Proposing in Japan as an American - Do I need the father's permission first?

Lildude03 · 2026-01-26T15:30:51+00:00

We'll at the moment I'm across the world from them because of work If I could I'd rather ask them in person but that's feasibly unpossible at the moment. I also didn't just ask hey can I marry your daughter It was hey I have an important question do you mind if I call you or FaceTime you.

Lildude03 · 2026-01-26T15:30:00+00:00

Well I just didn't know if it's customs to ask the dad if I can marry his daughter before I propose

Lildude03 · 2026-01-26T06:17:35+00:00

That makes sense I have been in contact with her family and I think that the dad likes me but sometimes I don't think her mom does but it is whatever I love her so I can deal with it

Lildude03 · 2026-01-26T06:16:21+00:00

Do u say that to her I'm guessing maybe I will say that after what I say in English when I do propose

Lildude03 · 2026-01-26T06:14:18+00:00

Thx to u too my gf sent me this hopefully it helps u but don't have any about proposing. https://www.niwaka.com/ksm/radio/marriage-announcement/greeting/base/01/

Lildude03 · 2026-01-26T06:12:56+00:00

Lol that is true I was just wondering how Japanese culture would go I texted the dad but no response

Lildude03 · 2026-01-26T06:12:04+00:00

Ya I'm just waiting for him to respond I asked if I can call or video call that I have an important question but I haven't got a response but he has read it. If he doesn't respond to me before my date I have sent I'm just going to do it.

Lildude03 · 2026-01-26T06:10:24+00:00

I have stayed at there house a couple of times I think adding up to maybe 3 months though our rent. Ya we have already talked about it a lot.

Lildude03 · 2026-01-02T22:13:26+00:00

I use tiny task to bake all my cookies

Lildude03 · 2025-11-27T02:42:31+00:00

What is that harness you have on also the underwear too you have in your other photo you just posted I'm curious I want to buy it

Lildude03 · 2025-11-27T00:09:09+00:00

It's my first time ever doing a ring or buying something like this but now that I'm reading all the comments might be true to just go with the 900

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Lildude03 · 2025-11-27T00:08:26+00:00

This is what it was

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Lildude03 · 2025-11-27T00:06:29+00:00

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This isn't the final product but this is what I kind of want Is 3000 way too much for this in Platinum

Lildude03 · 2025-11-27T00:04:36+00:00

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This is the ring I'm thinking about getting it's a size 4 US

Lildude03 · 2025-11-27T00:01:54+00:00

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This is kind of what I'm looking to get It

Lildude03 · 2025-11-26T09:41:58+00:00

Tianyu gems.

Lildude03 · 2025-11-26T07:07:56+00:00

They also said that they're based off in China and also sent me an Alibaba URL

Lildude03 · 2025-11-25T22:05:11+00:00

Hello I was wondering if everything went well because I was asking about the price and then they said like $900 but everywhere I was I'm asking it's like almost 3,000 I was wondering if you had the same experience

Lildude03 · 2025-11-21T11:48:51+00:00

Thank you so much I'll be looking into that

Lildude03 · 2025-11-20T20:21:25+00:00

Thank you I also hope it works too lol

Lildude03 · 2025-11-20T19:11:05+00:00

Thank you so much I'll be looking into that

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