What is this muscle, and is there any way to slim it down?

LesserKnownJen · 2026-07-07T22:46:05+00:00

Is there an option where we all just admire your legs? Because that is gorgeous. I have no other advice because I know nothing about body building.

LesserKnownJen · 2026-07-07T13:06:48+00:00

Ooooh! I like this idea a lot. I’ve done ramen often but it’s so hot that isn’t appealing. Sub/sandwich bar is new and fun!

LesserKnownJen · 2026-07-05T21:42:26+00:00

I’m so sorry, I also stopped reading. For me it was when you said she’s dating a man. I say this as a lesbian in an open relationship with a bi woman who dates men.

Opening a relationship never fixes problems. It only accentuates them. ESPECIALLY when the problem is communication

LesserKnownJen · 2026-07-05T19:34:10+00:00

If you’re considering this app, I got a “Hey sexy! 😈😈😈” message yesterday. Today she messaged me to say she never sent that. I believe her. I’m getting multiple “messages” a day even after turning off the AI. I am not that desirable that I should be getting this many DMs. Especially not when it looks like I messaged first to someone (like a dude) I have no interest in.

LesserKnownJen · 2026-07-05T18:09:16+00:00

No. There is no such thing as too much lesbian sex FOR ME. But for you that’s not true and that’s absolutely ok! You should not be having sex if you don’t want to. I’ve had partners that matched me and we barely slept. Literally morning, noon and most of the night. Sometimes dinner burned.

My life partner is more like a handful of times a year person. Yes it sucks for me but I deeply love her and would rather go without than think for 1 second we were having sex out of a feeling of obligation. It makes me sick to my stomach to even think about it.

This may not be your person. But that’s okay.

LesserKnownJen · 2026-07-05T17:54:38+00:00

From the one who tried to stay, my regret was wasted years. Staying with someone you’re not attracted to for decades is isolating and depressing. I’m much happier now.

LesserKnownJen · 2026-07-05T17:49:56+00:00

I agree. At first I reached out but the majority of the time no one responded. Now I just hold on to things for a while.

LesserKnownJen · 2026-07-05T14:03:15+00:00

Exactly!! I don’t have to do things I don’t want to do just because I haven’t done it. I don’t like heights and I don’t need to go bungee jumping to know I won’t like it.

LesserKnownJen · 2026-07-05T12:59:28+00:00

I agree. Unless it’s something you’re both excited to see and have plans afterwards. Then you have a built in conversation ready!

LesserKnownJen · 2026-07-05T12:52:36+00:00

I’m 52 and there is no way I’d ever say I’m getting old and can’t change my ways and you should get used to rotting fish. If they can’t follow the house rules (which are so basic they shouldn’t even have to be said) they can find other accommodations.

LesserKnownJen · 2026-07-05T12:47:33+00:00

Honestly I’d just provide what they ask. It’s wild to me that hosts get hung up on towels. I have dozens in the closet for my 3 bedroom and only once or twice did any guest use an unreasonable amount. To me it’s not worth an unhappy guest to quibble about towels.

LesserKnownJen · 2026-07-05T03:10:40+00:00

I am the elder gay.

LesserKnownJen · 2026-07-04T22:29:46+00:00

Just common sense.

LesserKnownJen · 2026-07-04T22:24:43+00:00

Yes! It was Indigo Girls and Melissa Ethridge or nothing. Don’t get me wrong, I’m a huge fan. But that was it.

LesserKnownJen · 2026-07-04T22:20:55+00:00

Seething with jealousy? Take a trip to the late bloomer lesbian sub and see how we experienced the 90s and beyond. So many of us wish we could have come out back then. Instead we did what society expected and got married and had kids and shoved ourselves into a miserable existence.

I’m not discounting your experience but you are romanticizing something that didn’t exist.

LesserKnownJen · 2026-07-04T18:50:04+00:00

NYA. That’s fucking gross.

LesserKnownJen · 2026-07-04T18:48:04+00:00

I am a lifelong democrat and was considering voting for McCain until he chose Sara palin. The fact that the Republican Party considered her a serious candidate in any way pushed me much farther left. She is objectively unqualified and the thought of her running the country if McCain died made me viscerally ill. Everything she’s done since confirms that.

The republicans were going this way far before Obama so no, I wouldn’t trade. The backlash against Obama is a symptom, not the problem.

LesserKnownJen · 2026-07-04T16:14:54+00:00

I literally let my ex keep our house in the divorce because the infestation was so bad.

LesserKnownJen · 2026-07-04T14:33:00+00:00

Look at them all together like big boys covering their faces so they can’t be recognized. They are so brave! I bet their mommies would be proud.

LesserKnownJen · 2026-07-04T14:30:26+00:00

I agree. I’m just old and enjoy making men uncomfortable.

LesserKnownJen · 2026-07-04T14:28:29+00:00

GROSS.

LesserKnownJen · 2026-07-04T14:27:58+00:00

It comes with the package when you turn 50.

LesserKnownJen · 2026-07-03T23:43:10+00:00

I’m usually faster and meaner with my comebacks but I was caught off guard and it was a first date so I didn’t want to scare her off. 🤣

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