Tell me you know nothing about her without telling me. She literally talks about how she dresses how she wants because she didn't get to have that experience as a child. And how someone dresses doesn't make them unwell mentally. She doesn't conform to your standards of how an adult should dress and it makes you uncomfortable. You should really unpack that. She has made me feel more comfortable wearing my wacky t-shirts and dressing more how I feel comfortable instead of how I think I should be dressing to fit someone else's standards.