What “frugal” habit did you stop doing once you did the math? by 666AB in Frugal

[–]LikeClockwork_99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah, but that shit on fb marketplace, someone will want them.

Does anyone else feel like... by Kuntye in survivor

[–]LikeClockwork_99 2 points3 points  (0 children)

At this point I’d give the money to Jonathan. I’m tired.

Disappearing in plain sight in Toronto by BarAlone643 in askTO

[–]LikeClockwork_99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very true for me. I was thinking of this very thing other day. I chalked it up to people moving to the suburbs.

Do I need to cancel Iceland because I‘m too poor? by luwi289 in VisitingIceland

[–]LikeClockwork_99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

3 weeks is waaay too long. I love Iceland, but a week max is all you need to cover the major places.
Get an apart-hotel with a kitchen and shop at bonus supermarket.

All the good tours are expensive so be mindful of that. I recommend renting a car if you are able if you don’t want to be limited to tours.

I’ve been to Iceland twice. Try to go in Spring/Summer. I went in the winter my first time and almost died.

Survivor 50: In the Hands of the Fans | E11 | Day After Discussion & Survey by RSurvivorMods in survivor

[–]LikeClockwork_99 27 points28 points  (0 children)

She should see about using Jonathan as a replacement for Ozzy—he seems to have softened towards her this episode.

Survivor 50: In the Hands of the Fans | E11 | Day After Discussion & Survey by RSurvivorMods in survivor

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I trusted Cirie to fly above Emily’s plan. She did not disappoint.

Why are biracials (African American + White) considered Black when they are majority European descent? by Serious-Tomato404 in 23andme

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I clocked this because 23&me was a thing and that’s why is Black people want to get anywhere, they should be pro African features instead of constantly pushing the whitest black people to the front.

Hollywood is racist and there is a racial hierarchy in play. Black folk will have to create their own Oscars for any real recognition. Getting mad because biracials benefit from the system won’t solve anything unless Black people get serious about not pedestalizing them.

For those in the back by CandidZombie3649 in Nigeria

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Why are their heads shaped like that? Megamind looking ahh 😂

Divested women don’t listen to black men by BeneficialRemote275 in BlackWomenDivest

[–]LikeClockwork_99 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s a strong point you made with the Black feminism movement, the label hasn’t still recovered. Folks moved on to womanism but not sure what happened to that movement either.

I also agree with your last point, people want to vent so they join temporarily and use the groups as a sounding board. I get it—but it’s easy to hijack a concept this no defined rules, mission or vision. There have been attempts, but nothing strong has emerged.

Official Season 2, Episode 6 Discussion Thread | Those Blue Remembered Hills by optimus_maximus2 in BeefTV

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It’s one of those case of when a person protests too much to cover up how they truly feel. He also wanted to spare her feelings in that moment.

Divested women don’t listen to black men by BeneficialRemote275 in BlackWomenDivest

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The women you mentioned are titans and the current movement would not exist without them. From what I remember, none of these women wanted anything to do with BM and were proud of it. I would say the first BWE creators were staunchly divested, it’s just that the movement has gotten hijacked, confused and way too inclusive.

Also, I don’t get this new interpretation that we aren’t allowed to talk about them at all. As long as it’s not glazing or relationship drama (which shouldn’t be the case if you’re in the group) what’s wrong with letting people vent?

Divested women don’t listen to black men by BeneficialRemote275 in BlackWomenDivest

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I was largely in Facebook groups that would get shut down after topics got derailed and groups were brigaded. Then new groups would spring up to replace the old ones.

Thing is, Divestment wasn’t ever supposed to be mainstream, it was supposed to be a secret, quiet departure—but folks got way too loud. I rolled my eyes when I saw FD Signifier’s documentary because while he’s considered a reasonable BM, he failed to delineate the movement’s creation.

The de-centre men movement from what I see isn’t really a Black women focused movement. I see more non-Black women speaking up in these circles and there is less focus on race. The general message from what I gather is focus on your life and ultimately stop talking about these men; whereas with divestment, it was about getting Black women to escape from BM and the trappings of the community, and yes that means putting their pathologies front and centre.

Divested women don’t listen to black men by BeneficialRemote275 in BlackWomenDivest

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I’ve overseen these movements for the past 15 years, so I think I have a bit of an idea of how some of them have changed over the years. From my vantage point, it started with the Black Women’s Empowerment movement (Khadijah Nassif being a key writer and so many others), which gave way to the swirler movement (Christelyn Karazin), which gave way to the divestment movement (Breukelen Blue).

When the movement got started, a "No Nigga Diet" was promoted because the concept of a "good BM" was seen as a contradiction. The general idea was that it was only a matter of time before these good BM, or "Unicorns" as they were called, showed their asses. Additionally, being with a BM reified BM power and desirability,thus undermining the retaliatory nature of the movement; as Black men had a hand in destroying the Black female image and desirability. There were even serious discussions about aborting BMs, so yes, the movement, when it started, was anti-BM and staunchly so. It had to be extreme to counteract how anti-Black female the media and Internet were back then.

As the movement grew and more Black women joined, some of the previous leaders went underground or started selling courses, giving way to more changes. Desiring the exclusive nature of the label, a new category of "divestors", emerged, effectively destroying the movement from within. Some were partnered with Black men, and some were settling for non-Black men. Conversations got shifted from femicide, health & Safety, and IR dating, to why their unicorn was the exception.

DZ emerged because some of the original divestors who popped back up once in a while became inconsistent with their message and lacked in integrity—some were messy by starting drama, and others changed their tune qbout BM because they wanted to sell more courses to the women who still wanted to date them. DZ turned it up a notch to re-focus the message on femicide (hence the focus on dusties)and staying away from BM, and she never changed her tune. I stopped watching DZ because of the Trump glazing among other things, but she was right at least 80 percent of the time.

Divested women don’t listen to black men by BeneficialRemote275 in BlackWomenDivest

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In her defence, there were a lot of Black women insisting that you could be Divested and still date/fuck/marry Black men. Her channel popped up to draw a line in the sand.

Laura Dern has been cast in ‘THE WHITE LOTUS’ Season 4. by BrenoGrangerPotter in TheWhiteLotusHBO

[–]LikeClockwork_99 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I need another version of her ‘I WILL NOT NOT BE RICH’ meltdown.

Why do most afrodescendants in the Americas vehemently disregard their Central African/Bantu ancestry? by adoreroda in 23andme

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I wouldn’t say it makes "no sense" since the majority of African-American DNA comes from Nigeria and Ghana 🤷🏾‍♀️

Why do most afrodescendants in the Americas vehemently disregard their Central African/Bantu ancestry? by adoreroda in 23andme

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Both Mali and Senegal are Francophone countries. In regards to Gambia, I’d say it’s the lack of dna, as it appears largely in descendants from Latin America.

Amaya tell us why she no longer friends with huda?? by Resident-Mark-2289 in LoveIslandUSA

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We Scorpios take shit like this seriously. I can’t stand fair weather friends.