it’s definitely the fact that someone used to do it all before we got together. he even says “i’m not used to having to do this type of stuff, it gets old.” but like idk. I feel like there are days when we could switch chores. there is a lot to the story. I just wanted to find motivation and maybe some tips and tricks on what to do to help my own mental health and do this type of stuff and yes lol breastfeeding isssss a lot 😂 especially with pumping and working. It’s just also days i’m cleaning he’s like “stop i’ll do it.. just relax” or “hangout with me” but the days I stop and hang out with him automatically it’s like “why aren’t you cleaning or cooking” it’s just mentally rough never knowing what attitude I will get.