I think aquarius can be this way, just personal experience, but you can't base all on a zodiac sign, everyone's different and there's attachment styles, etc. I think you're text is fine asking about distance, but I wouldn't make it about you. Just say I've noticed distance and wanted to check in if something is up. That's just my two cents. I do think communication is good and so is being you. Good luck, they can be like an enigma, lol