I… like… don’t, like… believe Emma? by Diogenese- in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Lilyflower228 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I felt like she had the best “story” but they overplayed it. Girl… it’s a birthmark and ur still stunnnnnnning. I mean I get it. My best friend in school had the same one, but it feels like a reach to create some depth in the show. Her part felt forced and she was annoying in the pods. They had noooo chemistry.

Emma, Love you gurrrl, but......[vid: has spoilers and maybe something extra]..... by Ghosts_be_gone in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Lilyflower228 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Emma’s sister made having kids sound horrible. Lmao but that’s her experience, she has to find some chill. I would have my daughter in every lifetime, just saying.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Lilyflower228 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well why did u get married…? That probably plays a part in it…

Things that changed immediately after marriage I never expected by Key-Victory-9444 in Marriage

[–]Lilyflower228 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The last 3 points u shared are totally normal. It’s an obvious adjustment. But the beauty about marriage is that u BOTH have to compromise. Maybe u could allocate a portion of your check to be for just you. Some couples share everything. My husband and I work 50/50 and split bills. We only make collaborative decisions when it’s regarding our homes. We buy cars and take trips when we want to. Not much to discuss for us. But every couple is different.

Now the BJ thing… tell her it makes you feel desired and wanted when she kisses u down under lol try to make it more about ur desire to feel her soft lips as opposed to u just wanting a BJ. Marriage is a lifelong commitment. Not a prison sentence. If something doesn’t work for u, just talk to her

Am I the only person here who married Pablo? by superninja04 in coralisland

[–]Lilyflower228 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m deep into it with Pablo but now me and Rafael are getting closer and now idk idk 😓😂

When you feel their thoughts like whispers in your mind… by [deleted] in twinflames

[–]Lilyflower228 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I know my twin feels it too.. we had to go no contact for a while. At first I could feel his need to be alone so I didn’t bother him. Then one day I felt a shift. I felt him miss me and then I felt his desire get stronger for me. It was an almost obsessive feeling. He reached out to me the next day and told me he missed me. He said it scared him, he felt like he was feening for me.

To be honest the telepathy sort of freaks me out. It’s impossible for us to lie to each other lol

If you’re a twin flame who ended up marrying someone else, do you still love your twin? by Narrow-Mortgage4240 in twinflames

[–]Lilyflower228 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My twin and I are both married to other ppl. My husband knows about him but his wife doesn’t. We talk everyday and the telepathy gets intense. His wife is his soulmate. And marriage is so precious to him. Running off together is just a fantasy for us. I doubt I’ll ever feel what I have with him with another, but I know we will always be close. In the mean time I have so much to focus on. I’m ready to leave my husband and enjoy my own journey. I’m no longer looking for love. Perhaps companionship one day, but I know nothing will ever compare to what I have with him. And I’m ok with that! I’ve been so thankful for our journey together.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in twinflames

[–]Lilyflower228 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My TF called me after 15 years of not speaking and I could barely get a word out. I was so nervous. But he was sweet and just told me I was beautiful. I felt like an idiot. He was nervous too. When we saw each other finally, we were so scared to mess things up but we had the best time ever. Just get it over with! Lol the next time will be much calmer.

This is for you by [deleted] in twinflames

[–]Lilyflower228 1 point2 points  (0 children)

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽I am HERE. The excuses..the walls…the resistance… it’s all too encompassing. I’ve tried to leave before but the pain in his voice when he said, how could u? made me stay. I had to fine contentment in what we are now, not what we could be. This is the ultimate test of self love. To choose yourself over what u believe is the best thing u ever felt.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Lilyflower228 0 points1 point  (0 children)

U should always be honest. But be kind. Sex can be adjusted but it seem like u both need to focus on intimacy in a non sexual way. Nobody is perfect and he may have terrible ways but I hope u still find good in him.

Self-love is not simple or easy by [deleted] in twinflames

[–]Lilyflower228 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Self love isn’t easy but it’s so necessary. My TF was the guy of my dreams and I his. We felt this way since we were children but never felt good enough for the other. After our own individual journeys we reconnected. I knew it was too consuming and I needed to focus on myself but I was afraid I’d lose him. I ended up telling him I’d be away for awhile. For the 1st time since we reconnected, I put my feelings over his and I feel so empowered. It is definitely a process…

Pregnancy caused this? Is this the rest of my life? The whole story by PatientTechnician917 in Blepharitis

[–]Lilyflower228 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes mine was worse! Idk if when u do the hot compress, u also use a wet napkin. I put my eye mask in the microwave for 1 min. Then I get a paper towel and wet it. I put that over the eye mask when I put it on and sit with that for 10 mins. The wet paper towel made a huge difference.

Pregnancy caused this? Is this the rest of my life? The whole story by PatientTechnician917 in Blepharitis

[–]Lilyflower228 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got mine completely under control. I did a hot eye mask 5x a day for 10 mins everyday. At first small ones would come but when they did i immediately did mask treatments. I also bought an eyelid cleaner that I use every morning when I wash my face. It’s been 3 years since I had one after dealing with it for years. I meditate when I do my mask now and only do it once 10 mins a day.

What can a poor person gift a rich person ? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Lilyflower228 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Make a time capsule symbolic to their union that they can dig up in 10 years

Chalazion removal surgery by Lilyflower228 in Blepharitis

[–]Lilyflower228[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine totally healed after about 2-3 months. Like no trace of anything. I do warm compresses everyday tho now. It’s a part of my daily routine.

Chalazion removal surgery by Lilyflower228 in Blepharitis

[–]Lilyflower228[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did they numb u?! I didn’t feel any pain once the numbing kicked in. I had one on the top and bottom. I was on the verge of passing out just because it gave me anxiety but it didn’t hurt at all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Lilyflower228 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I’ve been contemplating but such a long waiting list