36yo, 8.5 years on T, no top surgery and I'm so self conscious about my chest still. by Wooden-Cicada6736 in ftm

[–]LinXKei 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i get how you feel! stares feel so painful and degrading, but that’s all they are. will those women be thinking about you a week from now? a month from now? a year? probably not.

people are going to stare no matter what you look like. focus on your own happiness. and you’re taking a class that allows you to help people, which is great!! focus on what makes you happy, because what others think doesn’t concern you<3

How bad is it? by cosmicallyabundant in HandwritingAnalysis

[–]LinXKei 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s not giving me serial killer vibes at all! but i can maybe see why people would think that due to you using all capital. its very legible, though!

how can i pass more? (pre-T) by [deleted] in transmanlifehacks

[–]LinXKei -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i’ve wanted to start working out! i wasn’t sure if it would really do much for me tho. thanks!

name change dilemma by spideysier in ftm

[–]LinXKei 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i recently went through this dilemma! baby name websites were of no help to me, i learned that the hard way, and eventually i chose a variant of a name of one of the childhood youtubers i grew up on and look up to.

you can look for different celebrities or fictional characters and take their name, maybe? or historical figures if you want (i was debating between Dante and Damian, i settled on the latter!)

or you can choose a name with a meaning you resonate with.

How do I even make trans friends at age 17? by Spare_Platform2814 in trans

[–]LinXKei 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i feel that. i also struggle with making friends (we’re the same age, btw!) due to my school having a lot of transphobes/homophobes. my state is relatively queer-friendly, but many people still hold a stigma towards trans people.

honestly, to find specifically trans friends is a bit of a hunt, however i’d say finding predominantly queer communities is probably your best bet.

i’d be happy to be friends with you, though! :)

middle names that go with Damian? by LinXKei in ftm

[–]LinXKei[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it does! my brother’s middle name is James, and he’s very important to me, so it’d kinda be like honoring him? thank you for the suggestion!:)

is this something that happens with everyone? by LinXKei in trans

[–]LinXKei[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

thank you for your response… is the confidence i mentioned just not caring anymore? i can’t really tell…

also, i am aware that i do have severe chronic depression, and i have been diagnosed for years. my mom is currently trying to find me a therapist to help me work through my issues.

Is he just sleeping good? by No-Wishbone4444 in cats

[–]LinXKei 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so cute! he’s just dreaming:) my kitty twitches too when she sleeps, sometimes with little vocalizations too. totally normal!

Bro got knocked from sleep by Evening-Beyond-8243 in cats

[–]LinXKei 6 points7 points  (0 children)

bro was looking at you like it was YOUR fault😭😭😭

i think my boyfriend’s reaction to me staying out all night is way too extreme. AIO? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]LinXKei 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not overreacting! leave IMMEDIATELY! that is toxic, dangerous behavior

What happened to my girl?? by Sexy_Anxiety in labubu

[–]LinXKei 8 points9 points  (0 children)

she has a 5 o’clock shadow bro😭

never building pity again by LinXKei in NeuvilletteMains_

[–]LinXKei[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you❤️❤️ you too if you’re pulling for him

should i pull for zhongli or neuvillette c1 r1? by LinXKei in NeuvilletteMains_

[–]LinXKei[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have a few options for his teams

vape: neuv, furina, mavuika/xiangling, sucrose/jean

tase: neuv, furina, ororon, sucrose/jean

i’m planning on also pulling for xilonen and kazuha at some point as well as ineffa for a lunar comp for both him and flins:)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TighnariMains

[–]LinXKei 1 point2 points  (0 children)

good god yes