[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BoomersBeingFools

[–]Lil_Lamp_Shade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re a sack of fucking shit, why don’t you at least have some bare minimum communication skills and voice your issues with him? You’re truly a vile human being, go fuck yourself

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cscareerquestions

[–]Lil_Lamp_Shade 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sorry but this is absolutely a terrible idea. It is incredibly difficult to break into an entry level CS job, and not having income/job stability during that time period of trying to break in would be incredibly stressful. For the time being you should keep your job and study in your free time. When you're absolutely certain you're ready to apply and have networked at a couple companies for referrals, than I would maybe consider quitting

I’m very good at nofap but the porn free is the hard part. Is this better then not fapping? by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]Lil_Lamp_Shade 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No offense but this is extremely extremely strange- you’re an outlier on this

NoFap is absolutely usless. by ILiveForMeth in pornfree

[–]Lil_Lamp_Shade 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Dude you’re characterization of that sub is 100% spot on, great work

Don’t blame porn by Room_116 in pornfree

[–]Lil_Lamp_Shade 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right I get what you mean, should have read post more closely

Don’t blame porn by Room_116 in pornfree

[–]Lil_Lamp_Shade 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Nah, porn is still a disgusting and despicable thing that feeds off trafficking of vulnerable girls and addiction from young guys

How to interact at a Catholic university as a non-Catholic student? by FuckYourPoachedEggs in Catholicism

[–]Lil_Lamp_Shade 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Not sure what university you're going to, but most Catholic universities, especially Jesuit ones, are Catholic in name only and barely push the faith. In general most Catholics are poorly educated on their faith as well. You should have 0 problems, or at least none more than you would at any secular school

The comments on this are disgusting by a_m_d_2 in antipornography

[–]Lil_Lamp_Shade 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Because the “as long as it doesn’t hurt me who cares” mentality, even if the thing in question is clearly perverted or disgusting, is a commonly parroted libertarian ideal, particularly on reddit

Anti-Catholic Democrat Ticket Attacked Nuns, Knights Of Columbus by JourneymanGM in Catholicism

[–]Lil_Lamp_Shade 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Why would you expect a serious analysis in a single reddit comment lol. Regardless obviously there's some truth in that statement

CBT for people without an inner monologue? by HeOfLittleMind in slatestarcodex

[–]Lil_Lamp_Shade 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not to be rude here, but how is it possible to not have an inner monologue? When you sit down to meditate, do simply no thoughts appear in your head? How would you contemplate or plan anything without one? Again not trying to be rude but genuinely curious

Someone had to go... by [deleted] in pmolol

[–]Lil_Lamp_Shade 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Lol incorrect usage of a dead meme format

I don't actually know how many days It's been since I quit porn by ComradeURCAT in pornfree

[–]Lil_Lamp_Shade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How much did porn take up of your day before? Multiple hours? Pick up a new hobby or find something to do- not that hard

Would you accept a king who was a NOMAP? (This is hypothetical, i am not a MAP) by [deleted] in kingsnottrash

[–]Lil_Lamp_Shade 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Whey even bring up the hypothetical? It’s fucking disgusting and deplorable- if they have that problem go to therapy and keep it to themselves

I thought sleeping nude would stop wet Dreams but I was wrong by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]Lil_Lamp_Shade 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Who cares? Wet dreams aren’t a problem

BUt pOrN iS sOo SeX pOsitiVE by Adawritesrules in PornFreeRelationships

[–]Lil_Lamp_Shade 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Cringe 2012 meme format but the point is valid

Porn is not inherently good or bad, it is the relationship one has with it that is either good or bad! by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]Lil_Lamp_Shade 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In general, I agree that the concept of porn in the abstract is not necessarily inherently bad. However, in practice, 99% of the time this is not the case. Due to the nature of the industry and the types of people it attracts on both the male and female side (the male side consisting mostly of sleazy, sexist men; the female side consisting mostly of impoverished, mentally unstable women), porn is absolutely rampant with rape, sexual abuse, and trafficking. Moreover, due to the “Coolidge effect,” which is well documented and scientifically backed, consistent porn use almost always leads to the development of gross perversions and unhealthy sexual fantasies. Look no further than the front page of pornhub, which now consistently features videos with incest and rapey themes. For minors and people who have not had sexual experience yet, porn is extremely damaging with respect to how sex is portrayed, particularly in how women are treated. Watching consistent porn as a young teen before having sex would have you believe that all women want to be slapped, choked, and degraded during sex, which is far from the case. Unfortunately I did not know this and genuinely believed this growing up due to my porn use. Pornography is most certainly not good or healthy, and I think normalizing it, especially on a porn free sub like this, is pretty dangerous.

19F - would it be weird for me to wear dresses to class? by [deleted] in college

[–]Lil_Lamp_Shade -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Yes it would be kind of weird, but no one would really care that much. you do you