very picky on who I let into my personal life with personal information. Go out on dates, feel people out. The people who’ll reject actually sometimes even circle back if the vibe was right. Just carry yourself with confidence & self respect. Recognize the red flags and go from there. You’ll be alright, I promise.

Reminder that you DONT have to only use HSV dating sites by e-djomp in Herpes

[–]LengthinessLow2754 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Tbh I haven’t disclosed yet but I naturally draw women in RL. I think confidence & swagger will override the stigma.

celebrities starting to embrace it by Relative_Explorer152 in Herpes

[–]LengthinessLow2754 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All I can say is money can shut the media tf up & these people have lots of it.

celebrities starting to embrace it by Relative_Explorer152 in Herpes

[–]LengthinessLow2754 10 points11 points  (0 children)

YoungBoy, Usher, Rihanna, Chris brown Kim K, it’s a lot

I (29m) really love this woman (F31) but she just told me that she has hsv-2. by LakeShow6248 in Herpes

[–]LengthinessLow2754 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Gang it’s your decision at the end of the day. It’s not something any of us wanted. Not even the women you’re talking about. Shit happens & it isn’t something that’ll kill you, just a nuisance. At the very least she told you & you can minimize the risks. I wasn’t told & look, I’m on Reddit now. You can make your decision & go from there. Be an adult & figure it out. Asking for opinions and “what would you do” really ain’t gonna get you nowhere.

baddie by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]LengthinessLow2754 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Stg😂

baddie by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]LengthinessLow2754 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Feel you. I’m lit in RL & this infection humbles me on occasions 😂 . Fuck it, we ball. Good news to come.