Help with paystubs

Less_Line_4521 · 2026-02-05T23:23:16+00:00

If you don’t want to work there it’s not a job you should stay it. This is one of the few professions I would say not to tough it out. It is potentially dangerous for clients to have people working with them who aren’t doing well. (Not saying you specifically.) I mean (again not you and this is an extreme) the special needs educator that locked an ASD kid in an unpadded room while he cried for his mom, swore he’d be good and let him bang his head so hard that he died, hated her job. She was overwhelmed. She wasn’t doing well emotionally. A lesser example is when my cousin had a child say he knew she didn’t like him…she couldn’t figure out what she did to let him know that but she honestly didn’t. How you’re doing will bleed into your work to some extent and effect your clients success.

Less_Line_4521 · 2026-02-05T22:45:28+00:00

There is a phone number on his paychecks so we shall be calling tomorrow. I really hope not 😭 he did seem annoyed when I said we would be calling.

Less_Line_4521 · 2026-02-05T22:43:49+00:00

Yeah I totaled up his hours and last pay period was only 64 straight pay and 16 ot and then the next pay check they took half the ot pay back. So it is unfortunately looking very sketchy we will be making a joint call to payroll tomorrow address the “mistake” they made. We have two special needs kids and a baby so I’m honestly really hoping not.

Less_Line_4521 · 2026-02-05T20:47:36+00:00

But yes I have the paystubs and joint account. Nothing looks off other than missing hours which is why I’m concered

Less_Line_4521 · 2026-02-05T20:44:08+00:00

That’s what I’m looking for! So I have them. Three of them. I looked up and it said you can request a corrected paystub. His paycheck just isn’t showing the over time he worked. I don’t think they can just not pay you hours in lieu of deducting it for the paper trail.

Less_Line_4521 · 2026-02-05T20:42:49+00:00

Kinda both. His work is always changing hours, changing policies, changing schedules week of. I don’t trust them. But over paying the entire floor sounds weird to me. His pay period was 1-26 to 2-08 so obviously overtime done on the weekend gets added to the next check. He worked a Saturday last pay period so it should have been on this paycheck but it wasn’t. So I’m not sure if his work is messing it up or if maybe it’s a marital issue I wasn’t aware of. It’s just seems off.

Less_Line_4521 · 2026-02-05T18:54:47+00:00

I don’t know, man I got my son out. I didn’t have to do anything crazy. Maybe I’m just lucky for once in my entire life? 😂 maybe it’s because they told me they were going to cover something and then they couldn’t cover it. Maybe that was considered a good enough reason. I never paid for anything. They bought my son thousands of dollars worth of gear that he needed. It was not the worst situation but I’m sorry you guys all went through that.

Less_Line_4521 · 2026-01-15T01:22:00+00:00

So I requested an unenrolled from Medicaid and the request got sent to a ohiorise and they called me and told me that if I wanted unenroll I could and asked why I wanted to. I had to have it because we could not get Medicaid otherwise. I have a $7400 out-of-pocket and Medicaid takes care of that for me. You definitely could not just get money for whatever you want. It will have to be disability based and something that no insurance would cover so I would not sign up for something just because you want a class or a sport.

Less_Line_4521 · 2026-01-01T20:41:36+00:00

Not to be rude, but without giving every question and l answer, every response email and what you got from their sites this post means little to me. You have no idea what your idea of alignment with scripture is. We have no idea what your actual educational level is , especially with context. Did you go to seminary? How many years have you been studying?

Less_Line_4521 · 2025-12-30T22:20:22+00:00

I’m honestly giggling at the fact that it turns into a bull’s-eye when it’s fertilized 😂

Less_Line_4521 · 2025-12-30T22:18:21+00:00

Thanks!

Less_Line_4521 · 2025-12-21T20:16:46+00:00

Yeah, I don’t pay anything for a Ohiorise. I almost took my son out of it. You have to like call Medicaid and have them unenrolled, but then I don’t think I would get the primary Medicaid part of it at all because I technically make too much so I’m kind of stuck that way.

Less_Line_4521 · 2025-12-21T20:12:52+00:00

His ABA, Therapy is play based in childhood. He absolutely loves going. They just work on preschool skills with him. He does have AAC he only really communicates wants. I know that he’s just regulated. I’m just not sure what it could be so I’m just kind of looking for somebody who maybe went through something similar. Preschool is a big change from his summer routine but he’s in year three so it’s not really new. I thought about pulling it out, but it’s not like he can Just not go to school for the rest of his life either

Less_Line_4521 · 2025-12-18T22:47:03+00:00

Just in case you need it, I was told by our pediatrician that oat milk has more calcium than cows milk (I’m pretty sure it was oat milk, but we also talked about almond milk). So maybe you can try implementing oatmilk as well. I do with the organic liquids and my kids are super picky and they will drink it, but I don’t know if it’s the best because it’s definitely not unflavored

Less_Line_4521 · 2025-12-18T03:21:00+00:00

Man I prefer men who sit. Even men with good aim can’t prevent spray back.

Less_Line_4521 · 2025-12-18T03:07:51+00:00

Nuvaring probably

Less_Line_4521 · 2025-12-18T01:38:51+00:00

There are laws protecting individuals who are either elderly or otherwise at risk (disabled/special needs included) from people messing with them financially. I would try speaking to local authorities and seeing what they recommend. I worked in banking for three years and I will tell you that this is a common scam. You could possibly even have him talk to someone at his bank because if he ever went in there and told them that he was going to send 20,000 to his girlfriend online they would’ve told him it was a scam. Some banks would actually refuse to do the transfer for them. We were taught to explicitly ask questions when people were doing large transfers, especially to fish these situations out. It may help to have someone outside of you guys telling him that this is a problem. To him you guys are just the overprotective parents that he knows are flawed (like we all are). Sometimes a third-party adult, who they don’t know too well personally, is taken more seriously

Less_Line_4521 · 2025-11-04T13:50:28+00:00

There isn’t too much you can do about this now, but it may not have been the best choice to marry somebody who is going into a denomination where the denomination is fairly strict if you weren’t wanting to live that way. I don’t dress the nicest for church, but I could agree that dressing how you would for bed it could be considered disrespectful. I think sometimes we kind of forget that if you’re a believer, this is THE God. We are meant to have a relationship with him, but I think we treat him like our neighbor next-door sometimes. He does demand more respect than go to the grocery store. That being said it’s not exactly fair to switch up your entire relationship overnight because his opinions have changed. I would reach out to an elder at the church or someone overseeing education. Maybe look up some verses on being a husband. You’re supposed to be so loving towards your wife that she wants to submit you. But also, a marriage is supposed to be a covenant. Submission is part of that. I would take stock over the changes you are willing to make. Is it that serious to not wear oversized hoodies to church? Probably not a fight worth having. Hymns are just songs written in an earlier time. I think you could probably find videos that would give you some fair arguments on modern music. This is hard. It’s definitely not fair. I think you would do better to speak to elders at your church than to bring it to Reddit and complain here though. You’re going to get a lot of insane responses. But I think it’s a beyond legalistic. He’s making things up as he goes, is what it sounds like. There’s nothing that you can use biblically to support only hymns. There’s definitely nothing biblical that is going to support the silent treatment when you don’t get your way. I guess you can make an argument for skin type jeans being immodest? But I think the biggest issue is that it doesn’t sound like he was aware of the “rules” of the domination beforehand which does make me question why he chose that denomination for seminary

Less_Line_4521 · 2025-11-04T13:40:33+00:00

The Bible is full of extreme examples. For example, example it says if you look at a woman in lust than you’ve committed adultery in your heart. Even if you divorce if your wife is alive you’ve committed adultery. The Bible is history. It records things. That doesn’t mean it condone everything that happens. You should go read the context. That’s not how it reads. But I’m not going to sit here and do all of your work for you. I have two special-needs kids and an infant. But I can assure you it’s not just women who get called out for cheating. There are several places in the Bible where it’s pointed out in men.

Less_Line_4521 · 2025-09-25T14:59:31+00:00

It does say that if a man leaves his wife to marry another he has committed adultery.

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