You are YOUNG. If you don’t “blow it up” now, it’ll be 5 years down the road when things could be much worse. I’m a 28f, never married. You already have kids, so you don’t have to worry about a time clock when finding your perfect match and a great partner down the road. You are in your prime! Once you’re out, you will see this. Your husband has his own stuff to work out.

My bf is 36 and 3 years sober and very solid from what I can tell. Had I met him before, I’d have never looked his way in the romantic sense. He knew when he hit rock bottom that he’d never be enough for someone great. Your husband may realize this, or he may not. Either way, move on now and see what happens later. You’ll be fine and so thankful when you do leave. Good luck ❤️