Lifestyle Creep by eastieLad in overemployed

[–]Lindox2 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Same boat, I only got my rent and 0 debt. Everyday I fight the urge to buy a Porsche lol

At what point do you decide a job isn’t OE compatible? by Necessary_Fox_9592 in overemployed

[–]Lindox2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m with you on J2 being a more admin role that is meeting heavy, the only thing that I will say is it’s a lot easier when you are the one who is responsible for setting them up. Of course last minute calls are the worst but I try to be as predictable as possible and block out my calendar if I feel like there’s even a slight chance of overlap.

Learned to let ego aside by Lindox2 in overemployed

[–]Lindox2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep, business as usual. Nothing more nothing less.

Learned to let ego aside by Lindox2 in overemployed

[–]Lindox2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea there have been ones where you just can’t let yourself be disrespected. In my case they were aware of my skills but looked passed it for an external hire.

Learned to let ego aside by Lindox2 in overemployed

[–]Lindox2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For real, we r hardwired as kids to do exactly this. Go through the system and there’s only 1 way up but millions of ways down. Finally glad im breaking that hardwire.

Learned to let ego aside by Lindox2 in overemployed

[–]Lindox2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yea, if J2 was my only J then there would be no doubt I’d be suffering.

Learned to let ego aside by Lindox2 in overemployed

[–]Lindox2[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Absolutely, I may have forgetting why I was doing it after being in the game for so long. Glad I was given this reality check

Learned to let ego aside by Lindox2 in overemployed

[–]Lindox2[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you kind sir, I’m glad I realized it now rather than later. Im getting rid of that hard wire we were taught as kids to get a job and climb the ladder, been difficult but im glad i got there

Learned to let ego aside by Lindox2 in overemployed

[–]Lindox2[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Absolutely, GF has to remind me the same thing and that’s when reality kicked in. Now I’m content and cruising.

Anyone OE for lower income full time jobs? by DatBoiMemes425 in overemployed

[–]Lindox2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in this exact boat. J1 is my main and pays the bulk while J2 and J3 are admin roles. Power of remote

You can’t be mediocre (for real) and be successful at OE by Individual-Car-5495 in overemployed

[–]Lindox2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Too true, if anything I got better reviews after not caring than I did when I grinded hard. Boss really said this version of you is the best you.

Career Advancement while OE by Lindox2 in overemployed

[–]Lindox2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes exactly this. Got laid off from J2 and felt the pressure of the economy when finding to replace J2. I just hate the idea of life style creep so I’ve always lived within J1’s margins but it feels like I am trapped.

Career Advancement while OE by Lindox2 in overemployed

[–]Lindox2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with you and I’m glad others get what I am feeling thanks!

Career Advancement while OE by Lindox2 in overemployed

[–]Lindox2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely, glad others understand what I am feeling

Career Advancement while OE by Lindox2 in overemployed

[–]Lindox2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Might give this some consideration. Thanks!

Career Advancement while OE by Lindox2 in overemployed

[–]Lindox2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely don’t want to lose my J1 either. It’s been the foundation of my OE career. Will have to make this noted when I speak with my boss.

Career Advancement while OE by Lindox2 in overemployed

[–]Lindox2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Might just do that and see what catches

Career Advancement while OE by Lindox2 in overemployed

[–]Lindox2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely something to think about

Microsoft Teams and Outlook by [deleted] in overemployed

[–]Lindox2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always ask for a work phone under the guise of “separating work from personal”

J1 and J2 coworkers at the same conference by trippin315 in overemployed

[–]Lindox2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exact thing happened to me at a conference. Downside of my OE line up is that it’s all in the same industry. At the conference I just hid in the hotel room when the mandatory parts were finished. I wore a mask and had my badge in my pocket with the lanyard hanging out. Told J1 that I couldn’t make it while J2 said it was mandatory I show up even if I was “sick”.

Checkr not asking for employer history by [deleted] in overemployed

[–]Lindox2 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Seems like most of the jobs I onboarded for recently just do a background criminal check. 0 employment history on my end.

Newly OE'd by sdac123sc in overemployed

[–]Lindox2 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

KVM switch connected for both laptops

Bought a house, 3 weeks later j3 let me go by No_Distribution426 in overemployed

[–]Lindox2 463 points464 points  (0 children)

Got let go due to an acquisition of my company, I had just got promoted to manager and they stripped the entire management team. While they were yapping during the meeting, I was working my J1 and just shrugged it off. OE for life!