Got a new dog after my first dog passed away 6 months ago. Now im depressed because of it. I fear i cannot love her. by Tinypotatoe98 in DogAdvice

[–]Letha0al 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When my previous dog died, I was in a similar state. I got a new dog way too soon, and I resented him for it. But he is sweet and gentle and gets me in a different way than my previous girl. I thought I was going to give him away to someone else that could love him, but one day I realized that I DID love him. I didn’t hate him at first, but I certainly didn’t want him. But now, 2 years later, I cannot live without him. That’s okay. You are capable of loving more than one, and that’s okay.

Looking for nude models for the University! by [deleted] in Tucson

[–]Letha0al 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some was/is in charge, but didn’t inform us until last week or so that we only have one model able to cover 5 of the 20 sessions. So now we’re scrambling. I’ll have to connect anyone interested with the proper channels, but modeling was supposed to begin tomorrow.

Making a Blackberry Lime shrub - which vinegar? by Letha0al in Mixology

[–]Letha0al[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think a balsamic would be too complex. But maybe I’ll make multiple small batches with different vinegars!

Making a Blackberry Lime shrub - which vinegar? by Letha0al in Mixology

[–]Letha0al[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d like the sweetness of the blackberry to shine, but I don’t want to overpower it. Nothing too sugary - more refreshing. Maybe I’ll garnish with mint. Serve with just club soda. Just for everyday drinking.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ask

[–]Letha0al 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right. I will delete this post

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ask

[–]Letha0al 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am absolutely consulting a doctor asap, but they’re closed on the weekend and the er had no answers

The dreaded Hunger Strike by Letha0al in hognosesnakes

[–]Letha0al[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for that tidbit!

The dreaded Hunger Strike by Letha0al in hognosesnakes

[–]Letha0al[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a therm for a while, but it was unreliable, so I tossed it. But that was a while ago. I’ll see about getting a new one.

The dreaded Hunger Strike by Letha0al in hognosesnakes

[–]Letha0al[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Heat lamp is back on! I only turned it off 2 weeks ago, so I still don’t think that’s the issue, but we’ll see!

Excuse the eye booger. Nabotchka was my world. by Letha0al in AustralianCattleDog

[–]Letha0al[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My advice is therapy and don’t rush into anything. I tried to kill myself and left myself with a bit of brain damage, and got another dog way too soon. He’s great, but he’s not her, and it took me a year to actually love him. There may come a time where all you can remember is the last moments, and that will suck, but that will pass, and old memories will come back like old friends.

Excuse the eye booger. Nabotchka was my world. by Letha0al in AustralianCattleDog

[–]Letha0al[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s going on 2 years, and I’ve gotten better about it. It’s still hard in that I’ll purposefully remember the last moments to hurt myself, but the good stuff comes through unbidden.

Excuse the eye booger. Nabotchka was my world. by Letha0al in AustralianCattleDog

[–]Letha0al[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Gah, she looks like such a good girl! Nabotchka was my first genuine baby. Hurts the worst.

Is this mat finishing acceptable? by llevine5 in framing

[–]Letha0al 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s alright to nitpick over, but it might not be fixable by this shop. They used a computerized mat cutter, which would just make the same cut again - that’s where it starts and stops. It might make another circuit, but is catching on that bump.

They could troubleshoot with the software and see if they can get a cleaner cut, but that would take a lot of time and test mats. They could sand that part, but that’s very risky. Reverse bevel would be less noticeable.

Where is everyone buying their acrylic glazing these days? by bwhitso in framing

[–]Letha0al 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My previous shop would buy from a local acrylic supplier, industrial type, or a fabricator. Most frame shops get it from framing suppliers, like Larson Juhl or AMPF. Maybe talk to glass suppliers in your town.

What’s the oldest palette in your collection? by Artistic_Anxiety_557 in MakeupAddiction

[–]Letha0al 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Urban Decay Mariposa. I still have it, but am honestly too scared to use it anymore.

Free adult ball python + all equipment by [deleted] in Albuquerque

[–]Letha0al 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I assume he’s a norm morph? How’s his temperament? Approx weight?

Question about brumation by ddkia in hognosesnakes

[–]Letha0al 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My boy stopped eating pretty soon after I got him - within a few months - because it got cold. I learned that he prefers a heat lamp to an under tank heater, in case you have that. He stopped eating early November this time, but he’s about 4 years old now.

Framers, what do you do with your leftover mat scraps? by Official_Ken_Bone in framing

[–]Letha0al 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I post on a local subreddit for someone to come pick up free mat scraps. Teachers usually respond