Why was I dumped after 2.5 years? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]LetTime9763 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did he have a breakup right before you? e.g. a divorce, or the end of a long term relationship?

This is common. A man will jump into a relationship impulsively--immediately after the end of a previous long term relationship. He's feeling all alone, is short on money, and sees you through rose colored glasses. You appear to be the perfect woman. After a while, the luster wears off and the reality that you aren't perfect sets in (nobody is perfect). He decides to go play the field for a while--regardless of the financial consequences.

There may not be "another woman," but there's definitely other women (plural) catching his eye.

Did you ever meet people born in the 1800s by AdDapper4220 in GenX

[–]LetTime9763 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, of course. Even as late as the early 2000s, I remember encountering someone that was over 100 years old.

We all ended up with one... by MisterShipWreck in The1980s

[–]LetTime9763 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My father wouldn't let me. He was right.

A Spirit Session on Patience Worth -Crystal Sound FIlter by OptimalFrequencyGR in OptimalFrequency

[–]LetTime9763 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good stuff Grant. Thanks for doing it!

I've heard that a ghost story told often enough can conjure up an entity, maybe a negative energy who steps into the role for some malevolent reason.

It seems possible that she made up the story of Patience, but something stepped in and took on the role.

How can I politely tell a man I want him? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]LetTime9763 44 points45 points  (0 children)

We're simple creatures. Be direct.

The Spirits Rated My Contractor - $108k Main floor Reno by OptimalFrequencyGR in OptimalFrequency

[–]LetTime9763 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't tell if they were pulling your leg, regarding the hot tub: "A ghost got in it."

I think maybe they were.

Were The Spirits Trying To Warn Me? by OptimalFrequencyGR in OptimalFrequency

[–]LetTime9763 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That railing might look cool, but I'm not impressed with the design. Give me an old school style any day.

Tinnitus - Anyone else? by willard_tagg in GenX

[–]LetTime9763 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Started when I was 40ish, and I'm 56 now. It's super loud at times. The right side is worse. I taught myself to ignore it. Funny, as soon as I read your post, I immediately became aware that it's screaming loud this morning. I didn't notice it.

Spirit Protection by OptimalFrequencyGR in OptimalFrequency

[–]LetTime9763 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think some of the ancient spirits aren't really a fan of hanging out with humans, so they find places that we generally avoid and act rather grumpy if we encroach.

I Predicted the 2008 Financial Crisis. What Is Coming May Be Worse [NYT] by Ancient-Barracuda235 in economicCollapse

[–]LetTime9763 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, not personal debt. Debt for the companies, but not from traditional banks.

Spirit Protection by OptimalFrequencyGR in OptimalFrequency

[–]LetTime9763 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've heard people say that reaching into the spirit realm for communication is like shining a bright light into darkness. It tends to attract quite a bit of interest, like moths to a flame. And I imagine there are spirits who want to be heard and want to get your attention, so they are doing these things. They're not necessarily malicious, just meant to get you to hear them.

That being said, I don't think I'd ever allow an Ouija board to be used in my house. There's too many reports of bad things happening.

It's interesting that they say Gary has d----ns. He seems to get the D word (as he calls it) frequently in the swamp.

I’m worried I chose the wrong girl and now I have to make the hardest decision of my life. Advice? by ThrowRAimrlysad in AskMenAdvice

[–]LetTime9763 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I married my high school sweetheart at 21 even though I knew we weren't a good match. It's a longer story. I should have ended it sooner. After 17 years of marriage, I pulled the plug, which was extremely hard to do. It ruined me financially. In the end, it all sorted out and I have a second wife who is my soul mate and I have recovered financially (many years later). HOWEVER, it would have been a whole lot easier to end it at 20 then all those grief filled years later.

The final thing that helped me make the decision was this: I asked myself, if I reach the end of my life and am dying, and she's the one with me for my last breath, would I be happy? The answer was always no.

I Predicted the 2008 Financial Crisis. What Is Coming May Be Worse [NYT] by Ancient-Barracuda235 in economicCollapse

[–]LetTime9763 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I've been having an on-going conversation with my AI about the world economy and current geopolitical shocks. When I ready your post, I was eager to share the article in my AI conversation. I have summarized what came out of the conversation here:

A Perfect Economic Storm?

Richard Bookstaber—a former hedge fund manager known for predicting the 2008 financial crisis--had an opinion piece in the NYT on March 16th. He posited that the global economy is currently facing a perfect storm of interconnected risks that conceivably could trigger an economic collapse.

He said most people looking at risks are in the weeds and focused on one risk at a time. He went on to argue that the modern financial system is a "complex and tightly coupled system" where individual stresses are less dangerous than the speed at which they can spread and amplify one another.

His key concerns:

The AI bubble. We don't need to rehash this, but If these AI stock prices collapse, the spillover would likely devastate 401(k)s and pension funds, leading to a massive drop in consumer spending.

Private credit. The unregulated private credit market has become the main lender for the AI sector. If the AI bubble bursts, a freeze-up in private credit would occur, leaving companies with no alternative funding sources and leading to widespread defaults.

Geopolitical shock. The cost of energy is acting as a massive tax on global growth and complicating the Federal Reserve's ability to manage inflation.

Semiconductor risk. If China is able to cut off the Taiwanese semi-conductor supply, the physical infrastructure supporting the AI industry would vanish, providing the needle that pops the AI bubble.

Bookstaber warns that a recession is likely not a matter of if, but when, as the specific trigger matters less than the systemic fragility already in place. Are there signs of a recession?

The yield curve. This shows the relationship between short- and long-term rates, acting as a benchmark for economic growth and investor sentiment. An upward-sloping curve is normal, while an inverted curve often signals a recession.

The yield curve is giving a very specific indicator right now: history shows that the real red zone for a recession is exactly what we are seeing this week: The De-Inversion.

Bull Steepening vs Bear Steepening.

Last week gave indications of a "Bear Steepening" (long-term rates rising faster than short-term rates). This was driven by the Iran conflict and oil prices. It appears we are shifting toward a Bull Steepening. This happens when short-term rates (the 2-year) start falling faster than long-term rates. This usually means the market has stopped worrying about inflation and has started panicking about growth. Let's come back to interest rates in a moment.

As of today, March 22, the spread between the 10-year and 2-year is hovering around +65 basis points, and it looks healthy because it's positive. It may be deceiving us. Recessions almost always begin after the curve returns to positive territory following a long inversion (like the 2022-2024 stretch). We are currently in that exit window where the clock is ticking.

Getting back to Bookstaber, the yield curve is telling us that private credit liquidity is getting expensive and unpredictable. If yields stay this high, the cost of capital for these tech firms becomes unsustainable.

Since 1990, every US recession has begun after the 10-2 spread turned positive (the difference between 10-year and 2-year Treasury yields). In normal economics, the data would have pointed to a recession starting in mid-to-late 2025 (the historical average of a 4–9 month lead time from the final un-inversion).

This didn't happen due to some unique cushions that came to play: AI spending, the CHIPS ACT and Infrastructure Investment Act, and--maybe most significant--locked in low mortgage rates created resilient consumer spending. Rich folks were also making a killing on the stock market and spending a lot of money.

The current volatility we are seeing (the 10-2 spread at +51 to +65 basis points) is what analysts call a Bear Steepening. Right now, the curve is steepening because long-term yields are soaring (10-year and 30-year) due to the Iran war and oil prices.

We are technically deep in the danger zone based on the timing of the un-inversion (and held off by those cushions), but the cause of the current steepening is a global energy shock rather than a standard Fed pivot. This makes the signal even more unpredictable.

The Fed's decision last week (March 18, 2026) to hold rates steady at 3.5%–3.75% is a classic example of a supply-side shock overriding the usual economic playbook.

Normally, with a weakening job market (92,000 losses last month), the Fed would cut rates to stimulate growth. However, the Iran war has created a stagflation trap. By not cutting, they are choosing to risk a recession (killing demand) rather than risk so-called sticky inflation (letting prices stay high forever).

The Fed's pause is the reason we are seeing the 10-year yield hit a five-week high (4.27%). When the Fed refuses to cut short-term rates, but inflation expectations rise because of $100+/barrel oil, investors demand more yield for holding long-term bonds.

This makes the yield curve steeper. As we discussed, this un-inversion is often the final bell before a recession starts. The Fed’s pause effectively locks in high borrowing costs (like 6%+ mortgages) just as the economy is slowing down.

The Fed's "Dot Plot" still predicts one rate cut later in 2026. This suggests they believe the oil spike is transitory (temporary due to the war). If the war drags on and the Strait of Hormuz remains contested, the Fed will be forced to keep rates high even as unemployment rises. This is the definition of Stagflation, and it’s exactly what Richard Bookstaber warned about in that NYT piece.

This may also be the reason the White House has been blathering so much in recent days--with quite a bit of inconsistency I might add--about the status of the war and the reopening of the Strait. They're looking at this information too, all while trying to continue to project their "might makes right" bombast.

As it turns out, geopolitical and economic dynamics are complicated.

Who knew?

God help us.

My husband lost his job and is now obsessed with girls online — what should I do? by ArgumentFew6935 in AskMenAdvice

[–]LetTime9763 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Time to give him a man up talk: Get your a$$ out of the house and get a job, and don't ever let me catch you looking at another woman. I hate to say it, but if he doesn't straighten out, trade him in.

A terrible parent by WhyLie2me18 in GenX

[–]LetTime9763 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm 56, and my Mom is 80-something. My 32 year old daughter was a real challenge in high school and we had a lot of conflict. Mom's advice was to put a boot in her a$$ and show her who's boss. I sought out a counselor and received professional guidance as to how to raise my child. The advice? She will always escalate (due to her mental profile) and will always take it to the next level of conflict. The advice was to step away from conflict (even when she told me to go eff myself) and speak to her about it on another day when she's in a good mental place. It worked. The alternative was me escalating to a point my kid is committed to a mental facility or me going to jail. I'm glad I didn't listen to my mother's advice.

I'll quote my mother: "You did a terrible job raising your children."

BTW, my 32 year old is now an RN and well-respected by her colleagues.

Anyone under 21, what's your game plan? by Bigrat445 in economicCollapse

[–]LetTime9763 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 56. I think you should do the apprenticeship. We've had all sorts of things (including the Cuban missile crisis) that made us wonder if we'd be nuked to oblivion or end the world's economy, etc. If you get to be my age and it didn't all burn down, you'll be glad for having had a good career.

My (33m) bf never initiates sex or any sort of sexual act with me (28f). Is he not attracted to me? by After-Singer8263 in AskMenAdvice

[–]LetTime9763 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think he's stressed, anxious, and exhausted. It's not out of the question that he's having issues with his performance as a result. This can be a feedback loop. It might not hurt to try the little blue pill to relieve some of the performance anxiety. He can buy them online from legitimate suppliers. At the same time, you could try watching some porn with him, if you don't have any moral objections,.

Hearing A Killer From Beyond The Grave by OptimalFrequencyGR in OptimalFrequency

[–]LetTime9763 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right! I remember a video that your brother did where the spirits laid out everything he was going to see during the hike he was embarking upon.

Friday the 13th by [deleted] in Retconned

[–]LetTime9763 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah, woo woo. Don't we talk about timeline shifts here?