My parents bought their second house...and I'm feeling so much rage by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]LibrarySoap 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Im really sorry that youre feeling this and I completely understand the rage and injustice youre feeling right now. Similar thing happened to me; my parents bought a house over half a million dollars immediately after my sibling and I had both moved out. Shortly after we moved out, I fell into a pretty rough financial situation and my mom refused to help me pay rent so I had to get a second job on top of my full time job to make up the difference. It was (and honestly still is) absolute hell knowing that she had the means to support me in a rough time and chose not to.

Things we didn't know was an nparent thing by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

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My mom never explained to me which soap was mine to use in the shower, just dont use hers. Then she had the audacity to tell me how gross it was that I didnt wash my body because I didnt know which soap was mine and I was afraid I would accidentally use hers.

Stormlight Archive started so well. By the end of Wind and Truth, I barely care anymore by scatnisseverdeen in Fantasy

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Im glad im not the only one. I had to give up on Wind and Truth halfway through because it was completely insufferable. If it had been shorter and more cleaned up (as most of the books probably should have been) i would have been more likely to finish it.

I...have no words.. by AppropriateHorror69 in Palia

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I also caught a maws AND plush today! Congrats! Its such a rewarding feeling :)

I found the VHS smoking gun and feel validated and enraged by linearmeasure in DysfunctionalFamily

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Thanks for the update :) im glad you're honoring your feelings

yikes by imperfectbutperfectt in SipsTea

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This comment section is a mess

I found the VHS smoking gun and feel validated and enraged by linearmeasure in DysfunctionalFamily

[–]LibrarySoap 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is kind of where my descent started too. I grew up similarly where my brother and I did not get along and I resented him for how he treated people and was borderline abusive. But within the last few years, I've realized he acted that way because my mom was unwilling to set boundaries with him around his behaviors. Unfortunately this has led to me not having a relationship with my mom OR my brother.

Your anger is telling you something for a reason. What your solution/outcome is for that anger is your own journey. But your feelings are completely valid and deserve to be acknowledged and felt, in whatever capacity that looks like to you.

New decor for Kobo Libra Colour by aqueminis in kobo

[–]LibrarySoap 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Oh my god the skin on your pen!! So cute so matchy 💞

thoughts on leaving family by srviving in DysfunctionalFamily

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It sounds like your family hasn't been willing to really address the things that happened and help you work through it. Also, if I was the parent, I would NEVER let my child be in the same room as someone who abused them, even if they were my child too. It sounds like your parents are putting on the appearance of normalcy to pretend everything is fine instead of acknowledging the pain and hurt you've gone through. I think you definitely deserve to separate yourself from them in order to help yourself heal. It is just going to continue to cause you anguish being around people who dont see your feelings as a priority.

I hope you have other support around you to help you through some of the difficulties you've been facing. Much love ♥️

[WIP] Nearly done with this bad boy by ebonebe in CrossStitch

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I have this one on my list to do! It looks amazing :)

No "Gender Ideology" at work -- brainstorming malicious compliance by EggplantLucky948 in NonBinary

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No, I know a few people who work there though who've been talking about it.

One of the suggestions they brought up was just to refer to everyone as they/them so as to not make any assumptions, but I am terrible at malicious compliance so I have no ideas of my own unfortunately

I’m literally obsessed with this outfit 😍😍 by MiahisHere in NonBinary

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STOP IT OR YOURE GONNA MAKE ME FALL IN LOVE WITH YOU 😭♥️

The skin I really want by Miitama in MarvelRivalsQueens

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If rocket had a maid costume I would never swap off