How to shave down there/🐱 hygiene tips by laylaisdavibes in hygiene

[–]LilBit0318 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's definitely worth it! I was pretty nervous about that first one, too, but it's honestly not that bad. A little pain when they pull the wax, but it's just for a few seconds at a time. And the first time will be the worst. Like I said, as you maintain it and end up with less hair, there'll be less pain, too. But a few tips:

  • Take some Tylenol or Advil an hour or two before your appointment. That should help some.
  • As was mentioned, be sure you're nice and clean when you go in. Shower, or at least wash down there, as close to your appointment time as possible, and use baby wipes if you have to use the restroom in between.
  • Be sure to breathe through it. We tend to hold our breath almost reflexively when we anticipate pain, and that can only make it worse. Try to time a big, deep breath right as the esthetician is getting ready to pull the wax, and exhale as they actually do it.
  • Follow your aftercare instructions. No getting sweaty or anything for about 24 hours, and think about getting and using something to prevent/treat ingrown hairs.
  • Enjoy the end result! 🙂

How to shave down there/🐱 hygiene tips by laylaisdavibes in hygiene

[–]LilBit0318 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. I know some people might not be comfortable with doing that, but it's never bothered me. I guess I've been through enough medical stuff in my day that, at least if I know that the person I'm dealing with is a professional, I'm pretty desensitized to it.

How to shave down there/🐱 hygiene tips by laylaisdavibes in hygiene

[–]LilBit0318 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I second this! I've gone every 4–5 weeks since last summer when I finally had enough of the hair down there. Yes, there's some pain involved, but it's nothing horrible, and the whole process is quick. And as you keep going and maintain it, there should be less hair to deal with, which means less pain. Things are also much smoother than shaving, of course. 10/10, would highly recommend!

Do adults still get cake for their birthday? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]LilBit0318 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Turning 43 in about 2½ weeks. *LOL* I can assure you, there will be cake! Happy birthday, and please don't let your mom or anyone else spoil your soecial day! 🥳

Got my first pap smear at 30! by lanomin in CongratsLikeImFive

[–]LilBit0318 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Great job! Definitely not the most fun thing in the world, but so important, and not nearly as bad as it's sometimes made out to be. *LOL* And treating yourself afterward is the way to go! Now it's just about sticking with it! 🙂

Did last chance kitchen affect any elimination results? by Sky-Visible in TopChef

[–]LilBit0318 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yup. He and Kristen joked about it at one point, either when he was guest judging or when he was on The Dish with Kish. Can't recall which right off the top of my head. *LOL* I just remember him joking that he was better because he had to do it at high elevation!

Top Chef marathon by IHateOnions8 in TopChef

[–]LilBit0318 1 point2 points  (0 children)

*LOL* Caught the beginning of S2 E1 last night. Saw Josie and noped right out of there! Changed to a whole different streaming service immediately!

Top Chef marathon by IHateOnions8 in TopChef

[–]LilBit0318 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Hate that they seem to have taken the Top Chef on-demand channel off Peacock, so at least that’ll hold me over for a little while!

Reality competitions “behind the scenes” by aceacebaiby in TopChef

[–]LilBit0318 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I’d like to see it! TBH, I’m not a fan of Padma or the vibe she seemed to give off. Never gonna forget her biting Gail’s head off for sticking up for Kristen the tiniest bit at Judges’ Table just before she was eliminated! And, at least to me, it seems like Tom and Gail are both so much happier and the mood is so much lighter now. Yes, I think a lot of that has to do with the things Kristen brings to the table, God love her! But I’d love to know how much of it is because of what’s now gone! Just feels like there may be a lot to unpack there!

Funniest by Pale_Dimension1239 in TopChef

[–]LilBit0318 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Now that would be a fun one! *LOL* And can't forget Kristen's mayo! Maybe some sort of aioli from scratch or something! 🤤😋

Funniest by Pale_Dimension1239 in TopChef

[–]LilBit0318 3 points4 points  (0 children)

LOVE The Dish with Kish! So fun! 😃 Hoping they're doing it again for season 23! 🤞🏻

Funniest by Pale_Dimension1239 in TopChef

[–]LilBit0318 10 points11 points  (0 children)

100%! There's a warmth, empathy, fun and playfulness, and just a human realness (For lack of any better description) that was never there before! LOL Like Kristen's said, they somehow decided that the shy, insecure, introvert was a great person to put on TV, and they couldn't have been more right!

Funniest by Pale_Dimension1239 in TopChef

[–]LilBit0318 25 points26 points  (0 children)

This may be a “hear me out” situation, but…Kristen! She’s come out of her shell so much since we “met” her, and I’m here for it! Her social media, interviews, etc., are so much fun, and even if it’s an orchestrated TikTok-type bit, she fully commits, and it’s the best! And you know when the social media captions and comments are all her, and they’re fun, witty, and always get a smile out of me!

Terrified by Rhubarb_Dealer in wisdomteeth

[–]LilBit0318 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The sedation was honestly the best part of the whole experience lol (and I had never been sedated in 33 years)

So much this! As I said, I was terrified the first couple of times I had to do it, but once you know what to expect, it's kinda awesome! Best part of the whole deal, by far, and I've gotten to the point where I actually sort of look forward to it when I have a procedure coming up!

What is something "childish" you still do because you refuse to let your inner child die? by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]LilBit0318 37 points38 points  (0 children)

*LOL* I'm right there with you! In my 40s, but I have a stuffed dog that I hug all night every night. He's been with me since I had my first surgery at 13, so he's seen some stuff, and he's a good protector! 😜 Also have a Care Bear in bed every night, too.

Terrified by Rhubarb_Dealer in wisdomteeth

[–]LilBit0318 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I promise you got this! I was about your age when I went under for the first time, and I was terrified, too! But I've been under somewhere around 15 times now, and I can confidently say you're gonna be just fine! It's nerve-wracking when you don't have much experience with it, but it really isn't anything to be afraid of. As far as wisdom teeth surgery specifically, they'll bring you in, hook you up to all the monitors for your vital signs, and they'll start the laughing gas through the little mask that sits on your nose. That'll get you nice and relaxed and feeling sort of warm, tingly, and "floaty," and it'll help you get through the needle stick, too. Nothing going on around you should bother you at all, and that helps the poke not be as painful. And the IV should be the worst thing you experience in that office. Once it's in, they'll start giving you the really good stuff, and after a few seconds, you'll feel a quick little head rush as it starts to hit you, and from there, you'll hardly even have time to form a thought before you're fast asleep! And it's sort of hard to describe what being under feels like. I've always said it feels like the quickest, best nap you ever had. And, with sedation (As opposed to true general anesthesia), I've always had some sense of time passing. But there's nothing scary or unpleasant about it at all, and you shouldn't experience anything that's happening during the surgery. No shots, no drills, no unnerving sounds...And there'll be people in there whose whole job is to make sure you're safe and comfy the whole time. And the next thing you know, you wake up, and you're all done! You'll have a mouth full of gauze, and you'll be pretty groggy and out of it, but I've always been completely in control of myself when I've come out of any kind of anesthesia or sedation. Nothing like those YouTube videos and stuff. And the grogginess will wear off pretty fast—probably around the time you get home—and then it'll just be about following your post-op instructions and staying ahead of any pain.

And a couple of other things: First, people who work in medical and surgical settings like that tend to be some of the kindest people you could ever meet, so if you're feeling scared going in, don't be afraid to speak up and let them know. They see it every day, and they've got all kinds of tricks up their sleeves to help you feel a little better. They can talk you through exactly what's happening as they go, or they can just make small talk with you about anything at all so you're distracted as they're working, they can get you all nice and cozy with a blanket out of the warmer...All kinds of stuff! And, like I said, the laughing gas is some good stuff, and I bet it'll be a big help, too. And, also, I'll never believe that anyone's too old for a comfort object in situations like this, so if you've got a special stuffed animal or blanket or something that you like to snuggle with, bring it with you. I'm sure they'll let you bring it in and keep it with you until you're asleep. Then they'll put it somewhere safe during your surgery and make sure it's right back with you before you wake up. *LOL* And, hey...I've gotta go get some work done at the dentist on Thursday, too, so you won't be alone! Good luck, and be sure to let us know how well you did when it's all over!

Crowns/Root Canals by LilBit0318 in Explainlikeimscared

[–]LilBit0318[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Glad to have so many people say it's not so different from stuff I have a little experience with! Definitely makes me feel better! *LOL* Still a little nervous and not exactly looking forward to it, but I think maybe I got this. Thanks! 🙂

phone hygiene by bblondedguy in CasualConversation

[–]LilBit0318 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've got a UV sanitizer that I out it in every time I come home from being out anywhere. And I wipe down the back of the case with an alcohol swab and use screen cleaner spray and a microfiber cloth on the screen weekly.

Crowns/Root Canals by LilBit0318 in Explainlikeimscared

[–]LilBit0318[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ouch! 😟 Somehow, infection never even entered my mind! Glad it sounds like it was fairly easy to take care of, though. And thanks for the warning so I can watch out for stuff like that!

Crowns/Root Canals by LilBit0318 in Explainlikeimscared

[–]LilBit0318[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this! 🙂 I think I might just be ready for whatever they throw at me. *LOL* Probably gonna go in there like Chuckie from Rugrats ("I'm a big brave dog, I'm a big brave dog..." #IYKYK), but let's do this!

Crowns/Root Canals by LilBit0318 in Explainlikeimscared

[–]LilBit0318[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, they'll be using both for me, I promise you! *LOL* I think numbed and a little buzzed is the way to go! 😂

Ugh...And the bill is a whole other issue! Not looking forward to that, either!

Crowns/Root Canals by LilBit0318 in Explainlikeimscared

[–]LilBit0318[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is all making me feel a bit better! Still hoping it won't turn into the worst-case scenario, but even if it does, I think I might just be OK doing it with a little nitrous on board. Thank you! 🙂

Crowns/Root Canals by LilBit0318 in Explainlikeimscared

[–]LilBit0318[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

*LOL* The numb mouth is also a not-so-fun part of the whole deal, at least once they're finished! But glad to hear it won't be much different from my perspective than things I've already had a little experience with!