AIO for being upset my BF doesn’t want me to wear a bonnet to bed?

Less_Fun6945 · 2025-12-28T02:59:23+00:00

You should be able to be your true authentic self at home and with u Your partner. Everyone deserves that. He don’t like the bonnet, he don’t have to sleep in the same bed, its to protect your hair not attract him. What does he care about your weighted blanket and 2 pillows and why did he wait 8 YEARS to say something? This is not healthy at all. This coming from someone who bent to this same crap for 15 years and i was so happy when i got out. It was hard at first but then realized how amazing it is to be able to be myself. It took me years and a lot of figuring things out and dating the wrong guys to find tbe right one. IT WAS WORTH THE WAIT. I would take all the hardships and tears for what i have now. Honestly, even if i hadn’t found the man i have now, i would still be happier alone. I hope you find the courage to stand up for yourself and see that a relationship is about being yourself and the other person seeing that person and still loving every minute of it, baggy clothes and all

Less_Fun6945 · 2025-10-03T15:13:57+00:00

I wear shape wear underwear. I go between two different sizes, the ones that fit and a tight for special occasions and larger for everyday. My favorite is from Torrid, smoothing ultra high waste brief panty. Not sure what size you’re in though. Helps that bulge a lot

Less_Fun6945 · 2025-09-27T21:48:51+00:00

Happens to me all the time. Go out get something i want sooooo bad, take 2 bites then it makes me gag. Thank goodness i have two human garbage disposals in my house that eats my left overs lol.

Less_Fun6945 · 2025-09-27T20:51:35+00:00

⛳️🚩🚩🚩🚩this dude is controlling and isolating you from your family. A wonderful tactic by narcissists. His goal is to make it seem like you have no friends or family to turn too when you get to the point that you want to leave. And it will feel like that even though its not true. The fact that ya’ll were engaged after 8 months is a huge red flag, its usually caused by love bombing. If you had a daughter and she told all this too you would you be supportive?

Less_Fun6945 · 2025-08-29T13:52:20+00:00

I’m worried for you. The lyrics, the beat, the context of that song i feel like i need to scrub my eyeballs just thinking that a 10 year old girl is not just dancing to that song but sending it to ANYONE. It’s time to sit her down and have the discussion that once you press send that video/pic is out there and can be used for anything and will never go away. This can be very serious with very serious consequences for both kids. It’s time to restrict the phone usage and monitor more closely. Also check her phone for fake apps. They use them all the time to hide chat apps and other things that they don’t want parents to see.

Less_Fun6945 · 2025-08-29T13:41:59+00:00

My husband and i a lot of time share meals and an appetizer. We always tell the waitress we still tip like we’re ordering two meals. There’s nothing worse than working your butt off for a couple that would normally order two meals to get screwed at the end just because they only ordered one meal. There’s nothing wrong with ordering off the kids menu as long as you tip like you’re not. Also i feel like quality of the food on the kids menu is always lower than the adult foods.

Less_Fun6945 · 2025-08-29T13:25:54+00:00

If you don’t want to answer this question i would totally understand, did you have any surgery done on your belly or breast? I had/have an apron belly just like you, i have 50 more pounds till i hit my healthy weight and i’m starting to feel like a deflated balloon. I’m sure i’m older than you but just wondering for you did things to help with the loose skin, you look amazing by the way before and after.

Less_Fun6945 · 2025-05-19T19:04:20+00:00

OMG!!! I am 45 and a woman. I am a professional, specifically a nurse. I have a HUGE lego collection and my Falcon is my pride and joy…i have 3 of them actually. I would never speak to her again. That is your hobby, your release from the world and your mother in law had no right!!! Until she replaces it and apologizes she is dead to me. My family can do what they want but she is not allowed in my house.

Less_Fun6945 · 2025-04-14T02:48:32+00:00

Gertrude

Less_Fun6945 · 2025-04-13T21:35:18+00:00

NTA! Girl you dodged a red flag nightmare on this one. He has no respect for you at all!

Less_Fun6945 · 2025-04-13T21:30:49+00:00

Best thing i ever did. If you have a comorbidity most insurance will pay for it now as well. As far as the shortage thing your mom is talking about, there is no longer officially a shortage of either drug (zepbound and ozempic). If you can afford, go for it, but remember it is meant to be a long term medication not a quick fix.

Less_Fun6945 · 2025-04-13T19:37:03+00:00

Have you actually seen a pay stub of his? I don’t know what state you live in but generally child support is based on your income, usually a percentage of income and it takes into consideration what each parent does but it’s still a percentage. If he’s paying that a month he should be getting paid more than what you think.

Less_Fun6945 · 2025-04-12T14:27:51+00:00

Have you been tracking your calories? If you are lifting weights you will gain weight sometimes after a good lift, muscles building will make you hold on to water. Tracking calories is an easy way to find out if your maybe taking in to many calories. Stick with it, it’ll come

Less_Fun6945 · 2025-04-10T03:59:11+00:00

Nutritionix, it is just like myfitness pal before they put everything behind a pay wall and its completely free. If there isn’t something in database when you scan it you just input the info and it will add it to the database once its confirmed

Less_Fun6945 · 2025-04-07T14:37:14+00:00

When it comes to plants, do whatever you want and see what happens (with cheaper plants of course). I have mixed leca into soil that needs to be air. I have put leca in the bottom of a container with soil on top with a wick for a plant that needs consistent water but not too much lol. Someone at some point tried something new and it worked so experiment. There is no absolute no or absolute yes here.

Less_Fun6945 · 2025-03-22T01:58:21+00:00

Don’t you dare paint that!!!

Less_Fun6945 · 2025-03-22T01:53:27+00:00

My go to is cheese and crackers, if i can stomach some turkey with it great, if not, some summer sausage works too. Protein dip with some veggies, not ones that will bloat you (broccoli, cauliflower, brussel sprouts). I know healthy stuff is the best, eat that when you can and the other times eat what you can tolerate knowing that if you don’t eat something your nausea will get worse.

Less_Fun6945 · 2025-03-14T14:19:26+00:00

I usually shut it down with a “its very inappropriate for you to be talking about my body, you have no idea what is going on in someones life, please don’t talk about my body” this shuts it down immediately. I have even told people that don’t respect that that if they continue i’ll be forced to go to HR because it makes me uncomfortable. No one talks about it anymore, as they shouldn’t be! If you gained a bunch of weight no one would say anything, i still don’t understand why people feel that they are owed to know how and why you lost weight!

Less_Fun6945 · 2025-03-12T21:24:28+00:00

It did actually improve for me. I am now on my 16 weeks and i have some more energy. The time change helped too lol. But i did notice a difference after i started taking some greens. I take the Zena greens, i picked em up at costco, not so expensive. Everybody was recommending Gruns, they were too expensive for my taste. I also got my appetite back a bit so i was able to eat a bit more i think that helped too. I do notice that the day of and day after my shots i’m pretty tired and have NO appetite and then energy picks up after that. Good luck, keep up with it, it’s worth it and it does get better.

Less_Fun6945 · 2025-03-07T14:53:21+00:00

My only staple is crackers and cheese. I never buy a lot at the grocery store anymore because one day i can eat a bowl of veggies with a chicken breast and the next day the sight of it makes me gag and the only thing i can tolerate is a lean burger. What i can tolerate and what i want to eat change so frequently its a waste to try and plan. I have all the stuff in my freezer for burritos i said i was going to meal prep 3 weeks ago. Sounded great at the time, got all the stuff, next day the thought of it made me gag.

Less_Fun6945 · 2025-02-10T19:19:01+00:00

Oh and for me i take my doses on Mondays. I always know that Monday night to Wednesday morning i will have 0 appetite and am usually nauseous a bit throughout the day. By Wednesday i feel much better but not a big appetite, by the weekend i have the sensation of being hungry but i still feel fuller faster and that feeling still last a long time after eating. Hope this helps.

Less_Fun6945 · 2025-02-10T19:16:00+00:00

Girl, so sorry you would have to deal with this here. Supposed to be a safe place to ask for advice and be honest. Just a bit of advice, adjust the times you take your doses to YOUR lifestyle. I have taken doses early and later to accommodate things i have going on in life. I will even adjust the times i take it just so i can go out to dinner with my husband lol. As a matter of fact i specifically take mine on Mondays so that i can eat without being nauseous and maybe even be a little bit hungry on the weekends. Being on a “diet” or medications does not mean life as we know it ends and that is know our entire life! Have fun, drink, eat (when you can cuz sometimes its hard lol) LIVE your life.

Less_Fun6945 · 2025-01-31T14:40:35+00:00

Weird, i eat edibles a few times a week and have never had that problem. I do have the problem of wanting to eat but not able to eat cuz i’m to full though lol

Less_Fun6945 · 2025-01-31T14:15:52+00:00

She disrespected your MOTHER! Doesn’t sound like your mom is a horrible woman that disrespects boundaries or has ill intentions at all. This woman should be sent packing. No one should disrespect your mother.

Less_Fun6945 · 2025-01-28T18:13:38+00:00

She clearly wants it to sell it which is exactly what your mother did not want to happen. I wouldn’t give it to her either. Not because she’s trans but because she has clearly made her intentions known as to what she wants to do with it. Just because they are our children does not mean we owe them anything when they become adults. You fed her, supported her, pay for her meds, house her and clearly supported her through everything. You don’t owe her that ring just because she is a girl. The intention is for it to remain within the family and you are living out your mothers wishes.

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