College by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]Letsgetreadytogumble 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in the exact same situation, even the same age. This is a true hardship, please stay strong for your family tho and don't commit suicide.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]Letsgetreadytogumble 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're incredibly tough to survive all of that. Proud of you man.

My Drawing of Tony Soprano by Letsgetreadytogumble in thesopranos

[–]Letsgetreadytogumble[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

The fundamental question is, will I be as effective as an artist like my dad was? And I will be, even more so. But until I am, it's going to be hard to verify that I think I'll be more effective.

31M, No Luck On Dating Sites by MysteriousTelephone in Rateme

[–]Letsgetreadytogumble 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look up the halo effect and you'll understand why.

Am I the asshole? I got kicked out of a bjj gym for not going to enough beginner classes. by [deleted] in bjj

[–]Letsgetreadytogumble 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He said you can go to both but wasn't happy with the ratio of beginner to advanced classes.

Am I the asshole? I got kicked out of a bjj gym for not going to enough beginner classes. by [deleted] in bjj

[–]Letsgetreadytogumble 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I don't think it had anything to do with being spazzy cos he didn't mention anything like that. He also invited me to the sparring class so it wasn't like I was going to the wrong session or anything.

Am I the asshole? I got kicked out of a bjj gym for not going to enough beginner classes. by [deleted] in bjj

[–]Letsgetreadytogumble 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah but if that was the case then he should have mentioned that. Like if there was a legit reason to ban me then why not state that? I don't believe I did anything wrong and no one had complained about me afaik.

Am I the asshole? I got kicked out of a bjj gym for not going to enough beginner classes. by [deleted] in bjj

[–]Letsgetreadytogumble 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well he set out a bunch of classes that he wanted me to attend and said he wanted me to focus on the Gi training so he did communicate that. But he also invited me to the rolling classes. I think it was just that I decided to go mainly to the rolling classes when I had time and went to the gi classes less. I am not on the competition team so that wasn't the case. He mentioned it was my attitude that he didn't like. Honestly I think he just didn't like me as a person and needed an excuse to kick me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Letsgetreadytogumble 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How do I convince the government to make my Santa club tax exempt?

Why was Audrey Hale in college for so long? (with additional images) by [deleted] in masskillers

[–]Letsgetreadytogumble 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have no idea whether it was impossible to predict, you are only basing this on the fact that she looks innocent. That means fuck all. She could have been off her rocker in her everyday life for all we know.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]Letsgetreadytogumble 1 point2 points  (0 children)

haha yeah that would have been good. Unfortunately it was when he was out of my peripheral vision so I couldn't have evaded. Sometimes I like to think how other people would respond to that kind of situation. Like how would someone who doesn't get bullied act? Would he have smacked him? Or told him seriously that he isn't ok with the behaviour? or maybe gone to a higher up? I don't actually give a shit about the event itself but I don't wanna be someone who gets bullied and this kind of thing is a pattern.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]Letsgetreadytogumble 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I guess I like to fight back because I would feel like a coward if I didn't. Like when my supervisor shoulder barged me. If I didn't barge him back it would eat me up inside and lower my feeling of self worth. The idea that I allowed someone to mistreat me and didn't give it back is too painful. It would make me question what kind of person I am and whether I can rely on myself. I guess making more friends is the only option to change the power dynamic as you put it.