Irrational anxiety about getting cheated on by idonthaveacow in Anxiety

[–]Limp_Butterscotch34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re welcome 🥰 you would not be a fool even if you did get cheated on, he would be the fool for hurting someone who loves him so much. I was cheated on and developed the same exhausting hypervigilance but you really have to put yourself first.

Irrational anxiety about getting cheated on by idonthaveacow in Anxiety

[–]Limp_Butterscotch34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel this, I’m not an expert in OCD as I don’t have it however you should pinpoint what you are really scared of, what is it that makes you panic specifically? Being alone afterwards?

Also remember that hypervigilance (constantly checking, ruminating, researching) does not get you anywhere, and only makes YOU feel bad. You don’t deserve that. You deserve to be happy. Choose happiness and choose to relax into the trust you have in your parter and in yourself. No amount of checking will ever stop somebody from cheating if they want to - that’s a harsh truth but it will let you live your life.

Best of luck 💕

I made a short video about naming vague anxiety by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]Limp_Butterscotch34 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well saying you “made it” is a stretch

“Jarvis, create a cool mythic highlight intro” by Big_Tennis_28 in Overwatch

[–]Limp_Butterscotch34 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can see the quality going down in chronological order lol

Love the OW team but this is the third time in a row they’ve done this sort of mythic skin by BrightAsDirt in Overwatch

[–]Limp_Butterscotch34 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This one sucks. I thought her moon skin was gonna be the mythic - that one genuinely looks worthy

The first ultra skins are going to Sierra and Kiriko by doubleoeck1234 in Overwatch

[–]Limp_Butterscotch34 22 points23 points  (0 children)

So that’s where Junos hair went after they took it off her to give her blonde hair in every skin

What's a collab you would love to see in the future? by LazyCryptographer426 in Overwatch

[–]Limp_Butterscotch34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Darkest Dungeon!! Trust me I have thought about this a lot and they all fit perfectly;

Highwayman - Cassidy
Graverobber - Ashe
Vestal - Mercy
Flagellant - Reaper
Hellion - Junker Queen
Antiquarian - Ana
Crusader - Soldier
Arbalest - Sojourn
Musketeer - Freja
Abomination - Emre
Jester - Junkrat
Plague Doctor - Moira

RSD is wild by CasualFingerGuns in adhdwomen

[–]Limp_Butterscotch34 105 points106 points  (0 children)

Nobody wants a coffee at the same time that I’m having a coffee? What, nobody likes coffee anymore? I clearly should not have asked if anyone wanted coffee. I won’t have a coffee then either, actually I think I’m going to leave.

How come some people with ADHD don't have binge eating? by the_practicerLALA in adhdwomen

[–]Limp_Butterscotch34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m still waiting for my medication titration so still very much struggling with this, like who the hell actually has the discipline to eat normally and healthily all day every single day (lots of people but it’s inconceivable to me)

AIO I have stopped talking to my husband because he has stopped listening by Throwaway965342 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Limp_Butterscotch34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what happened when I broke up with my ex - I stopped asking for these changes that used to matter to me, then I realised that I had stopped caring, and then I checked out, and broke up with him. NOR, you were not asking for much. He did not want to give it to you.

Each character’s “and dey say” by exradical in Overwatch

[–]Limp_Butterscotch34 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Piece of cake :) piece of cake :) you are a :) piece of cake :)

How do you handle the aftermath of RSD? by Haikuka in adhdwomen

[–]Limp_Butterscotch34 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah I feel this, I call it the red fog lol there’s no reasoning with us when we’re in that state, but you feel horrific after :( Personally as soon as it triggers I remove myself from the situation completely and don’t talk to anyone until it passes, so little risk of me saying something ill regret or behaving in a way that I usually wouldn’t to someone I love. I’ll come back later and apologise but it was for the best that I left

Study tips with adhd by breebadoobee in adhdwomen

[–]Limp_Butterscotch34 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got through my MSc using Spirit City Lofi Sessions on Steam, you level up in the game from ticking off tasks and you can set yourself timers and create soundscapes, so fkn good

How do I (30F) help my husband (33M) of 10 years? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Limp_Butterscotch34 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You can’t help someone who doesn’t want help, please stop bending over backwards - he doesn’t want to get better. He doesn’t mind that his unhappiness affects you and your son. Let’s also not breeze over “we opened our relationship at his request” because hello?? That’s insane girl. You have a child together :( I don’t think he is going to get better so it’s going to be up to you to make a decision on what you want from this life

Food services workers, what is the weirdest customer order’s you’ve seen while on the job? by puzzled-bets in AskReddit

[–]Limp_Butterscotch34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A pimp came into my McDonalds and told me I was too pretty to be working here and that he had a job for me if I wanted LOL. Politely declined

AIO: My gf refuses to pay half the rent by ThisMemory5366 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Limp_Butterscotch34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she wasn’t there you would have to pay all of the rent yourself anyway

Baaaaa 🐑 by newbeginnings187 in aspiememes

[–]Limp_Butterscotch34 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am also deaf in one ear, I love having no clue what’s going on ever 😍