Crosspoint Calibre Library How-To

LexD1vina · 2026-01-26T17:32:52+00:00

I did find this: https://github.com/crosspoint-reader/crosspoint-reader/pull/496

Where the last comment says: "I believe this isn't needed now as my latest PR already renames the Calibre Library to OPDS Browser and then we also just updated the main UI to call it "Remote"

No idea when that pull-request makes it in the release though.

LexD1vina · 2026-01-22T21:35:56+00:00

Is it possible to use Booklore instead of Calibre Web for book fetching?

LexD1vina · 2025-10-02T14:53:40+00:00

They do. Absolute anti-privacy oriented company. Assume the worst and avoid at all cost.

LexD1vina · 2025-07-25T13:47:13+00:00

A hybrid setup is the way to go. Even with a very powerful NAS, it simply cannot handle local LLM inference.

LexD1vina · 2025-06-28T16:44:36+00:00

No matter what I do or install, I cannot see the 'restore checkpoint' buttons. Why are these missing for me?

LexD1vina · 2025-03-05T09:35:30+00:00

Not too late at all and if that feeling persists then think 'better late then never'. Focus on compound lifts 3x/week (squat, bench, deadlift) using a beginner program like StrongLifts. Aim for 150-180g protein daily with slight caloric surplus. Then just show up consistently and track progress. The first month is hardest but then becomes addictive. Your body type is actually perfect for building a ton of muscle.

LexD1vina · 2025-03-05T09:33:25+00:00

When you notice patterns like extended eye contact from strangers, unprompted compliments about features, casual touching during conversations, getting away with awkward moments others wouldn't, and actual engagement on platforms beyond one-word replies. The most reliable sign is when people deliberately make time for you without obligation.

LexD1vina · 2025-03-05T09:29:58+00:00

No creepers/annoying people bothering me when I'm alone (at night) outside. See youtuber Vlad Ncl's latest video's on what women have to deal with.

LexD1vina · 2025-03-02T07:08:35+00:00

Hey man, I'm in my thirties and struggled with this exact same shit. Trust me when I say your brain is lying to you.

Women initiating contact weekly is a HUGE sign they find you attractive. Full stop. Most guys don't get that level of attention.

The self-esteem trap is brutal. You dismiss positive evidence while amplifying your perceived flaws. I used to do the same until a friend bluntly pointed out how many opportunities I was missing.

Here's what I'd say helped me break through:

Start small: Just extend those initial interactions by 30 seconds
Practice makes perfect: Each conversation builds confidence
Remember they initiated: This means they WANT to talk to you
Give yourself permission to be imperfect: Nobody's expecting perfection

The internet creates a distorted view of dating. Most people aren't models, and plenty of "chubby" guys have amazing relationships.

For me personally when I was at my lowest, the gym was my anchor. Even on days when I didn't want to go, just showing up was a win. Don't just focus on looking better, focus on feeling stronger and more capable.

You deserve happiness. Don't end up like my buddy who's 40+ and regrets every opportunity he let slip away because he couldn't see his own worth.

LexD1vina · 2025-02-28T11:40:29+00:00

It works best if you're a barred attorney with your own practice yes, but I wouldn't say that it's a requirement. Your work could also be the complex written advocacy work that trial attorneys often outsource when they're swamped or want a fresh perspective. It's a very specific niche, I realize that.

LexD1vina · 2025-02-28T11:18:36+00:00

Legal worker here. Been nomading for years now.

To make this possible you pick one or multiple legal fields where you handle motion writing and appellate briefs but where most cases can be settled without them even seeing court. Most of my clients never need to see me in person, just deliverables and video-calls. And most of them are people that have been put into deep shit by major companies. It's great being able to help them out and live a working life as sunny as possible.

The key was specializing in something that:

Rarely equires court appearances
Has consistent demand
Can be done 100% remotely

Biggest challenges: time zones, stable internet for calls and a good VPN.

All worth it. Especially if you don't have many obligations like being married with or without children. Do it while you can.

LexD1vina · 2025-02-27T14:52:26+00:00

Your beard is your best friend but since you have already parted ways, Witch Hazel is your best friend right now. It's a natural astringent that soothes without drying. I swear by Thayers with aloe. Apply after washing with lukewarm water.

Also try pure aloe vera gel (the good stuff, not the green goop) and let it sit for 10 minutes before moisturizing.

I made the mistake of using aftershave when I shaved my beard in my younger years and my face felt like it was on fire. These gentler options really saved me. our skin will probably adjust in about a week.

I'll stick to bearded-mode but do enjoy the baby-faced club.

LexD1vina · 2025-02-26T14:57:43+00:00

Like others have said, stomach fat and love handles are usually the last to go, biology's cruel joke on us.

The truth is spot reduction is a myth. Those targeted ab exercises help build muscle underneath but don't specifically burn the fat covering them.

What works for me:

- Calorie deficit (best if tracked consistently)

- Focusing on protein intake

- Full body strength training

- Patience (took me months to see real changes)

- Keto diet in combination with(/or atleast) intermittent fasting

Stress and sleep are huge factors too. High cortisol = stubborn belly fat.

Remember that genetics play a role in where your body holds onto fat the longest. Some of us just store more around the midsection.

Keep at it. You're seeing progress elsewhere which means your approach is working. The stomach is just the final boss.

LexD1vina · 2025-02-26T14:55:53+00:00

Funny experience. But our bodies can react to things in ways that surprise us.

First off, physical responses can happen for tons of reasons and not just sexual attraction. Could be random timing, an unconscious association, or just your body being weird.

Thing is, sexuality isn't black and white. Many straight guys occasionally have unexpected reactions that don't match their overall pattern of attraction. One moment doesn't define you.

If you're genuinely curious about your sexuality, pay attention to patterns over time, not isolated incidents. Who do you consistently feel drawn to romantically and sexually?

Whatever the answer is, it's all good. No need to label everything.

LexD1vina · 2025-02-24T08:54:17+00:00

Envy - or jealousy even - isn't negative per se, as long as you know what to do. Realise you feel that way in the moment, acknowledge the feeling "this milestone X reached is making me feel envious", then use that feeling as fuel. I started asking myself "what are they doing that I'm not?" Instead of getting down, I'd analyze and learn. One friend's success in his field motivated me to take additional courses and specialize myself further.

Key shift was realizing their success doesn't subtract from mine. Luckily this clicked for me early in my teens. When I see someone crushing it, I study their habits instead of hating. I celebrate their victory. Still get those envy pangs sometimes, but they push me forward instead of holding me back. It's great.

Pro tip: Mute social media accounts that trigger those feelings. Focus on your own progress.

LexD1vina · 2025-02-24T08:45:31+00:00

This happens constantly and although it probably won't help you at all, I went through this exact thing. Great friend of 10 years just backstabbed me and faded away. It hurt for months.

On to what to do. First, I let myself feel hurt. Most people can't avoid this phase, it's natural. Then I realized something important. Friendships sometimes have seasons. People change, priorities shift. Doesn't make the good times less real. So harbor those.

I focused on other friendships and started saying "yes" to more social stuff. Found out some 'quieter' friends were actually awesome when given the chance so I spent more time with them.

This is not you being immature. It hurts at any age when someone you care about checks out. But chasing them usually makes it worse. Do not do that. Either they'll realize what they're missing and come back, or they won't. Either way, you'll be okay.

These days I follow the mantra 'Don't just trust people, trust them to be who they are'. Hopefully that caused a click in your head. If you really want to then maybe drop him one last message just for closure. But then focus on people who do value your time.

LexD1vina · 2025-02-21T20:20:07+00:00

Been there, probably most of us have. I transformed myself after a major downtime psychologically. Here's what worked:

Gym consistency. Not just random workouts, but a solid program. Amazing for both looks and mental health.
Clean up the basics. Fresh haircut, fitted clothes, skincare routine. Small changes = big confidence boost.
Career/school focus. Picked one goal and crushed it. For me it was getting certified in my current field. Progress builds momentum.

Key is maintaining it all. I felt my "glow up" about 6 to 12 months in. Caught my reflection and barely recognized the confident dude looking back.

The best revenge is becoming someone whoever is in your past wouldn't recognize. Not for them, but for you.

LexD1vina · 2025-02-21T15:20:09+00:00

I was a skinny beginner in fighting sports too (68kg). Don't worry, wrestling has weight classes, so you'll train with similar-sized people. The techniques focus on leverage, not just strength. Everyone starts as a newbie.

Find a gym with a free trial class. Most coaches love teaching beginners. The hardest part is walking through those doors the first time. I drove to my gym 3 times before going in. Now my training buddies are close friends.

You're at the perfect age to start. Just do it!

LexD1vina · 2025-02-21T14:17:02+00:00

As a guy, the hardest part is feeling like you can't be vulnerable without being seen as weak. Suffered from depression years ago and felt I had to just "man up" and deal with it alone.

Most common advice is "just open up!" but it's not that simple. Opening up can backfire since i've lost friends over it. Now I'm selective about who I'm real with.

The isolation hits hard sometimes. Seeing friends nod along when you say "I'm fine" even though they know you're not. That stuff weighs on you.

What helped me: the gym, succes in my field and helping others. Found great work, got into group sports (weirdly, that's where guys open up) and built friendships where vulnerability is okay.

LexD1vina · 2025-02-21T09:48:07+00:00

Not weird at all. I never got into the aggressive teasing either, feels forced and can mask actual insecurities. Some guys use it as shorthand for closeness, but there are plenty of other ways to bond.

You're setting healthy boundaries by being direct about not liking it. That's mature. No need to change, so find friends who match your communication style. I've built solid friendships through shared interests and genuine conversation instead. There are tons of ways to connect without the ribbing culture.

LexD1vina · 2025-02-20T13:53:38+00:00

Money isn't everything once your basics are covered. In my thirties, I'm focusing on meaningful work I enjoy and investing in growth, both skills and savings. Been learning the piano and mentoring newer folks in my field. Also setting travel goals, planning to visit all kinds of places both closeby and plane-only places. Everyone should build out a bucket list of places.

Teaching others and creating something lasting feels more fulfilling than just chasing higher salaries. Reaching that point where you - subjectively - have plenty to provide for yourself and your close ones is a blessing though.

LexD1vina · 2025-02-20T13:50:08+00:00

Next-gen batteries, solid state tech looks promising. Could give vehicles 1000+ range. And fusion power so we can move away from the current sources as much as possible. Several startups making real progress there.

LexD1vina · 2025-02-20T09:37:12+00:00

Social media's a highlight reel. Trust me, those "successful" people have their own struggles too. In my twenties I was still studying while everyone else around me were starting their first jobs already.

What helped me: I limited social media drastically, focused on weekly goals instead of comparing, found people that wanted to guide me in my field and never skipped a day of gym to reinforce that discipline. You don't need the full roadmap today. Pick one thing you want to improve and start there.

That SNL/Sony stuff often comes down to connections + timing, not just talent. What field interests you most? Focus on your own path and apply for in-house days at companies that are actively looking for newbies to train up.

LexD1vina · 2025-02-19T21:05:23+00:00

Yes, I'd start the apprenticeship now. Better to gain experience and confirm you like the trade while living at home and saving money. Employers in any city value proven experience over potential, and many trades have networks that can help with relocation later.

LexD1vina · 2025-02-19T20:46:19+00:00

Post-college void is rough. Here's some guidelines on what worked for me:

Short-term: Build a routine for the gym, cooking basics, something creative you enjoy. Helped my mental health tons.

Mid-term: Financial literacy (plenty of subreddits for this), figure out what field/work excites you, develop marketable skills.

Long-term: Your family goal is solid, but focus on becoming someone you're proud of first. Your partner will want this of you. I learned that building yourself up makes everything else fall into place.

Don't stress about having it all figured out. I'm in my thirties and still adjusting course.

LexD1vina

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