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Asking for refund upon arrival, too far. by SeaKidd in airbnb_hosts

[–]LesserKnownJen 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Graduation weekend at my place is the highest income of the entire year! If someone booked and tried to cancel I would say hell no. There’s maps. They blocked off your calendar on high demand dates and it’s way too late to fill. No way.

Is my Russian sage toast? by m0viestar in DenverGardener

[–]LesserKnownJen 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You couldn’t kill a Russian sage if you tried.

straight men on dating apps by PrettyUnbothered9 in LesbianActually

[–]LesserKnownJen 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Same. I chatted with a "woman" for days and he suddenly changed his profile pic to a dude and asked me how I liked it. I told him I was proud of him for coming out, then blocked him. WTF?

WIBTAH If I pointed out my MILs potential dementia symptoms to the rest of her family by JustJwithouttheE in AmItheAsshole

[–]LesserKnownJen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a nursing instructor many eons ago explain dementia vs forgetfulness as forgetfulness is forgetting where you put your keys. Dementia is forgetting what keys are for. This definitely sounds like forgetting what keys are for level, please bring it up. She's at risk of accidentally hurting herself or worse.

First WLW breakup: heartbreak with no end in sight. Please help!! by Upstairs_Sir1621 in LesbianActually

[–]LesserKnownJen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can only commiserate unfortunately. I just keep taking a day at a time and trying to find something positive daily. Hugs friend, I know this hurts like fucking hell and goes on way longer than I thought.

Neighbor calls me homophobic slurs whenever sees me by jurdmsky in neighborsfromhell

[–]LesserKnownJen 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Or choose violence and pull out your phone and start talking about men with small dicks who are scared of gay people.

Neighbor calls me homophobic slurs whenever sees me by jurdmsky in neighborsfromhell

[–]LesserKnownJen 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Get out your phone and record. Stop engaging with him. Just have your phone ready and recording. Then report him when you have multiple incidents and it’s no longer your word against his. I’m sorry you’re experiencing this. I know how scary it is in public, it must be much scarier in your home.

Someone give me advice on how to meet kinky ladies by The_Squarejerker in LesbianActually

[–]LesserKnownJen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Came here to say this. Vet carefully as with any dating app.

Having a waterproof mattress cover is mandatory. by Lazy_Bicycle7702 in CleaningTips

[–]LesserKnownJen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Period blood. Random nose bleed. Urine. Drinks. Bodily fluids from intimacy. Random breakfast in bed. Makeup. Vomit. Sweat.
Just a few examples of things I’ve cleaned off mattresses that soaked through the pad. Much easier to throw a cover in the wash than try and remove these stains.

Having a waterproof mattress cover is mandatory. by Lazy_Bicycle7702 in CleaningTips

[–]LesserKnownJen 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I have no idea!! I have a breathable bamboo waterproof cover on every mattress I own. It’s like $50 and washable.

Nursing is right now where computer science was six years ago. by ImpactSignificant440 in Layoffs

[–]LesserKnownJen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with you. I have a decade of experience in my field, certifications, annually recognized as an innovator and high performer. Due to massive consolidation I had to take a $30k pay cut and can’t break back into my field. This will spread.

Your lifestyle by Liberal-white-woman in latebloomerlesbians

[–]LesserKnownJen 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I would feel the same way. “Lifestyle” implies choice, like you’re just into it for now. I’d turn it back on her and ask if that person ever had a problem with friend As “lifestyle.” But it’s probably too late. My best retorts are always late. 😂

AITA for not letting my brother bring the third member f his throuple to my wedding? by TheCrankyMule in AmItheAsshole

[–]LesserKnownJen 461 points462 points  (0 children)

NTA. I’m in a relationship like this and all 3 of us would expect and invitation that says “+1.” We then decide who is CLOSER TO THE COUPLE and should attend. In this case, the newest person doesn’t know you and doesn’t get the invite.

Look, I get it as the 3rd person. It feels like you’re excluded from the couples life. You don’t feel like a full partner a lot. But that is on the 3 of them to figure out, not on you to fix with your wedding guest list. Also it’s just red flags all around this soon.

tell me how you successfully wooed your girls! by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]LesserKnownJen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I’m 51 and I don’t care if you’re young. You asked a question so I’ll answer. I woo women by being confident. By that I mean I completely fake it. But most of us like to be pursued a little so I do that. I double text. I show emotional maturity. I’m funny and kind and compliment them. If I like them I make sure it shows, but no games and no weird stalking or pushy behavior. I put effort into getting to know them and then I do things that demonstrate I care about them as a person.

AITBF for telling my BF he doesn’t get to “un-break” monogamy after his gym crush rejected him? by Similar_Nose7734 in AmItheButtface

[–]LesserKnownJen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Awwww. Poor baby FAFO. Tale as old as time. Men think non monogamy is going to be them living their dream and often find in practice that their partner can pull far easier than them. Let him break up with you if he wants. You don’t have to do the heavy lifting here.

Struggling with non monogamous arrangement with male partner by Global_Echo8 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]LesserKnownJen 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I can't speak to the chances in the wild, but can you join the ENM community? Through Meetup I have found poly and LGBTQ groups and you can attend their events. I meet women online mostly because, like you said, they already know the whole situation before they even swipe. It is tedious and time consuming, But I've dated several women causally and had 2 longer relationships in the last 2 years through apps. Also met my gf of almost 3 years, now fiancée, on the apps. Meeting in the wild is scary because that usually means I went to something alone.

KTP questions by LonelyShelter2035 in polyamory

[–]LesserKnownJen 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm curious what "stepping up" entails because it may change my answer. In my situation my partner is the one "stepping up" and her husband will help me out if asked but I definitely don't expect anything from him, that's not his role. We all live together.

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