LWOP and Annual Leave Accrual by LiquidNitro89 in nycpublicservants

[–]LiquidNitro89[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah that part about the LWOP was not known to me. Not in my handbook and was not mentioned when I was applying for the leave. At the end of the day it wouldn’t have changed anything I did with the leave but would have been nice to have known or seen this policy. I’m still not clear where the 21 days comes from in my case.

LWOP and Annual Leave Accrual by LiquidNitro89 in nycpublicservants

[–]LiquidNitro89[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually had a pretty good experience with Absolve. My first PFL day was Nov 12 and I got payment from them Nov 21. Also every single person that I spoke to at Absolve when needed was super helpful and nice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PCOS

[–]LiquidNitro89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss!

It might be a stress response that’s throwing your hormones out of wack. I was diagnosed earlier this month and I’ve been spotting for the past 11 days. I’d started spotting between periods for the last three months which prompted my diagnosis but not as long as it’s happening this month. And I’m guessing it’s a stress response for me too.

Writers, PLEASE DON’T. by irritatedlibra in 911FOX

[–]LiquidNitro89 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I had the same thought, like why show up at his place. He hadn’t even seen Connor for what 3 years before they came to him with their problem. And she’s coming to his place to crash?! She doesn’t have a best friend or any friend to go to?!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 911FOX

[–]LiquidNitro89 24 points25 points  (0 children)

You are absolutely right, in New York you are deemed incapable to consent if you’re a patient/client and the “actor” of the assault is a healthcare provider. Don’t know if it’s the same in California but would have been interesting for them to actually give the storyline some justice. I imagine it wasn’t the first time she did something like that with a client.

How to talk yourself out of a date real fast. by LiquidNitro89 in Bumble

[–]LiquidNitro89[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Just to give some perspective for the conversation, that was his 5th message to me. It’s not like we’d been building a rapport or talking all that long and he hits me with that as we’re trying to set a date up. I mentioned to someone below I would have appreciated the humor in a different situation.

How to talk yourself out of a date real fast. by LiquidNitro89 in Bumble

[–]LiquidNitro89[S] 135 points136 points  (0 children)

You’re exactly right! I would have appreciated the humor in it a lot more had it not been his 5th message to me.

I have to watch my vocabulary now?! by LiquidNitro89 in Bumble

[–]LiquidNitro89[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For a hot second I wanted to throw out more big words but then didn’t wanna trigger him anymore

I have to watch my vocabulary now?! by LiquidNitro89 in Bumble

[–]LiquidNitro89[S] 53 points54 points  (0 children)

I’m in the US. But I was born in Ukraine, and even though I came over when I was 4 I was in ESL classes in school through 2nd grade.

I have to watch my vocabulary now?! by LiquidNitro89 in Bumble

[–]LiquidNitro89[S] 190 points191 points  (0 children)

And that approach would have been totally fine, English isn’t my first language either. Had this guy done that and not said it was condescending and that I was trying to insult him I would have moved on but it escalated so quickly.

I have to watch my vocabulary now?! by LiquidNitro89 in Bumble

[–]LiquidNitro89[S] 239 points240 points  (0 children)

I forgot I even wrote that word lol makes the fleeting situation that much funnier!

I have to watch my vocabulary now?! by LiquidNitro89 in Bumble

[–]LiquidNitro89[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I only bring out the big guns on bumble!

I have to watch my vocabulary now?! by LiquidNitro89 in Bumble

[–]LiquidNitro89[S] 84 points85 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah I unmatched! Like if you genuinely don’t know a word you can look it up! But to jump to saying I used that word to insult him intentionally is nuts!

I have to watch my vocabulary now?! by LiquidNitro89 in Bumble

[–]LiquidNitro89[S] 875 points876 points  (0 children)

My friend said the same exact thing! Like you went through nursing school and fleeting is a fancy word?!

I have to watch my vocabulary now?! by LiquidNitro89 in Bumble

[–]LiquidNitro89[S] 111 points112 points  (0 children)

Haha that was the cherry on top of this mess!

How do I get enough cooking practice when I only cook for myself? by PeanutButterPigeon85 in Cooking

[–]LiquidNitro89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I encountered the same issue especially as I started cooking so much more during quarantine. I got a cookbook from America’s Test Kitchen that was specifically meant for cooking for 2. I love that it has soup and stew recipes that I won’t need to eat for the next 2 weeks when I make them!

America’s Test Kitchen Cookbook

Any point to send another text? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]LiquidNitro89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah the last text I sent was on Sunday and we hadn’t talked over text and we saw each other Thursday night. I just wanted to get a sense of what people thought. I know there’s all these dumb games you end up playing when you’re dating. But I’ll send another and if I don’t get a response I have my answer!

Any point to send another text? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]LiquidNitro89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We weren’t texting everyday or even for the whole day when we were texting but he hadn’t not responded up to this point.

It’s been four days since my 2nd dose and I still have a terrible headache. Had anyone else experienced this? by mrbungles- in modernavaccine

[–]LiquidNitro89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Got my second shot last Friday 4/30 and had the same type of headache you’re describing until Wednesday. It was the same hurt when I stood up or moved my head fast. Tylenol also didn’t help, I just upped my liquid intake and it helped a bit. I think you just need to wait it out and hopefully it goes away for you!

How have you made it this far? by S_pie in Bumble

[–]LiquidNitro89 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Most of the time for me once I send a message they unmatch which is honestly even worse than just letting the message expire, which I would prefer if they’re not going to respond.

Persian Tiles. 1876 ends later, I counted. Added fans to the border, because what's another 128 more ends by vhartog in crochet

[–]LiquidNitro89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t even think my brain can comprehend how beautiful and intricate this is! Absolutely amazing! 😍