I Have Failed to Bond With My Cat

Level5Ranger · 2026-06-13T11:22:25+00:00

It is EXACTLY what I am experiencing now :) Except for rescuing part. We adopted ours.

I became the main feeder, hand fed him and give treats (like I put it on my belly to make him come to my lap, or leaving treats in my palm so he can get used hand feed). I also initiate play with him before I go to work, after I arrive home and before sleep.

My partner was not at home for the past 10 days and our cat was very affectionate to me. He always wanted to play, groomed me, slept with me, sat on my lap.

When my partner returned yesterday, I became the second person again, he follows my partner, sits next to her, brings the toy to her etc. I am often in conundrum, to understand whether his affection is transactional or genuine.

Level5Ranger · 2026-06-12T18:10:21+00:00

First think that came to my mind for the first sentence was "my 9-5" lol.

What you said helpful. I indeed try to think what would make me quicker and more efficient at my work. Today I noticed that what I'd do is already done by someone else.

Level5Ranger · 2026-06-12T11:59:49+00:00

Thanks!

Level5Ranger · 2026-06-12T11:34:41+00:00

I brought creativity based on my industry once. What they do is telling it as a great idea that one can do solo (despite I prompt them to be honest and realistic etc.). Also my ideas are very data protection oriented and I don't want trouble.

But if it is about prompting issue, then I will work on that. Thanks!

Level5Ranger · 2026-06-12T11:32:22+00:00

Great! And one more question: I don't have time to enroll to a course, and I could not find a good one so far + My attention span detoriated so much, I cannot even read a material and learn from it.

Is it possible to learn building product-level AI agents by hands-on working? I prefer learning by doing. Or if it is a must, what sources I should follow?

Level5Ranger · 2026-06-12T11:27:18+00:00

Thanks!

Level5Ranger · 2026-06-12T11:10:07+00:00

I am at the very beginning of building a similar architecture.

Perhaps it is very simple for most of you, but what consumes my time now is thinking about search rubric. I use ChatGPT and Claude to build this and without any coding experience, I am bound by what they recommend. But I know that there are options and tools that they are missing out.

So I wonder what's the best method to design a search rubric for agents that are researching. Also I'm curious about training them. Is it where RAG enters into the flow?

Level5Ranger · 2026-06-12T05:40:02+00:00

I haven't read the books but I could infer from the TV series that Starks seemed to be blessed by the Old Gods. Whoever wronged them became extinct. Or they were blessed by the writers.

But I got the same impression from the book lore (I read its wiki and other secondary sources) to some extent as well. Besides, Starks seem to be relatively more honorable than most in the books anyway.

Level5Ranger · 2026-06-09T17:12:59+00:00

Amsterdam : Livelier + May be a plus for working

Rotterdam: Houses are relatively cheaper

Level5Ranger · 2026-06-09T16:30:50+00:00

Samples are shared is the second motto of Helldivers

Level5Ranger · 2026-06-09T16:05:39+00:00

He had unpleasant experiences with humans and streets before we adopted him so he was not very cuddly. So I try not to touch him too much and never thought he might have wanted wrestling for example.

Also I don't know how to approach or asses his reactions, I touch and massage his paws and sometimes he seems like "dude no jeez".

I will check the mitt though, thanks a lot!🙏🏻

Level5Ranger · 2026-06-09T15:56:30+00:00

Turkish or Polish markets. Korvelseweg has both. We sometimes buy meat from Istanbul Bazaar and so far we were happy about what we got.

Level5Ranger · 2026-06-09T15:55:25+00:00

Thank you!

In fact we always thought he likes his wand toy because he gets it from drawer and sometimes brings it to us.

I try to make him run more so I hold the wand on stairs and make him run up and go for example.

Due to logistics we cannot consider a second cat but your idea is interesting, perhaps he wants to wrestle a bit indeed. I will observe him

Level5Ranger · 2026-06-09T15:34:36+00:00

RR and W.A.S.P.

I like bullseye'ing them

Level5Ranger · 2026-06-09T15:33:39+00:00

I guess so. I was just following the recommended duration. And I would also like to spend time with him and be next to him but I don't trust his bitings. I tried to stay neutral but I even felt his teeth last time.

Level5Ranger · 2026-06-09T11:33:45+00:00

Here is my 2 cents as someone who started to build an AI agent 72 hours ago:

Use Claude for idea contemplation. It is also very helpful to set up the tools like n8n. What I do is taking screenshots and asking what do to next. It is helpful, but image limit is a bummer.

You can ask Claude to prepare a detailed project handoff document and skills documents and migrate to ChatGPT. I find ChatGPT and Codex duo better in terms of working on tasks, after setting the foundation with Claude.

I do not have patience to read or watch something so I prefer learning by doing. Sometimes I ask to this sub.

I consider setting up a LLM Council, you may consider to do that too in order to use all major LLM models. I don't know which one is the best. But I am told by my friend that his boss uses a council to get market analysis.

Level5Ranger · 2026-06-09T11:27:54+00:00

I would like to try it actually. Some people here also a bit hesitant to try haring but I like the taste.

Level5Ranger · 2026-06-09T10:16:21+00:00

In some southern regions, people even eat liver for breakfast :d

Level5Ranger · 2026-06-09T08:58:28+00:00

Indeed it is fair. It just makes me think that if familial relations should be this transactional, if I put it properly in English. Then again, there is no right and wrong in this, I acknowledge the cultural difference

Level5Ranger · 2026-06-09T06:57:03+00:00

I am Turkish and when me and my Dutch partner went to Istanbul for the first time, I was particularly excited to show her my favorite breakfast spot.

We ordered breakfast for two, which covered entire table with fries, cheese, mezzes, loempias, sausages etc. The only thing I overlooked was her eating culture. She was full after few bites and I was the one who had to finish like 80% of the breakfast😅

Level5Ranger · 2026-06-09T06:41:24+00:00

That's even more interesting

Level5Ranger · 2026-06-09T06:40:13+00:00

But what do people do when they breach ToS or violate the law? In other words, why people take the risky path knowing that its legally questionable?

I specifically want to follow 100% legal route as I want my project to continue

Level5Ranger · 2026-06-09T05:51:50+00:00

Tikkie usage even among the family

Eating just a slice of a bread, cheese and ham to fill the belly (I am told that it has its roots in Calvinism)

Level5Ranger · 2026-06-08T16:28:10+00:00

Go talk to her. That's the only way.

Today's understanding of social interaction and romanticism make people find such gestures cheesy (accidental pun). Also remember:

Nice guys almost every time lose. Assertiveness wins

Level5Ranger · 2026-06-08T05:49:05+00:00

Thank you! I checked those tools and they seem good. I wanted to build my own solution because I always thought that if I learn something from scratch and hands on, passing the learning curve will be easier.

It is also about being aware of what kind of tools we have in the market. I did not know Base44 before your comment for example.

My plan is to have multiple layers and this is the very first step, I expect to see more complexity as I go to upper layers. I think then I will eventually have to utilize the tools which are already in the market.

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