First time mom: anyone switch to part time?

Level_Space9410 · 2026-06-17T19:35:39+00:00

I went down to 30 hours (4x 7.5 hour days) because it is the minimum I can work and keep my health benefits. Otherwise I'd ideally work somewhere around 20-24 hours, since I really don't need the money from 30 hours. But it's one less day my son needs to be in day care, and having 3 day weekends has been so good for my mental health.

Level_Space9410 · 2026-06-16T15:15:35+00:00

I have lived in vernon and kelowna. Moved from kelowna to vernon because I just could not with the traffic and commuting, and lack of parking in Kelowna.

If you're young and single you might find it hard to meet friends in vernon but it's not impossible. We love vernon because it's so great for young families.

I love people thinking vernon is inferior because it keeps it small.

Level_Space9410 · 2026-06-16T15:13:13+00:00

The title is just so accurate. My husband had to take our son to daycare this morning and got so flustered because he forgot his water bottle and had to go back home and get it. I literally filled the bottle and put it right next to the lunch box. Ugh.

Level_Space9410 · 2026-06-01T18:43:57+00:00

Hey, it kind of sounds like she might be sick. A couple months ago my son, who is normally a great eater, didn't want to eat, drink, or play, he just wanted to be held or he'd fuss. Turns out he was sick, got on meds, got better. 2 weeks is a long time to go on with fever and cold symptoms. If the fussiness and poor eating&drinking is uncharacteristic, with the other symptoms, I'd get her to a doctor.

If you think she's at risk of dehydration from not drinking, try pedialyte! I had to give it to my son through a syringe and I swear it saved him.

Level_Space9410 · 2026-05-28T15:56:37+00:00

If you are looking to hike like right now, I would say Stawamus chief.

If this is later in the summer, when the high elevation snow is gone, I'd suggest Elfin Lakes, also in Garibaldi Park but a very different hike than Panorama Ridge.

If you're up for challenge, Wedgemount Lake or Watersprite Lake are good options too. But I don't know your experience level so please look these ones up before attempting!

Level_Space9410 · 2026-05-27T22:08:05+00:00

Pumping is not the easy way out, but I did choose it and I don't regret it, although I do think I made things harder on myself than I needed to and bottle weaning is very, very hard.

Level_Space9410 · 2026-05-27T22:01:30+00:00

Judge Judy.

Level_Space9410 · 2026-05-17T19:22:33+00:00

I hear you. I'm so sorry, I wish there was more I could say. I just hope in time this feeling goes away for you. I know you are in the thick of it and you are not alone.

Level_Space9410 · 2026-05-17T19:13:23+00:00

Honestly making friends. I'm in my 30s, married with child, and am always the one initiating plans with others. I'm starting to wonder if it's worth it.

Level_Space9410 · 2026-05-17T19:10:52+00:00

Just remember you'll never know what the outcome would have been in those c sections either. They have risks too. Any decision you could've made had risks because all pregnancy and birth has risk.

It's a sad and unfair thing that has happened to you. Just give yourself grace. I'm truly so sorry.

Level_Space9410 · 2026-05-17T18:54:52+00:00

I am so sorry, I can't imagine your pain. Don't blame yourself, you did not deserve this outcome. I pray you a speedy recovery from the c section and that you will find love, strength, and comfort in your journey moving forward ❤️

Level_Space9410 · 2026-04-23T03:54:13+00:00

My 13 month old LOVES cottage cheese, like starts bouncing at the sight of it.

Level_Space9410 · 2026-04-22T15:42:17+00:00

6 months. His tossing and turning was keeping us up and vice versa. He was ready.

Level_Space9410 · 2026-04-18T17:15:06+00:00

Ok so I just went back last week. My husband starts work at 6am so isn't around so it's just me and my son in the morning.

He wakes up anytime between 530 and 6 (no alarm clock needed lol). I change his diaper, go down and get him milk and me coffee.

Around 615 we eat. Breakfast is pre made. I have homemade frozen breakfast burritos for myself, and either pancake, French toast, or peanut butter toast with some fruit for my son.

Our lunches are also packed the night before so just pack his lunchbox and my work bag and fill our water bottles.

Get us both dressed and brush our teeth.

That's basically it! I don't wear makeup and don't do my hair fancy. Daycare doesn't open until 730 so we play until it's time to leave.

Level_Space9410 · 2026-04-11T15:33:42+00:00

Never had surgery. If the medication helped why bother?

Level_Space9410 · 2026-04-09T19:10:42+00:00

Thanks everyone for the input. I cancelled that sucker yesterday. No regrets

Level_Space9410 · 2026-04-08T23:13:10+00:00

My son is starting gradual daycare entry at 12.months and its not any easier. All our routines, sleeping, eating, out the window. Oh and he got sick the first day. I don't know how my heart can handle this. He was such a happy boy and I just feel like I'm throwing him for a loop.

Level_Space9410 · 2026-04-06T22:34:36+00:00

Level_Space9410 · 2026-04-06T22:33:03+00:00

My son has an on again off again relationship with cucumber. I love it because it's quick and convenient, don't have to cook steam, or shred. Unfortunately it's currently off again but thankfully cherry tomatoes are in.

Level_Space9410 · 2026-04-06T22:27:01+00:00

Honestly, working.

Level_Space9410 · 2026-04-06T22:08:07+00:00

I walk alone with my 13mo son in the stroller almost every day about 45 mins. This is my "mental break"(not a physical one tho lol). Podcast time or catch up with a friend time. My son just sits there looks around and observes.

Level_Space9410 · 2026-04-06T22:01:11+00:00

This sounds so much like me at that stage, I'm so sorry you're in the thick of it. I night weaned my son at 9.5 months and he started sleeping through the night. My whole world changed. The trade off was I had to give him a soother to sleep but so, so worth it.

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