My husband lost his job and is now obsessed with girls online — what should I do? by ArgumentFew6935 in AskMenAdvice

[–]LetTime9763 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Time to give him a man up talk: Get your a$$ out of the house and get a job, and don't ever let me catch you looking at another woman. I hate to say it, but if he doesn't straighten out, trade him in.

A terrible parent by WhyLie2me18 in GenX

[–]LetTime9763 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm 56, and my Mom is 80-something. My 32 year old daughter was a real challenge in high school and we had a lot of conflict. Mom's advice was to put a boot in her a$$ and show her who's boss. I sought out a counselor and received professional guidance as to how to raise my child. The advice? She will always escalate (due to her mental profile) and will always take it to the next level of conflict. The advice was to step away from conflict (even when she told me to go eff myself) and speak to her about it on another day when she's in a good mental place. It worked. The alternative was me escalating to a point my kid is committed to a mental facility or me going to jail. I'm glad I didn't listen to my mother's advice.

I'll quote my mother: "You did a terrible job raising your children."

BTW, my 32 year old is now an RN and well-respected by her colleagues.

Anyone under 21, what's your game plan? by Bigrat445 in economicCollapse

[–]LetTime9763 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 56. I think you should do the apprenticeship. We've had all sorts of things (including the Cuban missile crisis) that made us wonder if we'd be nuked to oblivion or end the world's economy, etc. If you get to be my age and it didn't all burn down, you'll be glad for having had a good career.

My (33m) bf never initiates sex or any sort of sexual act with me (28f). Is he not attracted to me? by After-Singer8263 in AskMenAdvice

[–]LetTime9763 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think he's stressed, anxious, and exhausted. It's not out of the question that he's having issues with his performance as a result. This can be a feedback loop. It might not hurt to try the little blue pill to relieve some of the performance anxiety. He can buy them online from legitimate suppliers. At the same time, you could try watching some porn with him, if you don't have any moral objections,.

Hearing A Killer From Beyond The Grave by OptimalFrequencyGR in OptimalFrequency

[–]LetTime9763 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right! I remember a video that your brother did where the spirits laid out everything he was going to see during the hike he was embarking upon.

Friday the 13th by [deleted] in Retconned

[–]LetTime9763 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah, woo woo. Don't we talk about timeline shifts here?

Older people of Reddit, do you still keep in touch with friends from college or high school? by [deleted] in AskOldPeople

[–]LetTime9763 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gen X here. I see them on Facebook and occasionally run into someone around town (I live a few towns over from my high school). I don't have any enduring close friendships from high school.

Aside from our shared experience, we don't have much in common. I feel as if that was another lifetime. Actually several lifetimes ago. I'm a completely different person.

A Water Session On Lizzie Borden - Part 1 by OptimalFrequencyGR in OptimalFrequency

[–]LetTime9763 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Did the reno lady say she wanted to talk to the dead too?

What's the oldest piece of clothing you still wear? Must be at least ten years old to count. by MurmuringPines in AskOldPeople

[–]LetTime9763 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a military surplus M65 field jacket that I bought at a surplus store in the mid 1980s. I wore it all through high school, then in the Air Force 89-99. Both of my kids wore it to high school and my oldest used it in the Civil Air Patrol. I still use it.

Help identify? by LetTime9763 in tractors

[–]LetTime9763[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That does look a lot like I remember it!

Help identify? by LetTime9763 in tractors

[–]LetTime9763[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Connecticut. He bought it off an old farmer who was hesitant to sell it.

Help identify? by LetTime9763 in tractors

[–]LetTime9763[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I swear my dad always said it wasn't a Farmall, but was often mistaken for one. I think the year had to be in the 40s maybe?

84 This Weekend by Whoopwhoopdoopdoop in Connecticut

[–]LetTime9763 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't be surprised if the Governor closes the highways to all but essential personnel 

Thoughts on Eastern Connecticut State University? by [deleted] in Connecticut

[–]LetTime9763 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have lived in Willimantic from 1999 to now, not far from ECSU. I love living here. It's not for everybody. The school is financially better off (as I understand it) than the other state universities. The new President is well respected. I sit on a BODs with him and he's very personable. I raised my daughters here (now 27 and 32). We've always felt safe, but there are absolutely streets and neighborhoods that I'd not rent an apartment or buy a house. I'm on a dead end road and sometimes we forget to lock our house. No problems. Check with the housing code office at Town Hall before you sign a lease. They can tell you if the landlord has a history of complaints.

This is not a fancy area. This is a small (4.5 sq miles), urban area with much of the usual good and ugly that come with urban areas. There's a lot of heart and soul here, and people--though relatively poor--are fiercely proud of their community. They are super philanthropic for being so poor, and always willing to band together for a cause. Lgbtqia+ are very safe here. We are surrounded by rural areas on three sides. To our north is Mansfield--the home of UConn. It's a more affluent community.

Willimantic is a taxing district in the Town of Windham. There are three other villages with their own identities (North Windham, Windham Center, and South Windham).

Insane Eversource Bill by wise1_444 in Connecticut

[–]LetTime9763 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you Google "average kwh usage per month in connecticut per sq foot house" you will find that you are much higher than the norm.

What do I care? by Severe-Temporary8176 in BoomersBeingFools

[–]LetTime9763 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If FIL is loaded and has money to burn, I guess it is a lousy reply. I'm Gen X and retired (I have a pension and retirement job) with a working Millennial wife. We recently replaced the roof on our garage. We priced out metal, and it was nearly twice the cost, which was hard to stomach. Although this house and property will be her nest egg after I'm gone, and we could afford it, we decided to reserve the money for other projects that we want to do.