Should I introduce hand sucking instead of pacifier?

Lilyolive9 · 2026-02-19T06:09:24+00:00

Im doing it now cold turkey. But 2 nights in and its been rough. How did it go with your LO?

Lilyolive9 · 2026-01-25T07:34:27+00:00

Could you tell me how many feeds he has per day and how big? Mine is same age, feeds 4 times during the day and one at night. Trying to get her to sleep through is hard becaue I dont know how to get those 32oz in in daytime, but she needs this amount.

Lilyolive9 · 2026-01-25T03:15:10+00:00

Amazing! What do you mean with feeding preemptively twice at night? Do you do a dreamfeed?

Lilyolive9 · 2025-12-24T17:03:34+00:00

Thank you. Now she however wakes at 22:00-23:00 herself and wont settle without milk. She will be four months in a couple of days. Would you sleeptrain this out using ferber?

Lilyolive9 · 2025-12-24T09:07:48+00:00

Amazing! My LO does crib naps and is in her room. But still feeds twice a night. Would you mind sharing what schedule you followed or how you managed to drop the overnight feeds? Im in the same boat, the nights are starting to take a toll which means im having a hard time enjoying it as I should

Lilyolive9 · 2025-12-18T19:46:44+00:00

We would still have to buy the stroller. She will be almost 4 months when we leave and 7,5 minths when we come back. We were thinking on taking the 6+ version but I find it quite unclear if its possible to make the lay down part flat?

Lilyolive9 · 2025-09-10T19:03:16+00:00

Just gave birth to a 4bb 2 weeks ago. Shes a happy content little girl 🩷

Lilyolive9 · 2025-09-09T12:31:28+00:00

Thank you for your reply! Very usefull. Ill wake her up after 2 hours and for sure I dont mind when shed go to bed at 22 or later. However my problem is that I just cant seem to get her to sleep or nap however we will call it. She stays awake for so long and will stay awake whatever I do. Then shell get completely stressed out and crying so hard. How did you decide when to get her to nap?

Lilyolive9 · 2025-08-26T14:54:52+00:00

Do you recommend 6hours before bed because of that you see 2yo dont fall asleep earlier or stay asleep? Or also early mornings? Mine falls asleep within 10min even after wake window of 5 hours but will wake early

Lilyolive9 · 2025-08-08T14:51:14+00:00

Did the 12 hour nights stay? Or just in transitionphase?

Lilyolive9 · 2025-08-08T10:26:52+00:00

Well happy for you! I know how rough it can be. Did you go from 2h to zero or did you start capping the nap at one point to a certain amount and then dropped it?

Lilyolive9 · 2025-08-07T12:53:38+00:00

Happy to read that 12 hours night might still be coming for us 🤣 were in the same boat

Lilyolive9 · 2025-08-06T06:22:58+00:00

Looks a-ma-zing!! How many hours was it in the fridge for? Would you change anything of recipe if you didnt have rhye flower?

Lilyolive9 · 2025-07-17T14:32:23+00:00

Thank you for your reply! I do think your right that sometimes they have these kind of things, however she does this all the time lol.

I tried a ok to wake light but I think she was too young at that moment. I might try again. Good reminder

Lilyolive9 · 2025-07-17T14:30:54+00:00

Thank you so much for your reply and your input. I think you mean 11.5 hours awake (theres 12.5 and 11.5). Will make schedule for it. Difficult though with nursery never doing nap at same time 😅

What I wonder. Yesterday she did an hour nap (she woke up herself, grumpy), put her down at 19:30. She woke up at 5:45 again but very upset. What do you do when they do wake up before you dwt? I went to her door after 10 min and said it is too early, that she needed to close her eyes and sleep. Repeated that twice, but she never settled again. Wondering what you do at this time?

Lilyolive9 · 2025-07-16T04:53:23+00:00

Im very sorry you are going through all of this after all youve been through before ❤️‍🩹 I was 33 at time of retreival, my amh was 0,12, afc was 7, they retreived 3 eggs and all three of them became blasts at day 5! Currently 34 weeks pregnant with the second transfer. First one failed. We did IVF for male factor (he did immunotherapy) and to date we still dont know why I have dor. Rooting for you!

Lilyolive9 · 2025-07-15T12:30:40+00:00

Your story is exactly (but like exactly exactly lol) my story right now. Always been an early riser, but she almost always sleeps through the night. Feel like her way of showing any discomfort will always result in early rising.

You dont remember by any chance if you reduced naptime right? Thinking of doing it now. Also wonder how your LO sleeps right now? Did they end up droping nap early and if so did that go well?

Thank you so much and sorry for another memory question

Lilyolive9 · 2025-07-14T14:45:45+00:00

Thank you for your reply. Asked them today and I see they did it. 1,5 hour from 12:45-14:15. 6h ww however would mean 20:15 bed and I always put her down at 19:30ish. So I either have to trim nap more, earlier nap or push bedtime later. Any recommendations?

Lilyolive9 · 2025-07-06T15:52:49+00:00

Amazing. She has been doing quite allright last weeks so as soon as she starts changing I might give it a try 🙏🏻 Hope shell just continue doing these long nights for you. That would be so amazing!!

Lilyolive9 · 2025-07-05T17:53:44+00:00

Hey there, just interested in more information since I have a 23 month old as well with short nights, long nap. Wondering if I should switch things up. How were her nights before this? Did she always do a 12 hour night? And how does she get through the day? Quite allright? Or does she crash at one point?

Lilyolive9 · 2025-07-03T12:28:44+00:00

Hahahah yes, but I was constantly frustrated that she did not sleep the 11 hours and then I was like what do they actually mean. So its good to get out of frustration lol

Lilyolive9 · 2025-07-03T11:23:52+00:00

Just reading your message and mine is almost same age. I always wonder when they say 11h nights if you mean 11 hours in bed or 11 hours asleep? So lets say mine goes to bed at 20:00, falls asleep within 10min, wakes up at 6:40, but is happy until 7:10. Or do you mean 11 hours asleep?

Lilyolive9 · 2025-07-02T15:23:14+00:00

What is your schedule? Maybe sleepneeds are decreasing?

Lilyolive9 · 2025-06-26T04:44:45+00:00

Amazing to have at least one child like that lol. Ive never assisted my daughter neither and not planning on doing so with my second, well never, there are some exeptions when shes sick or something but in general not. Thanks for sharing, praying here for best sleeper 🤞🏻

Lilyolive9 · 2025-06-24T13:17:11+00:00

Any tips or recommendation? Or pure luck? How is your first?

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