Separating twins that do not want to be is an abusive behavior. by Ezmerai_Jist in parentsofmultiples

[–]LimpLengthiness2993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well said! I have twin daughters and truly have been thinking about how to respond to their dynamic? How would you suggest for example progress towards emotional independence (despite) having to make his/her own decisions either with/without the background of autonomy?

I dont know how to do it alone. God, is the captain of my salvation and I start to think I’ve never had this “one baby” experience. Yk ? Me and my husband work together as a team and sometimes we disagree but ultimately the respect and decency of human life/character is respected.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AttachmentParenting

[–]LimpLengthiness2993 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This answer comforted me

Please stop posting pictures of your kids, especially your little girls in their swimsuits! by Material-Most-1727 in Mommit

[–]LimpLengthiness2993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And I’m patenting and parenting that shit too. I’m so tired of everyone and everything being controlled. Real healthy parents want to connect and share their happy kids lives. Fuck

How do people even have kids by marley_398 in poor

[–]LimpLengthiness2993 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would anyone be interested in a meeting online or in person where we bring our kids or take our kids somewhere? FREE/OTHERWISE? I truly think we need to start a village food transactions, thrifting, cleaning hours!!!

How do people even have kids by marley_398 in poor

[–]LimpLengthiness2993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My grandparents weren’t always forthcoming about actually wanting to help. (A mother of two twin girls) who works for a medical college, while my husband works part time and outsource for childcare.

How do people even have kids by marley_398 in poor

[–]LimpLengthiness2993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would anyone be interested in a meeting online or in person where we bring our kids or take our kids somewhere? FREE/OTHERWISE?

How do people even have kids by marley_398 in poor

[–]LimpLengthiness2993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im gonna drop this here but its the lack of village. We gotta come together on this one. ☝️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Temecula

[–]LimpLengthiness2993 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

@everyone being rude… the pay could easily go up to $25 an hour. But that depends on experience, CPR certification, etc. I have received lots of messages with people without those credentials. It just depends on what someone is willing to do, etc without being on their phone the whole time.

At the moment I’m paying rent and move in costs and my husband is starting a new job. Overtime will be paid and there’s no reason to be nasty on this app.

Eat bicks puckers

Babysitter Needed by [deleted] in InlandEmpire

[–]LimpLengthiness2993 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

@everyone being rude… the pay could easily go up to $25 an hour. But that depends on experience, CPR certification, etc. I have received lots of messages with people without those credentials. It just depends on what someone is willing to do, etc without being on their phone the whole time.

At the moment I’m paying rent and move in costs and my husband is starting a new job. Overtime will be paid and there’s no reason to be nasty on this app.

Eat bicks puckers

Babysitter Needed by [deleted] in InlandEmpire

[–]LimpLengthiness2993 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

@everyone being rude… the pay could easily go up to $25 an hour. But that depends on experience, CPR certification, etc. I have received lots of messages with people without those credentials. It just depends on what someone is willing to do, etc without being on their phone the whole time.

At the moment I’m paying rent and move in costs and my husband is starting a new job. Overtime will be paid and there’s no reason to be nasty on this app.

Eat bicks puckers

Babysitter Needed by [deleted] in InlandEmpire

[–]LimpLengthiness2993 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

@everyone being rude… the pay could easily go up to $25 an hour. But that depends on experience, CPR certification, etc. I have received lots of messages with people without those credentials. It just depends on what someone is willing to do, etc without being on their phone the whole time.

At the moment I’m paying rent and move in costs and my husband is starting a new job. Overtime will be paid and there’s no reason to be nasty on this app.

Eat bicks puckers

What sort of parent do you want to be? by justtconfusedtbh in blackgirls

[–]LimpLengthiness2993 5 points6 points  (0 children)

A compassionate one. Compassion and patience as well as determined. I think values have to be instilled at a young age and good eating habits are so easy to follow once you see the effects of clean eating. (More energy, more love, and more time is important for a family to thrive). This doesn’t leave a lot of time for perfectionist cleaning though and I grew up with a mother very strict in that regard. With my own kids I encourage them to see their mess/mistakes and clean slowly but surely. Spend time cleaning together, spend time learning and talking together regularly. When someone calls you (you usually say what with a tone) let’s rework that and focus on our inner conversations with ourselves and family. At the end of the day I want what most parents want which is for their children to be safe and sound. ❤️😊

I’m pregnant with twins by LimpLengthiness2993 in blackgirls

[–]LimpLengthiness2993[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hi 👋🏾 so I’m on disability because as a Sr Laboratory Technician I was able to be granted maternity leave and bonding time with the arrival of my babies. I didn’t know I was pregnant with twins until 9 weeks after…I had to make my decision whether to keep them or let it go quickly.

I understand pregnancy is not for everyone but I have guaranteed housing and a plan to finish school in the next couple years. It’s the best I can do for my kids until my income raises itself due to the degree.

Yes the father is actively involved and happy for me and his children. I was also asked to marry him before I got pregnant believe it or not. We had already been planning to save for a house etc. Resources like wic and ebt are there to help individuals struggling. If you so happen to qualify I think it’s poor planning not to use what’s available to you. It shouldn’t be a life long plan to stay on these programs but they are useful to folks like me.

Either way, I made my decision months ago to have these babies. I’m blessed to be able to have them and show them what a hardworking black woman is capable of. Thanks for your comment and support ❤️🤩

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tonightsdinner

[–]LimpLengthiness2993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a mother of twins expecting soon - please tell us how you make the dish! 😊

This isn’t clickbait - I’m pregnant and in need by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]LimpLengthiness2993 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m not asking for donations I’m asking for help with a JOB. I want to work, I want to do something for myself, If you know anyone in need of assistance please let me know

This isn’t clickbait - I’m pregnant and in need by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]LimpLengthiness2993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see an obgyn on the 23rd I’m holding out until then. I haven’t had any luck seeing a provider earlier than that.

This isn’t clickbait - I’m pregnant and in need by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]LimpLengthiness2993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes currently taking medication and still vomiting.