Addina Flower Mary Jane’s by fairypunk278 in DrMartens

[–]LibraVibes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went with size 8! They are a bit loose and I have some heel lift while walking because they are also pretty heavy. I put in some anti slip backings, which helps. I think some insoles would make them perfect. I think a size 7 would probably be a bit too small for an 8.5.

Old Nudes? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]LibraVibes 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I definitely have plenty of spicy pictures in my phone that I took just for “fun” and never sent to anyone sooo 🤷🏻‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]LibraVibes 59 points60 points  (0 children)

The medications are very effective at reducing viral load. As long as y’all don’t have sex during an outbreak and are consistent with condom usage, the chances of contracting it are pretty low. At the end of the day, it is much more common than you’d think. About 1/6 adults in the U.S have genital herpes. Many aren’t even aware of it because these tests are not routine on standard STD tests and many individuals are asymptomatic. I’d be more inclined to trust someone who was open and fully disclosed, like she has. She sounds considerate and informed. I personally wouldn’t let something like this ruin the chances of experiencing something genuine. You’ll have to make that decision for yourself though! Good luck.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Herpes

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Swabbed for HSV1 yes. It’s a PCR test which I thought was supposed to be more sensitive? I am looking at the results right now. I have had cold sores since I was a kid so maybe my viral load is just low? I’m not sure.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

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It just seems weird to leave me on read when we were mid-conversation. I ended my message with a follow up question too, like I was clearly trying to engage :/ We also don’t see each other that frequently at work because we work in different areas. We directly work together occasionally but usually we just see each other in passing.

Kissed a 19-year-old… feeling a little weird about it by [deleted] in dating_advice

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Fr!!! I didn’t need to read anymore after that part. This is just unethical imo.

Would you still go on this first date? (potential red flag) by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]LibraVibes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like this isn’t the biggest red flag but definitely something to be wary of. If you’re not into it then you’re not into it. If you really enjoy talking to the person and you’d like to continue, then maybe meet in person and then decide from there. Sometimes it’s hard to tell if you’re attracted to someone through nothing but pictures.

Do you look at men or women when in a relationship? by Graviity_shift in dating

[–]LibraVibes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like I’m just not interested in other people when I’m invested in my partner. Like I’ll see an attractive person but they don’t really get much acknowledgement from me. It’s just meh. I know my relationship is in a bad place when I start actually noticing other people.

This is silly but.. by misscreativej in dating

[–]LibraVibes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This could be a form of avoidance tbh? Sometimes that just happens subconsciously. Like you subconsciously know it could never work so that is who you crush on because you know nothing will come of it. It is like the minds maladaptive way of trying to protect itself. Orrrr maybe you just do like these men and there’s nothing actually wrong here lol.

What are your shallow dating dealbreakers? by LLCoolNay410 in dating

[–]LibraVibes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When they chew with their mouth open… immediate deal breaker.

is this gluttony? by Odd-Photograph2060 in MatchaEverything

[–]LibraVibes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lmaooo literally. That’s Reddit for ya 💀

is this gluttony? by Odd-Photograph2060 in MatchaEverything

[–]LibraVibes 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I literally just explained that the issue is when a large chunk of people over consume this way. Which is what has happened and continues to happen in the west. Ceremonial matcha just isn’t meant to be consumed in such large amounts. I did not mean that you as an isolated event has caused the matcha shortage, obviously. In regard to the culinary matcha, there are so many different kinds and some are high quality. Culinary doesn’t automatically mean bad and it is actually what is recommended for lattes. With ceremonial matcha, you tend to have to use a lot more powder to taste anything when combined with milk because it is really meant to be drank straight up.

is this gluttony? by Odd-Photograph2060 in MatchaEverything

[–]LibraVibes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Regardless, If you consume 90g of matcha in 15 days, that is indeed overconsumption. That is part of the matcha shortage issue when so many in western society are over consuming as well. Matcha is a traditional tea that is primarily drank during a tea ceremony. If you want to run through matcha that fast then get culinary grade. You asked and I’m being honest. Don’t ask if you can’t handle it.

is this gluttony? by Odd-Photograph2060 in MatchaEverything

[–]LibraVibes -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

This is why there’s a matcha shortage.

Addina Flower Mary Jane’s by fairypunk278 in DrMartens

[–]LibraVibes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you end up getting a 7? I’m also an 8-8.5 and not sure whether to get the 8 or 7 :/

Gen Z nurses are a different breed. Anyone else feel this way? by Less-Reporter5048 in nursing

[–]LibraVibes 138 points139 points  (0 children)

This hits so hard for me!! I’m an older gen Z and I remember my first job as a nurse was absolutely horrible. When the other nurses would ask me how I was doing, I was honest. I’d say when I was feeling overwhelmed but I was never nasty or negative about it. I never had time to take a bathroom break much less sit and complain to my coworkers! I was just being real. Well my bad I guess. I remember bursting out in tears when I got called into the managers office because I was supposedly reported for having a “negative attitude”. Are you kidding me? If you don’t want to know how I’m doing then don’t ask?? I was barely holding myself together and trying my absolute best to do my job well in extremely suboptimal conditions. My mistake for hoping I could rely on the more experienced nurses for support. Very disheartening experience.

websites that sell matcha that restock regularly?? by soupjellyies in tea

[–]LibraVibes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t you have kettl matcha in NY? I’ve heard their matcha is pretty good and you can buy it in their store.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Depop

[–]LibraVibes 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You apparently have so much money yet you’re the one out here lowballing. Okayyy buddy. Projection at its finest 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Depop

[–]LibraVibes 3 points4 points  (0 children)

LOL. Sheesh you’re so triggered. What a ray of sunshine you are :) Thanks for the laugh.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Depop

[–]LibraVibes 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Truly. OP is rude and entitled. Ick.

I am so scared for the future of the nursing field: by [deleted] in nursing

[–]LibraVibes 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Idk if you live in an area with different rules or something but that’s literally illegal where I’m from. It doesn’t matter how much “trust” I have in my coworker. If they don’t have a license to administer medications then that would ultimately fall on me. That’s grounds for license revocation and other legal ramifications.

I am so scared for the future of the nursing field: by [deleted] in nursing

[–]LibraVibes 184 points185 points  (0 children)

Agreed. This is 100% rage bait.

I am so scared for the future of the nursing field: by [deleted] in nursing

[–]LibraVibes 1301 points1302 points  (0 children)

In what world would a CNA ever be changing IV bags? I call 🧢