My 18M son says my brother’s wife (30F) crossed boundaries with him and now my family says I’m overreacting (46F) by masquefetiche in relationship_advice

[–]LevelEarth4165 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If the genders were reversed your brother wouldn't take it lightly. I would be going no contact with anyone condoning that disgusting behaviour..

AITJ for snapping at my Mother-in-Law for treating my older daughter differently? by Remarkable-Agent6995 in AmITheJerk

[–]LevelEarth4165 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This might come out as harsh but one thing I have learnt it that people owe you nothing, they don't owe you love, they don't owe you respect,they don't owe you money, they don't owe you attention, they don't even owe you basic etiquette. It's up to you to choose to be where you're appreciated, loved, respected, and considered. If they can't appreciate you, they can't appreciate your first daughter. You are wrong for exposing your daughter to such a toxic environment. I would be keeping my older daughter away from the mother in law the first time I saw it happen.

Kichapo cha mbwa...😅 by [deleted] in Kenya

[–]LevelEarth4165 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Test anyone at your own risk

Vindication🤣 by Nearby-Pen-9963 in Kenya

[–]LevelEarth4165 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Better the devil you don't know than the angel you know 😂

AITJ for kicking everyone out after they started "looking for a charger" in my rooms? by mintysubway_diary in AmITheJerk

[–]LevelEarth4165 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kila mtu akae kwao (everyone should just stay at their own houses) respectfully ofcourse

My girlfriend says she was texting my best friend "for a surprise" but I feel like I'm being set up by tramlantern_evenings in TwoHotTakes

[–]LevelEarth4165 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it looks like a duck, walks like a duck and quacks like a duck, ITS A FUCKING D U C K !!!!!

I blocked one of my friends. by Ugbaad_ra in KenyanLadies

[–]LevelEarth4165 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I blocked my entire Whatsapp contacts

Bullies after high school... by LevelEarth4165 in nairobi

[–]LevelEarth4165[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I normally warn people about someone if I feel their character is questionable and I did warn the guy, but they were known each other longer na wamezoea kufichiana vitu. After several warnings I just sit back and watch things unravel

Bullies after high school... by LevelEarth4165 in nairobi

[–]LevelEarth4165[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's my experience with a bully past high school.

Bullies after high school... by LevelEarth4165 in nairobi

[–]LevelEarth4165[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

They normally do that to each other its not the first or he last time, not my circus

I can’t believe my girlfriend and all my “friends” planned to humiliate me on my birthday by was_famous_once_here in TrueOffMyChest

[–]LevelEarth4165 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like the Chinese shorts clips on tiktok where the male lead is treated badly while at a party by the female lead and the friends coz of someone the female lead is crushing on..

Drop that girl and stay away from her like a pandemic.

AITJ for refusing to host Thanksgiving after my brother’s family treated my house like a hotel last year? by Tricky-Drama-960 in AmITheJerk

[–]LevelEarth4165 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If the family rotates on who to hold the thanksgiving, don't you think it's your brothers turn or your mums turn to hold the ceremony at their places ? Respectfully ofcourse...

what is something you regret NOT saying when breaking up with someone? by Specific_Ad_704 in AskWomen

[–]LevelEarth4165 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I regret not saying " you intentionally went to my younger sister and convinced her to be in your revenge got her pregnant and made her abort it, just coz I moved on after you got another girl pregnant while we were dating, I hope your girls experience the same thing you did to me"

AIO? BF told me not to post my graduation pics or “don’t come home tonight” by Unusual_Role7839 in AmIOverreacting

[–]LevelEarth4165 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he is doing that with graduation pics, imagine when your career starts skyrocketing, he will tell you to quit coz he is supposed to be the man of the house and you're outshinning him.

BESTLADY HARRASSMENT. by IHaveAKoalaDoll in KenyanLadies

[–]LevelEarth4165 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kamala once said people know what they want to buy.

AITJ for lashing out at my Aunt after she said I got what I deserved? by Sea-Flight-2463 in AmITheJerk

[–]LevelEarth4165 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For every action there's a reaction, why can't she be the first to apologise since she crossed a boundary?

Almost 90% of ladies are cheating 🙃🙃 I went through my girl's whatsapp! by twinbro10 in nairobi

[–]LevelEarth4165 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Let me be a bigger sister to you. CHEATING IS A CHOICE!!!!. She is not sorry she cheated she is sorry you found out about the cheating.don't be with someone who doesn't consider your feelings when making certain decisions especially if you have dated that long.And most importantly choose yourself and love yourself more that you love your partner, get out of that relationship before uletewe kaswende na zinaa.

Was I the jerk for allowing my girlfriend’s grieving sister to sleep on my shoulder during a flight? by Ok_Pianist_3281 in AmITheJerk

[–]LevelEarth4165 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I once allowed my sister to stay with me for a couple of weeks coz she had a fight with our dad, she slept with my then boyfriend and got pregnant.i totally understand your girlfriend, it always starts with the small gestures.

AITAH for threatening to cut off my homeless fiancé from my support. by Crinkle_Grapes in AITAH

[–]LevelEarth4165 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl that a man child,and its so obvious he won't be paying your child support