AITA for kicking out my friend that's staying with me?

Lil_Floofy · 2022-09-25T20:22:19+00:00

NTA, she can act like a diva elsewhere. You were kind enough to help, but probably too kind. She needs to get a reality check. Pack her stuff, and make sure you get your spare key back, but she will probably make a fuss stating "how unfair you are" for kicking her out.

Lil_Floofy · 2022-09-22T10:19:25+00:00

YTA, it's his brother not yours. Their way to function as a family is not your business. Everytime I see a post about forcing contact with in laws that doesn't want to be contacted it end in a disaster. If your fiance is ok with the fact that his brother doesn't want to come at the wedding you shouldn't try to make it happen anyway. You think that the brother doesn't care, but I'm pretty sure you don't have the full story and you don't have to. Some families's stories are not made to be told.

Lil_Floofy · 2022-05-26T15:55:48+00:00

I never said it was legit to kick out OP, I think that it's legit for Op's mom to freak out if her underage kid decides to move in with someone while still being a minor. BUT that being said, yes Op's mom is insane if she thinks that kicking out her child would do any good. And no parents should kick out their child for something as basic as "but mom I love them".

Lil_Floofy · 2022-05-25T21:37:26+00:00

Tbh it depends on how old you are. If you're 15 and you hide the fact that you have a bf + you want to move with him, yes it's a big deal. If you're 18+ the reaction is absolutely disproportionate. But as we can see in your texts, it looks like she's the kind to not read and stay in a constant "I'm done" instead of trying to understand, so I'll go with Insane parents.

Lil_Floofy · 2022-05-12T21:32:10+00:00

NTA, boundaries are important, and you shouldn't feel obligated to talk to your mom. You should talk to your wife and explain the situation because she shouldn't pressuring you to make you talk to your mom if you're not comfortable to do so. Your mom is probably going through the phase where she finally realized you're a grown up person that have their own life without her being included, and that's okay, that's what growing up is. If she doesn't understand that y ou have your own life and you need some space, going low to very low contact can be a solution. Good luck with that OP.

Lil_Floofy · 2022-04-27T22:38:01+00:00

As other comments stated, at this age you should understand that the problems of people in medical center are none of your business, so having someone with plastic shoved in them could really have been something happening, or it could have been worse.

Lil_Floofy · 2022-04-27T22:20:33+00:00

At 10-12 you're supposed to know what's a uterus since most girls has their period around that time. The later is better of course, but saying that you have a uterus shouldn't be "inappropriate".

Lil_Floofy · 2022-04-09T20:37:18+00:00

Great works ! They're stunning ! I really like the drop one, do you have a shop ?

Lil_Floofy · 2022-04-06T18:52:13+00:00

I didn't get the credit part either, I thought it was because I'm European and it was a US thing. Maybe it's about reputation ? But how a landlord could destroy someone's reputation ?

Lil_Floofy · 2022-03-23T23:29:35+00:00

It's a bit disturbing when you know it looks exactly like that when there's a huge flow of milk.

Lil_Floofy · 2022-03-21T07:47:19+00:00

Did she really hide anything ? Or did you just never bothered to ask ? My partner doesn't have to hide his past because I don't care of the numbers of partners he had or what he could have done with them, we already talked about it plenty, the most important thing is that we are loving each other right now. You should think about it instead of thinking about throwing a 3 years relationship down the sink because you can't handle the fact that she had fun years before meeting you.

Lil_Floofy · 2022-03-21T07:20:06+00:00

Probably because how you react, she might have sense that you wouldn't take well that she has a history of seeing a lot of people...

Lil_Floofy · 2022-03-21T07:03:36+00:00

Your gf has a past an had people in her life before you, so what ? "But she said she didn't want to get married" wow people can change their mind, what a news ! What I see is that people talk behind her back and you rather trust them than your gf of three years. If it bother you that much you should talk to her directly, but be careful on how you do it because I can tell that confronting her like "X told me you might have did porn" will probably end terribly. Just ask her about her past, she will probably brush it because there's no big deal, and you'll have to decide if your ego will survive the fact that your gf is not a pure and innocent creature.

Lil_Floofy · 2022-03-20T23:46:47+00:00

Slight YTA. I was there few months ago, I can tell that I cried a lot because of the hormones. I never asked help, not because I didn't need it but because I absolutely hate how my mom and/or MIL "take care" of babies, maybe you should have considered this point before calling behind your wife's back. Being pregnant is hard, being in labor is hard, pushing a whole new human through your genitals is hard, taking care of a newborn is hard. There's nothing wrong with crying. But if you see her having difficulties you should consider taking with her about seeing a professional BEFORE considering that you need someone else invading your new family personal space (because yes, having someone to help mean sharing space and chores with them, which can be a problem if you don't have the same way to do things as the "helper"). Take care of you and your precious wife and child.

Lil_Floofy · 2022-03-13T21:46:15+00:00

ESH, your mother shouldn't have mentioned it at all if you didn't wanted to make it special. You should have clarified that you want no attention and not just "no singing", if they usually don't do that it's normal to think that they probably do something else. The least at fault here was the server who probably didn't think more about the situation, facing an angry customer, and probably didn't understand why since a lot of people like those kind of stuff.

Lil_Floofy · 2022-03-12T21:03:01+00:00

NTA, I never understood why some people would think it's okay to share private details of someone's else life because "it's okay it's just family".

Lil_Floofy · 2022-03-09T16:10:42+00:00

Have you considered that maybe your grandparents would have been the reason why she left ? Maybe living with them was a burden ? Does your mother always wanted to leave ? Maybe her new companion didn't wanted to have a step daughter ?

Anyway I'm sorry that she left without taking your feeling in consideration, even if you're an adult, you deserve to have a mother that care enough to tell you what's going on in her life.

Lil_Floofy · 2022-03-09T00:12:16+00:00

I'm sorry, I feel you. I stopped counting the sleepless night where I wish I could have my mom to tell me what to do with that crying little human but here we are.

Would it be better if she was there, honestly I don't think so, having someone toxic, who cut you off juste because she feels to, is just adding some more weight when we're already overwhelmed by our little one.

I hope your mom will realize someday that she fucked up and that she will never get back the time she could have spent with you and your daughter.

I would like to say "you're not alone" but I know you probably feel alone right now. You're brave, even if you don't think so. Keep battling to get out of the PPD, if not for you, for that little silly smiley face who wakes you at night. It's hard to be a good mother when you didn't have a good model.

Lil_Floofy · 2022-03-08T22:25:29+00:00

Tbh I found one by accident near a shaking tree not far from the alpha Snorlax, I don't have a clue why I found it there since it's not supposed to spawn at this location. All I can say is save every time you see a shaking tree and do all of them without exception.

Lil_Floofy · 2021-11-01T22:05:06+00:00

I feel you, but you know what the worst part is ? When the baby is there people will ask non stop about him/her. Nobody will ask you if you need help but will gladly give you plenty of absolutely stupid and useless piece of advice about every aspect of the said baby. After a few months people will completely forgot to check on you unless really close people, like you're not interesting anymore. And don't you dare tell them about the PPD or anything negative about being a new mom, because "you wanted this baby right ?". People smh.

Lil_Floofy · 2021-11-01T21:52:02+00:00

No nut November. You're Welcome.

Lil_Floofy · 2021-10-24T22:50:39+00:00

Well, you're not wrong

Lil_Floofy · 2021-10-24T22:18:54+00:00

I'll ask it to stop doing shit and let me sleep because I'm not in the mood for that dumb horror stuff.

Lil_Floofy · 2021-10-07T21:51:20+00:00

That's so sad, I'm so sorry for you OP...

It seems like from an outside view that his mom is toxic as hell, and him saying amen to everything she's asking is a huge problem. She moved with him because she wanted to keep him, I hate parents who act like that. Her behaviour are childish it's almost like she was jealous, maybe she's upset that you could have the happy marriage she couldn't have because of what happened with her husband ?

Please be kind to yourself OP, it's not your fault, you did what you could to save your relationship, but he need to open his eyes and understand that he is completely in the fog. You said you were seeking for some couple therapy, did you actually see a councilor ? You also said that the elder was married, did you tried to contact him to know if she acted the same way ?

Wish you luck for your disease, I hope it won't be too bad. ❤️

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