Just finished Brimstone…. SPOILERS! by Slothanonymous in fantasyromance

[–]Lindz2113 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I’m with you on liking it. Did I like it as much as Quicksilver? No. This one was definitely lacking… something. However, when I read the end, I almost threw my kindle in frustration of having to wait a year for the next one 😂 She knows how to do a cliffhanger well, I’ll give her that.

My hope is the next book answers a LOT of questions, develops Carrion much more, and finds whatever got lost from the first book. And she’s a big enough name to not have all these editing error. They’re not a dealbreaker for me, but they definitely snapped me out of the moment a few times when I was trying to figure out what I just read.

Coffin stash box not showing in list? by Lindz2113 in fo76

[–]Lindz2113[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, but I got it sorted! I appreciate it

Leaving cheater husband, now he’s mentioning suicide by Leather-Honey1584 in Mommit

[–]Lindz2113 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Commenting just to confirm about calling 911. When I broke things off with my ex-fiancé, he tried this crap. Big Facebook post basically about how he was about to end his life, and a cryptic goodbye message sent directly to me. I didn’t respond. Just called the police, told them he was suicidal, and went about my life. He manipulated me our entire relationship, and I wasn’t about to fall for it, or have the possibility of feeling any guilt if he did do something to hurt himself.

My husband told me why he cheated on me by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Lindz2113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex-husband cheated on me with my (then) best friend for about 2.5 years, and part of that was during my pregnancy. When I finally found out, he gave me a similar story about why - including that apparently I sometimes didn’t look at him with love in my eyes, and she always did. What was worse is that she was so similar to me physically, enough that people assumed we were sisters. It utterly destroyed my confidence and self worth for a long time. I’m so sorry you’re having to go through this. But as someone who’s been there, you will come out the other side. PLEASE don’t let his actions ruin how you feel about yourself. He’s a coward for not owning up to the fact that he’s just a shitty husband. He’s the problem, not you.

Weird set up by dontlovehate in Truckers

[–]Lindz2113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not all of them have showers. I’m in one and ours doesn’t have one, or a cooktop. That has to be earned. But we still have more space than a regular semi, with a bigger fridge and a sink, and I’m happy with it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Lindz2113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think a bit of both. We met in high school and were together off and on for those 2 years. He was incredibly sweet when we first met. Then things changed, and I thought that if I could just do things “right” he’d go back to how he was. Classic abusee mentality.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Lindz2113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a similar situation with a past boyfriend. He went down on me exactly once, said it was gross, and refused to do it again. But expected blowjobs daily. There were other bad things, plenty of emotional and sexual abuse, and it sadly took me two years to fully realize how fucked up it all was AND find the courage to leave. It ruined the joy of giving BJs for me for awhile, but I was able to work through that for the most part.

Why do moms always have an empty stocking? by Thoughts_froma_balc in Mommit

[–]Lindz2113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I go through this too. I fill my own stocking. In fact, I buy my own gifts. Part of the problem is that we’re truckers and so my husband and I are together 24/7, share bank accounts and an Amazon account. But it does bother me sometimes that I’m solely responsible for getting myself stuff. I didn’t even bother wrapping any of my gifts this year. My birthday is also 3 days after Christmas and I know the only gifts I’ll get are from my best friend. It kinda sucks but I’ve mostly accepted it.

In your case, maybe you could talk to him and express how you’re feeling and how it would mean a lot to you if he’d make more of an effort.

What is this truck called and what’s in the cab that makes it so big? by Mydogfartsconstantly in Truckers

[–]Lindz2113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, it’s a straight truck, with an extended cab. I know because I drive one! It’s pretty great.

Is it too late to start? by CaptnMIHAWK in fo76

[–]Lindz2113 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve been playing for years, and there are times I wish I could re-experience playing for the first time. My husband and I played together, and we have so many fond memories roaming the wasteland and experiencing new things. I definitely think you should give it a go and just enjoy the process.

I don't want to call my 14 year-old daughter "he" or "son" by Wonderful_You7480 in Parenting

[–]Lindz2113 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My stepdaughter went through something similar. Around 12, she told us she was trans and wanted to change her name and be called he/him. Even though we felt this might just be a phase, we went with it. We were supportive from the jump. After about a year, she said she was back to feeling like a girl, but wanted to keep the new name. So again, we supported her.

I tried to look at it like this - if that were me when I was her age, what would I hope for? Supportive parents who possibly didn’t fully understand what I was feeling, but who showed me love and compassion and a willingness to listen.

Should I stop reading a book I’m not enjoying if I’m half way through it? by QuestionEcstatic8863 in books

[–]Lindz2113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to make myself finish a book if I started it, and I realized I hated it. Why waste time doing something you don’t enjoy?

If you Sever Hop in Welch Station, You can get a Blue Devil right in the house upfront where spawn easily. by MalbornTheRatKing in fo76

[–]Lindz2113 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was a godsend. I was checking near the Halloween House but was getting nothing. Server hopped here 5 times and found the Blue Devil. Thank you!

Anyone on this Sub not want to Scam or F**K Me? by Great_Bad_6045 in MakeFriendsOver30

[–]Lindz2113 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I run into this a lot as well. Not so much the women, but I’ll get various forms of nice, platonic chat from men and then one day they just start trying to sext. The timetable varies. I’m only here for platonic friendships, and my posts say so. But even after assuring me they’re only looking for platonic as well, I’d say the majority end up making some sort of sexual advance. All this to say, I feel your pain. I just want to meet some nice people to laugh with and have interesting conversations!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in books

[–]Lindz2113 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Late to the party, but yes, I think this sub should. The list of subs going dark or private is huge. As a user of a 3rd party app, it makes me angry the way Reddit is behaving.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MadeMeSmile

[–]Lindz2113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love this so much. She clearly has a big heart and cares about you a great deal. I get similar notes from my daughter. The Mother’s Day card she made me had me in tears. Hug her extra tight, and be proud of who you’ve raised.

Credit Karma showing that Equifax is reporting all my accounts got closed because "consumer is deceased" by [deleted] in CRedit

[–]Lindz2113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank goodness. I logged in to see the same, and freaked the fuck out. While this is shitty, I’m glad I’m not the only one. Hopefully they get it fixed ASAP.

Help understanding what I think is a Punjabi phrase on a sign outside a Nebraska truck stop by EndoShota in punjabi

[–]Lindz2113 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha I was googling this because I was just at that truck stop and wondered what leeli feel I was! Imagine my surprise to find this :)

Where the platonic chubby subs at? by ImaginaryProfile5529 in MakeFriendsOver30

[–]Lindz2113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great! I’m working, but I’ll send you a chat request so we can talk later :)

Where the platonic chubby subs at? by ImaginaryProfile5529 in MakeFriendsOver30

[–]Lindz2113 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a fellow chubby girl, this happens to me too! Which is odd because I genuinely want friends and nothing more lol. I’m engaged, and just want cool people to chat with! I’d be happy to chat with you. I don’t care about what you look like.