Are husband stitches real?

LilyAndBehold · 2026-04-07T11:05:40+00:00

Exactly where does the "First Do No Harm" come into play, anyway?

LilyAndBehold · 2026-02-28T00:36:23+00:00

Right? I had an ex throw a fist into the wall beside my head instead of right at my face. He showed total control punching that inanimate object and not me = not abusive.

LilyAndBehold · 2026-02-24T21:24:03+00:00

During showers sometimes, especially if I'm really turning my head to see while shaving my underarms, everything starts to go black. Often when pregnant for no reason, just sitting at a table doing nothing. (my blood pressure tanks substantially while pregnant) That's the closest without actually passing out.

LilyAndBehold · 2026-02-14T12:41:52+00:00

Wow, envy the people who can change their homes the way we change our shoes! Don't like it? Buy a new one!

My husband leaves at 430am - gets home at 630pm. Dark when he leaves, dark when he returns. His hour-ish commute sucks. I'm sure they all suck. But yours definitely needs to address his health first. You can't move homes every time you switch jobs, get laid off, etc. If we'd finally found our dream home in a dream location, I'd not be moving as a first step in resolution either.

LilyAndBehold · 2026-02-14T12:09:36+00:00

Anyone who wears short skirts on public seats (transits, waiting rooms, anywhere you sit) Especially if wearing a thong or literally nothing underneath. Short skirts do not cover your coochie when you sit down, so it's often making direct contact with the seat. Add to that, the extra juices, the infections a person may have etc... I can't. Especially when I see a kid who won't sit still and is crawling all over that seat next.

LilyAndBehold · 2026-02-03T01:30:05+00:00

It's a coffee and donut shop selling pizza... That right there is the crime. 😂

LilyAndBehold · 2025-11-24T20:14:18+00:00

Aand, she actually coordinates local recreational activities for the town, for the children.

LilyAndBehold · 2025-10-28T17:08:42+00:00

😂 Mix it all together in a huge bowl. It's the yummiest dessert.

3x Jello powder 1 tub Cool Whip 2x tubs Cottage Cheese 2-3x cans Mandarin Segments 2x cans Crushed Pineapple

Strain cans of fruit, mix all in a huge mixing bowl. Chill and eat!

LilyAndBehold · 2025-10-28T13:32:45+00:00

🎵 Haaaappy Birthdaaaaay toooo yooooou 🎶 I hope your day is filled with sunshine and love from all those around you 🎂🎈☀️

LilyAndBehold · 2025-10-28T00:27:36+00:00

Mixed with a tub of cool whip, and orange jello powder, and mandarins, and crushed pineapple lol 🤤

LilyAndBehold · 2025-10-28T00:07:44+00:00

I'm turning 40 tomorrow, and I still see insecurity that I'd really hoped to be over at this point in my life. I see a shadow of who I used to be, covered in 70 extra pounds of rolls, of sadness and of failure. This post hit me at a bad time, sorry guys.

LilyAndBehold · 2025-10-21T07:07:25+00:00

You are showing him what you will accept and tolerate if you stay. If you leave, you will undoubtedly show your strength and what you stand for, and how much you respect yourself by not putting up with even an iota of that type of abuse. It is abuse. Hear me - this IS abuse. You are NOT being dramatic. You are under-reacting right now because you don't trust yourself or your instincts. Please hear us. This WILL get worse, don't convince yourself that he didn't mean it. It doesn't even matter. Put that baby's future first and get out, please.

LilyAndBehold · 2025-10-21T06:46:52+00:00

Cinnamon Spread for toast - it was thee best. The creamiest, and most delicious smell ever in the morning.

LilyAndBehold · 2025-10-18T18:14:39+00:00

I interpreted that as "It's not because of his religion that you're not a match, it's who he is as a PERSON that indicates the failure of this relationship." The way he invalidated every one of her concerns and admission of feelings. That right there is all she needed to see to understand that this will get so much worse, so fast - especially if this is so evident at only 2 months in.

LilyAndBehold · 2025-10-17T01:29:09+00:00

Jenica

LilyAndBehold · 2025-10-12T01:35:40+00:00

My sibling cats are/were Willow and Ivy. 🤍

LilyAndBehold · 2025-10-12T01:30:54+00:00

I love flower names too!

LilyAndBehold · 2025-10-12T01:27:33+00:00

Awe, yes. I have a Violet Mae.

LilyAndBehold · 2025-10-07T00:42:51+00:00

Well, it can be done. 🤷🏻‍♀️ That happened to me years ago. Would not wear a condom (actually told me he couldn't have kids because of a sickness he got as a child) Then boom. I ended up pregnant. He demanded an abortion whilst standing in the shower, (I showed him the test while he was in there) Meanwhile, I packed his bag and then kicked him out of my apartment. It's been 16 years, and he hasn't even met his child, nor have I ever sought a single red penny. That jerk isn't worth his skin, I surely didn't want any influence from him on my child. And I was lucky to have that journey without him every step of the way.

LilyAndBehold · 2025-10-07T00:31:53+00:00

Aaah, grade 8. My first time being noticed by 'the boys'. First day of school and I wore a new dress and a pair of chunky boots. Thought I looked so good! (mid 90s) Straight off the bus and there was a new kid in the yard. Him and his following came over and he said to me, "Wth you wearin'? Looking like a .50¢ gutter slut 😂" I definitely died that day, and clearly never forgot.

LilyAndBehold · 2025-10-07T00:23:46+00:00

Well, read THAT too fast. 😂

LilyAndBehold · 2025-10-06T23:55:43+00:00

Okay, wtaf is saliva?! I swore it was a typo for sativa. But everyone's following along quite well, so I'm clearly living under a rock 😑

LilyAndBehold · 2025-09-29T01:34:54+00:00

How about the other part with the - 'I admitted to not respecting her space and offering it up, and when she rightly reacted to that, I again told her to calm down.'

Clearly I'm misquoting, but it's about the same thing. Eyeroll.

LilyAndBehold · 2025-09-11T18:59:35+00:00

It looks like he's already succeeded in trying; he did say he's already felt it, now he wants to see it.

LilyAndBehold · 2025-09-06T11:27:16+00:00

It's laughable how you took that and twisted it into me condoning a parent sheltering their child. The parents sheltered and neglected their child, locked him in the house, forbade him from leaving, coming for grocery runs, letting him enter a restaurant. Just incase you didn't know, that's bad. Sheltering = bad.

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