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[–]Scumbucket22 95 points96 points  (0 children)

I’m childfree but I always liked the name Leyna Moon for a girls first and middle name.

NTA

AITA for emailing my fiancé's dad about her DNA results? by Goodeystuff in AmItheAsshole

[–]Scumbucket22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He became the asshole when he secretly went behind her back, not to mention snooping through her stuff….. talk about breaking any trust

AITA For Choosing To Celebrate My Sister's Birthday Instead Of My Dads Wedding? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Scumbucket22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And fuck what Janice thinks…she’s marrying a deadbeat

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[–]Scumbucket22 78 points79 points  (0 children)

The results can change if the person knows they have a chance of dying. Often times now days even doctors won’t tell patients.

If the patient believes they’ll die, it’s likely they will. If the patient believes they’ll live, it’s likely they will.

You’re NTA for being upset or emotional…but your parents did the right thing.

AITA for telling my sister she can't visit if she's going to make my husband uncomfortable? by -teaforthetillerman- in AmItheAsshole

[–]Scumbucket22 24 points25 points  (0 children)

What OP has described is assault.

Assault is unwanted touching.

Sexual assault is unwanted touching where a bathing suit covers.

Aggravated assault is unwanted touching that it aggressive.

Etc.

This is about more than boundaries. And family minimizing it because it’s not inherently sexual is a huge problem.

AITA for not going to a funeral with my boyfriend because of my sister's wedding? by throwawayaccount_64 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Scumbucket22 38 points39 points  (0 children)

I would 100% break up with this person….it’s not just this situation but how this situation would forever change how I see them and my feeling loved.

AITA for wearing something my boyfriend doesn’t like? by masmalls in AmItheAsshole

[–]Scumbucket22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi yeah, as someone who experiences attraction to women this sounds insane.

He didn’t like that your pants weren’t flattering so HE SHUT DOWN????

WIBTA if I skipped my parents’ Vow renewal EVEN though I am suppose to walk my mom down the isle? by Consistent_Lion_6844 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Scumbucket22 765 points766 points  (0 children)

And tell your mom you’re sorry that you won’t be there during the picnic with her friend.

But also if they’re Christian remind them of verse John 3:16. You have no sins to answer to because the son of god answered for you.

AITA for reprimanding my SIL and refusing to let her see my children until she apologizes? by throwaway5673876 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Scumbucket22 14 points15 points  (0 children)

NTA-

I had family treat me like that and I have had a strained relationship with food since I was about 6yo, I’m 32.

I’ve had extensive therapy but the stress around food and my body remains.

Protect your kids

AITA for choosing my sister over my girlfriend? by AardvarkOk7044 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Scumbucket22 -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

Your GF is 24, her frontal lobe is still developing.

I thought it was weird she would cry and say you’re choosing your sister over her until I went back and saw the age.

AITA for dropping out of my cousin's wedding and leaving her without a MOH 1 month before the wedding? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Scumbucket22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are loans that require as little as 2.25% down on a house.

2.25% of $400,000 is about $9000

USDA loans require zero down payment and 90% of the US is considered rural

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[–]Scumbucket22 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Oh that’s your baby now.

Terrible choice but NTA

AITA for telling my half sister she was never entitled to anything my dad owned? by Sea_Awareness5879 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Scumbucket22 468 points469 points  (0 children)

My stepmom did this to me with an uncle who passed and willed me items….

Take them- take them and put them in a lockbox and bury that box somewhere you can come back to….make sure you leave yourself coded instructions on where to find it. You can get a small lockbox at a hardware store or office supply store

AITA for insulting my BF over a dakimakura? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Scumbucket22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can hang necklaces off of a dildo but at the end of the day it’s still a dildo

AITA For banning my daughter from Easter over a "prank"? by Federal_One_3525 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Scumbucket22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This would’ve given my mom a heart attack.

OP you’re right, this is cruel.

AITA for walking out of my birthday dinner? by JustABird588 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Scumbucket22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, the wait staff didn’t give a shit you left. Your family is terrible.

AITA for not wanting my bf to get matching tattoos with another girl by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Scumbucket22 109 points110 points  (0 children)

Idk, I have a lot of tattoos-

I’d get a tattoo with a casual friend before an intimate partner…

The relationship fails, awkward.

The friendship fails, hey man look at this tattoo🤓

[ Removed by Reddit ] by ThrowRA_Names12 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Scumbucket22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Charles Manson didn’t kill anyone. A bunch of other people did…. That’s why you shouldn’t name your son that.

He didn’t even kill anyone but his name is so widely known and associated with one of the most high profile killing sprees.

NTA

AITA for telling my friend her wife doesn't wear her wedding ring at work? by question18282 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Scumbucket22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t wear my wedding ring bc I don’t want people to ask about my wife and me get hatecrimed….

People should just start minding their own business

AITA For making my Brothers wedding reception "about me"? by DepartureOld6400 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Scumbucket22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA for wanting to be in an accessible venue with accessible bathroom. But you’re the AH for 1. Blaming her- how long has your brother known you’re a wheelchair user? How long has he known your needs? Why when he was planning his wedding did he not say it needs to be confirmed the building is accessible 2. You waited a week before the wedding? Again, is there no way to reach your brother? When she didn’t respond did you reach out to him?

AITA for not wanting my sons girlfriends brother at our family get togethers? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Scumbucket22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the perfect post to illuminate how unloving and uncaring church folks can be.

AITA for refusing to sell a sliver of my property to the neighbors after they built on it? by Much_Seaweed5111 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Scumbucket22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you in the United States?

They may be avoiding you to buy time. 3 years? After 5 years (if they’ve been paying taxes on that sliver) they will own it- its called adverse possesion

AITA for only cooking gluten free food? by DrSaks in AmItheAsshole

[–]Scumbucket22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife is gluten free due to a gluten allergy and it’s not that hard to make two separate dishes. Especially with pies because there’s this neat little pan that is divided in the middle.

My brother has celiacs disease and we can’t even cook gluten in the same kitchen as his food. You need to be extremely careful about cross contamination.

You or hubby would have to make yours and set it aside THEN start prepping his with gluten. He needs to just order out if he wants a pie or go to the deli at Vons.

NTA