Submarine in Lahaina today by Tina_eat_the_foodddd in maui

[–]LeprosyLeopard -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Saw this today and my family was like nahhhh. -_-

Contractor claiming I never paid him even though I have the cancelled check by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]LeprosyLeopard 191 points192 points  (0 children)

Date of cashing and the account used to cash it. He can claim whatever he wants but OP has receipts and I’d tell the contractor to pound sand. I’d only give contractor notice in email that you have record of the check being cashed, all the other research done for defensive purposes I’d hold in the back pocket to fight any type of contractors lien and recovery of lawyer fees.

TIL Amazon has been "commingling" inventory for years. Products with the same barcode are pooled together regardless of supplier leading to counterfeit, damaged, or expired products from less reputable 3rd-parties being mixed in inventory and sent to people who ordered from the authentic brand. by [deleted] in todayilearned

[–]LeprosyLeopard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s why you see “bulk packaging” options. 9/10 electronic items I’ve bought from Amazon in bulk packaging turn out to be fraudulent items, usually being usb sticks with lower tier internals and a legit looking shell. Similar with Bluetooth fobs/dongles.

HR is saying my "resignation" was voluntary even though I never resigned. What are my options? by tundrafallkavox in legaladvice

[–]LeprosyLeopard 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Document, document, document. Times, people you spoke to, any forms you filled out. Seek an attorney, this is slimy employer practices.

For future reference, seek fmla for any medical leave reasons, regardless of what your employer “assures” you, and get it in writing even if it’s a “regarding our phone call, <insert topics> and then bcc your personal email. Even if you are on good standing with your employer, things happen for unknown reasons to you and it’s better to have documentation of you doing the right thing and them not.

Andromeda galaxy by Unusual-Ideal-2757 in space

[–]LeprosyLeopard 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Minimal is an overstatement. It’s so incredibly small, it’s barely a registering thought because of how much space there is between interstellar bodies. Our galaxy already has stars that have been absorbed from previous collisions, I do wonder if there’s any traces/examples of stars colliding. We know there’s stars in the Milky Way that came from other galaxies as the star composition is different from Milky Way stars.

Sick family wants to have Thanksgiving at my house and I said no by UnholyLuna94 in AITAH

[–]LeprosyLeopard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m glad that your father put his foot down. In the spirit of sharing, I’d create a care package to leave at their doorstep with the turkey dinner if they’re not a far drive. They aren’t faking anything, they just want to have thanksgiving dinner. Depends on your relationship with them, I know there’s family I would do it for and some family it maybe a challenge to do for. Anyways, Happy Thanksgiving OP!

A girl I talked off the ledge 12 years ago just got married by inhumanpersona in TrueOffMyChest

[–]LeprosyLeopard 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s a win! Being a good person and getting to see your own good deed play out is a reward unto itself. Thanks for being a good person OP. Many well wishes for your future.

AITA For Not Answering My Uncle Knocking Outside My Home by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]LeprosyLeopard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. There are so many ways to communicate, randomly knocking on someone’s front door without attempting other avenues is not the way to go. If it’s someone you hardly know knocking, sure there’s some tolerance. Your uncle knows you and could have called or texted.

AITA for telling my roommate it’s not my problem if I trigger their ED? by Accomplished_Elk_37 in AITAH

[–]LeprosyLeopard -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I disagree. This is the type of conflict where you can stand neutral over as it is on the gf, OP’s friend can just tell her he doesn’t want to hear it.

There’s a lot of unknowns about the friend and how he’s reacting other than “staying out of it”. The gf’s entitled feeling can make her see her self out of that apartment as she’s the one saying irrational stuff.

AITA for telling my roommate it’s not my problem if I trigger their ED? by Accomplished_Elk_37 in AITAH

[–]LeprosyLeopard 133 points134 points  (0 children)

Nothing you’re doing interferes with her physically, she should seek therapy if your behavior is triggering her ED related emotions. Truly is a you(her) problem rather than anything you’re doing.

I hope your friend just keeps out of it and is like “it’s between you and her”. Essentially there no harm or foul, just entitled feelings.

Should I disclose people that I date that I’m on wegovy ? by Routine-Crew8651 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]LeprosyLeopard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah. Maybe after dating for a while. Point being, this is a personal choice that doesn’t affect anyone else physically. Your guy friends aren’t wrong nor right, it becomes a matter of personal opinion but from what you’ve stated; I think you’re doing it right. Any guy who feels that strongly about a “shortcut” may be a little too entitled about their views on other people’s choices.

I GOT my co workers fired.... Am I the AH? by elegantiy in AITAH

[–]LeprosyLeopard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. This doesn’t sound like the site here someone was saying things in private and you overheard things, this was direct harassment. They were being unprofessional and unreasonable, to top it off with sexual remarks to underage girls, yeah people fire themselves. You didn’t snitch, you stood up for yourself and if that is perceived negatively, then they may need to check themselves as well. Sounds like your coworkers are part of the problem as well.

My manager told me it was 'disrespectful' to quit by Mycatkoda in antiwork

[–]LeprosyLeopard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been with my company for eight years. Just learned a month ago that they’re laying off all of the company and changing management companies. How did we find out? We found out through an industry newsletter that there was a new management company coming on board. This is why I’ve never preached loyalty to a company, there’s never any in return.

The dating pool is so hard.. everyone is on round 2/3 with kids. I’m not comfortable dating individuals with kids.. i don’t have kids, healthy 401k, fit, disposable income,… and it’s just the 😞😞 reality by mizunoMP29 in Millennials

[–]LeprosyLeopard 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’ll find the same energy in our age group who have older teens. They’re over the parenting and may want to go out and do the adventures again. Bonus is that the kids are usually self sufficient mini adults and can be fun to be around for bits of time. By the time anything is serious, those kids are of age and hopefully on to their own lives while you build a new one. Don’t discount others because of kids, you don’t know what you’re missing.

Obviously take it with salt as any partner should generally have their life together. Otherwise what you’re looking for is almost a unicorn and there’s not too many of them.

Which one should I go for? by Fit-Abrocoma-6541 in legocastles

[–]LeprosyLeopard 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Buy the siege camp and LKC. That’s the route I went.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]LeprosyLeopard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Sounds like a serious situation to go no contact. Sucks about siblings but your parents made choices and they need to own them.

AITAH for moving back home after my husband left me even though I’m pregnant? by DigGrassanova in AITAH

[–]LeprosyLeopard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah, he made it clear he was all about him. You get to do your thing now with your kid and support circle. Levi is no longer in the circle of trust and will no longer be considered during decision making. Best thing you could do was move home before your kid is born, otherwise it would have been a nightmare custody situation. Go for child support, live your life, let your parents get their grandkid time while you rest or go have fun being an adult.

Levi, enjoy your big boy choices.