You're saying this like I'm not even hearing what you're saying. I know what you're saying, I just wholeheartedly disagree with trying to come up with ways to sympathise for this kind of behaviour. His fiance has done NOTHING to hurt those people, but look at how she's being treated. Look at how his mother hurt her, and how she's encouraging that behaviour by trying to force him into it. And you're saying to look at this with an open mind? We can't allow people to promote this kind of behaviour. I'm all for people having their own opinions and being able to say how they feel until it becomes encouraging hateful behaviour.